How to break up a very introvert Capricorn guy?!
Question: How to break up a very introvert Capricorn guy!?
I have decided to break up a 1 and half year boyfriend for the reasons:
1!. He is very workaholic, that sometimes when he is out of town for business won't even bothered to call me for in 3 weeks!.!.!.
2!. Very passive lover, he always wants that I am the one who gives sweet affection and pursue him everyday, and never really think of what I like for a romance!.!.!.
3!. Not expressive!. I'm tired of his non- verbal gestures when he is not in the mood or if there is something that he feels hurtful on what I did , he simply withdraws and doesn't want to talk about it!. At first I'm always the one who actively initiates communication, but now I am really tired!.!.!.
4!. He always thinks he is right and not considerate
I decided to break him up silently because two weeks ago, he didn't communicate to me again!.!.!. I am feed up!. Now he is back , and acting like we were still together!.!.!. How will I break up with him!? He will surely ask for reasons, How will I tell him all this!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
1!. He is very workaholic, that sometimes when he is out of town for business won't even bothered to call me for in 3 weeks!.!.!.
2!. Very passive lover, he always wants that I am the one who gives sweet affection and pursue him everyday, and never really think of what I like for a romance!.!.!.
3!. Not expressive!. I'm tired of his non- verbal gestures when he is not in the mood or if there is something that he feels hurtful on what I did , he simply withdraws and doesn't want to talk about it!. At first I'm always the one who actively initiates communication, but now I am really tired!.!.!.
4!. He always thinks he is right and not considerate
I decided to break him up silently because two weeks ago, he didn't communicate to me again!.!.!. I am feed up!. Now he is back , and acting like we were still together!.!.!. How will I break up with him!? He will surely ask for reasons, How will I tell him all this!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Honey, I've been with a Cap for the past SIX years, and it will never change!. Once he did surprise me roses and a card!. Once in six years!.
Mine isn't verbal either, I'll ask him his opinion, he'll say he agrees with me and won't further what he's trying to say!. Mine also never initiates anything in the bedroom, is never fired up (outwardly) about anything, and is very much a loner!.
Caps have thick walls, and trying to "communicate" gives things an air of formality that they will not like at all!.
Soo!.!.!.I understand what you're going through!. Don't have a big sit down discussion, it will only make him more introverted!. Explain to him that you want to be with someone who is more passionate about life, that you feel that he doesn't care about your relationship because he doesn't call, because he doesn't tell you what's bothering him so you can fix your behavior, etc!.
Ask him if the reason he doesn't call or talk to you is that he doesn't feel it's necessary!. That's a biggie for caps, if they don't feel there'll be anything gained by doing something, then they won't do it!. Then explain to him that, while there might not be much in it for him, it means a lot to you!.
Whatever you do, don't make it all about you, make it about the relationship, and how IT isn't surviving/thriving!. The more personal you make it the less likely he'll be to listen!.
Hope this helps!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Mine isn't verbal either, I'll ask him his opinion, he'll say he agrees with me and won't further what he's trying to say!. Mine also never initiates anything in the bedroom, is never fired up (outwardly) about anything, and is very much a loner!.
Caps have thick walls, and trying to "communicate" gives things an air of formality that they will not like at all!.
Soo!.!.!.I understand what you're going through!. Don't have a big sit down discussion, it will only make him more introverted!. Explain to him that you want to be with someone who is more passionate about life, that you feel that he doesn't care about your relationship because he doesn't call, because he doesn't tell you what's bothering him so you can fix your behavior, etc!.
Ask him if the reason he doesn't call or talk to you is that he doesn't feel it's necessary!. That's a biggie for caps, if they don't feel there'll be anything gained by doing something, then they won't do it!. Then explain to him that, while there might not be much in it for him, it means a lot to you!.
Whatever you do, don't make it all about you, make it about the relationship, and how IT isn't surviving/thriving!. The more personal you make it the less likely he'll be to listen!.
Hope this helps!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I would just tell him all the reasons you just listed or just tell him "you bore me"!. You dont have explain why!.
What I did was when my ex asked me why i said "Think about it!." and I was done!. He doesnt deserve a reason why!. He sounds like a jerk and especially if youve put up with him for that long I wouldnt even consider giving him an reason!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
What I did was when my ex asked me why i said "Think about it!." and I was done!. He doesnt deserve a reason why!. He sounds like a jerk and especially if youve put up with him for that long I wouldnt even consider giving him an reason!.Www@Enter-QA@Com