How do you leave it up to fate?!
Question: How do you leave it up to fate!?
I am a Virgo and always want to be in control of everything!. How do you just let things go!? Leave them up to a higher being!? It is really hard for me to let go of that!. Any suggestions!?!?!?
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Answers:
hi kelly,
i guess people always want to control!. But the best relisation for me is that many things you will just have to trust in the best thing will happen!.
I think that the key thing is to think positive, because i believe that what we think attracts things into our lives, if we are always positive and hopeful in our thoughts then our lives will start improving, so in a way our minds, without doing anything, CAN control situations!. When you let go of things and go with the flow you have the greatest advantage, and people who can learn to do this, realise- whatever happens to them, trust they will be alright because in their mind they will focus on being happy!. i hope that made sense!.
for example, i will jump into something i am scared off that, but i will know that if it ends badly, i have been happy before this situation, i can always gain my happiness back if i choose to
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aqua rising
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i guess people always want to control!. But the best relisation for me is that many things you will just have to trust in the best thing will happen!.
I think that the key thing is to think positive, because i believe that what we think attracts things into our lives, if we are always positive and hopeful in our thoughts then our lives will start improving, so in a way our minds, without doing anything, CAN control situations!. When you let go of things and go with the flow you have the greatest advantage, and people who can learn to do this, realise- whatever happens to them, trust they will be alright because in their mind they will focus on being happy!. i hope that made sense!.
for example, i will jump into something i am scared off that, but i will know that if it ends badly, i have been happy before this situation, i can always gain my happiness back if i choose to
im a cancer
aqua rising
mars leoWww@Enter-QA@Com
Hi Kelly,
I have to admit this is a very interesting question, because I have a "small" problem with letting go myself!.!.!.
But just like every necessary change, even becoming less "in control" requires control!.!.!.(LOL, I think I sound like a Cap now)!. In other words, only *you* know how to relax yourself and make yourself do whatever you want!.!.!.It's a matter of mental discipline and habit, I think!.
Perhaps it would help if you tried to trust other people more so that you would keep less control to yourself!.!.!.Or in case you have a problem with that, try to find a way of distracting yourself from daily obligations and convince yourself that everything will fall in place when it is needed!.!.!.!.Sometimes you just have to drop down the blinds and relax before you get burnt out!.!.!.and perhaps devoting some time to yourself is the best way to do that!.
Hope this helps a little bit =)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have to admit this is a very interesting question, because I have a "small" problem with letting go myself!.!.!.
But just like every necessary change, even becoming less "in control" requires control!.!.!.(LOL, I think I sound like a Cap now)!. In other words, only *you* know how to relax yourself and make yourself do whatever you want!.!.!.It's a matter of mental discipline and habit, I think!.
Perhaps it would help if you tried to trust other people more so that you would keep less control to yourself!.!.!.Or in case you have a problem with that, try to find a way of distracting yourself from daily obligations and convince yourself that everything will fall in place when it is needed!.!.!.!.Sometimes you just have to drop down the blinds and relax before you get burnt out!.!.!.and perhaps devoting some time to yourself is the best way to do that!.
Hope this helps a little bit =)Www@Enter-QA@Com
hi Kelly !
Yes I can say I like to be somewhat in control also but am not much of a leader!.!.!.nor a follower!.!.!.
Am a bit in la la land though!.!.!.!.!.!.!.if I find myself in a tough situation, I will brood for sure but at the same time I kind of believe that some magical genie is going come down and rescue me and things will turn around anyway!.
Call me over-optimistic at times if you wish !.!.
I think fire signs tend to be like that!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.the grass is always greener somewhere else!.!.!.!.!.!.!.might not be!.!.!.so will look again!.
Sag!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes I can say I like to be somewhat in control also but am not much of a leader!.!.!.nor a follower!.!.!.
Am a bit in la la land though!.!.!.!.!.!.!.if I find myself in a tough situation, I will brood for sure but at the same time I kind of believe that some magical genie is going come down and rescue me and things will turn around anyway!.
Call me over-optimistic at times if you wish !.!.
I think fire signs tend to be like that!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.the grass is always greener somewhere else!.!.!.!.!.!.!.might not be!.!.!.so will look again!.
Sag!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a Virgo and trying to do the same!. Each day I try to adapt another way of thinking, but my Virgoness always bites me in the a**!.
Good luck to us both!. I do know, it will be well worth the wait!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Good luck to us both!. I do know, it will be well worth the wait!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
go with the flow there my virgo buddy,I too am Virgo,and that is the best advice I can offer you!.:) Good LuckWww@Enter-QA@Com
I agree with Krsty B, if you think positive and have a positive outlook than positve things will happen and you will more likely attract positive people to you!.!.!.!.Of course we can't always control life!.!.!.everything has a purpose (even the bad stuff)!. I find I can apply this way of thinking easier if I spend a little time with nature!.!.!.!.watch, listen and try to feel the 'energy' around you!.!.!.you can learn much from this technique, it also helps with inner reflection which can also be helpful when searching for own reasoning behind our actions!.
I beleive our wanting to be in control is partly a kind of fear that we are unaware of!.!.!.!.fear of the unknown (if you will) for the possible outcome of anothers actions rather than our own!. I also beleive this to be another fear!.!.!.letting go and just letting things be!.!.!.!.we mostly want to control what we don't understand so that we may find understanding, though I don't beleive this works!. We want to control because we do not have trust or faith in others to do the right thing or make the best decisions!.!.!.when sometimes we need to let go, let things play out and hopefully all who are affected can learn from it (be it for good or bad)!.
I am bad for being overbearing and controlling!.!.!.especially in a pinch!.!.!.!.I think and respond quickly to any obstacle and when others just stand there with blank stares on their faes then I take over and put people to work!.!.!.!.mostly because it annoys me that others don't have the ability to react!.!.!.lol!.!.!.!.and I'm kind of anal!.!.!.lol!.!.!.but sometimes people can't learn if they are always given direction!.!.!.!.sometimes we must push those little birds out of the next and hope they learn to fly! It is a good example and analogy of nature!.!.!.birds cannot fly for their chicks!.!.!.they have to except that they either will or they won't!.!.!.!.
I think I like to be in control more to be an example that hopefully others can learn from,!.!.!.and then they can either apply it or find a way that better suits them!.!.!.!.!.some people can not be shown or taught, sometimes they really do have to learn by their own trials and errors and then sometimes they don't learn anything at all and are doomed to keep repeating the same mistakes!.!.!.these are the weaker links in the chain!.!.!.sometimes we cannot even help these types of people because they either don't care or simply don't see anything wrong with the way things are!.!.!.!.I have to let these types of people go or I end up wasting all of my own energy doing for them because they refuse to do for themselves (I am not referring to people with handicaps who do need help, I am referring to healthy people who are just lazy)!. I would rather like to do for and help those who appreciate and are willing to learn and have a desire to make things better!.!.!.then my energy can be reciprocated whether than feeling like its going down the toilet!. And sometimes just by letting go, we can reward ourselves with some positive energy!.!.!.sometimes we burden ourselves far too much and when we can let go of just one little thing that we really shouldn't hold on to or force ourselves to feel responsible for !.!.!.then we gain a little bit of energy that we can use more productively elsewhere!.!.!.!.!.
Sometimes we need to try to let go and let someone else be in charge a bit!.!.!.just to learn from them!.!.!.be it negative or positive outcome!.!.!.at least you will know what could work and what may not!.!.!.!.or even learn something that maybe you wouldn't have thought of!.!.!.!.!.
I hope this wasn't confusing ,!.!.!.lol!.!.!.I cut it a little short just because I didn't want anyone who read this to start seeing, "whawawhaawhawawa!.!.!." !.!.!.!.!.lol!
Sun/Sag :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I beleive our wanting to be in control is partly a kind of fear that we are unaware of!.!.!.!.fear of the unknown (if you will) for the possible outcome of anothers actions rather than our own!. I also beleive this to be another fear!.!.!.letting go and just letting things be!.!.!.!.we mostly want to control what we don't understand so that we may find understanding, though I don't beleive this works!. We want to control because we do not have trust or faith in others to do the right thing or make the best decisions!.!.!.when sometimes we need to let go, let things play out and hopefully all who are affected can learn from it (be it for good or bad)!.
I am bad for being overbearing and controlling!.!.!.especially in a pinch!.!.!.!.I think and respond quickly to any obstacle and when others just stand there with blank stares on their faes then I take over and put people to work!.!.!.!.mostly because it annoys me that others don't have the ability to react!.!.!.lol!.!.!.!.and I'm kind of anal!.!.!.lol!.!.!.but sometimes people can't learn if they are always given direction!.!.!.!.sometimes we must push those little birds out of the next and hope they learn to fly! It is a good example and analogy of nature!.!.!.birds cannot fly for their chicks!.!.!.they have to except that they either will or they won't!.!.!.!.
I think I like to be in control more to be an example that hopefully others can learn from,!.!.!.and then they can either apply it or find a way that better suits them!.!.!.!.!.some people can not be shown or taught, sometimes they really do have to learn by their own trials and errors and then sometimes they don't learn anything at all and are doomed to keep repeating the same mistakes!.!.!.these are the weaker links in the chain!.!.!.sometimes we cannot even help these types of people because they either don't care or simply don't see anything wrong with the way things are!.!.!.!.I have to let these types of people go or I end up wasting all of my own energy doing for them because they refuse to do for themselves (I am not referring to people with handicaps who do need help, I am referring to healthy people who are just lazy)!. I would rather like to do for and help those who appreciate and are willing to learn and have a desire to make things better!.!.!.then my energy can be reciprocated whether than feeling like its going down the toilet!. And sometimes just by letting go, we can reward ourselves with some positive energy!.!.!.sometimes we burden ourselves far too much and when we can let go of just one little thing that we really shouldn't hold on to or force ourselves to feel responsible for !.!.!.then we gain a little bit of energy that we can use more productively elsewhere!.!.!.!.!.
Sometimes we need to try to let go and let someone else be in charge a bit!.!.!.just to learn from them!.!.!.be it negative or positive outcome!.!.!.at least you will know what could work and what may not!.!.!.!.or even learn something that maybe you wouldn't have thought of!.!.!.!.!.
I hope this wasn't confusing ,!.!.!.lol!.!.!.I cut it a little short just because I didn't want anyone who read this to start seeing, "whawawhaawhawawa!.!.!." !.!.!.!.!.lol!
Sun/Sag :)Www@Enter-QA@Com