What in someones chart brings out to be a"Control Freak"?!
Question: What in someones chart brings out to be a"Control Freak"!?
a person who attempts to dictate how everything around them is done!.
Thanks LaroWww@Enter-QA@Com
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Answers:
pluto on the ascendant or in angles!.
Some Leos and virgos are like that too!.!.!.
Saturn!.!.!.!.!.!.
But I would look at deeper psychological reasons though stemming from lack of inner security and self esteem!.
People who become control freaks feel that they are not in control actually - contrast here -!.and sometimes have a history of having been bullied or not respected, recognised etc!.!.!.
Those would be power issues!. The less powerful , the less in touch with themselves and doubting about their own self-worth !.a person feels the more paradoxically sometimes they want to control everything and everybody!. Fear!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
The mirror that other people give them (or possessions, status) is a method to fill the void!.
sorry!.!.!.!.!.brain a bit tired to go further!.!.
edit : oh thanks you added that she was a Virgo!. Being in control of their environment is a way sometimes to forget their inner selves and all the contradictions!. A bit like workhaholics who do not want to think about their private lives or other dilemmas!. Using the energy for one or a few purposes/goals so they do not have to be distracted by other negative thoughts or having to deal with other problems!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Some Leos and virgos are like that too!.!.!.
Saturn!.!.!.!.!.!.
But I would look at deeper psychological reasons though stemming from lack of inner security and self esteem!.
People who become control freaks feel that they are not in control actually - contrast here -!.and sometimes have a history of having been bullied or not respected, recognised etc!.!.!.
Those would be power issues!. The less powerful , the less in touch with themselves and doubting about their own self-worth !.a person feels the more paradoxically sometimes they want to control everything and everybody!. Fear!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
The mirror that other people give them (or possessions, status) is a method to fill the void!.
sorry!.!.!.!.!.brain a bit tired to go further!.!.
edit : oh thanks you added that she was a Virgo!. Being in control of their environment is a way sometimes to forget their inner selves and all the contradictions!. A bit like workhaholics who do not want to think about their private lives or other dilemmas!. Using the energy for one or a few purposes/goals so they do not have to be distracted by other negative thoughts or having to deal with other problems!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Some loose suggestions:
A lot of Capricorn or Virgo in a chart!.!.!.
Pluto or Saturn in strong positions!.!.!. perhaps first house, or squaring Venus or the Moon or Sun!.!.!.
But "control" itself is not a bad thing!.!.!. Control to the point of domination is where it goes astray!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
A lot of Capricorn or Virgo in a chart!.!.!.
Pluto or Saturn in strong positions!.!.!. perhaps first house, or squaring Venus or the Moon or Sun!.!.!.
But "control" itself is not a bad thing!.!.!. Control to the point of domination is where it goes astray!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
all the virgos i know are perfectionist, analytical, motherly, good hearted, annal control, detail driven peopleWww@Enter-QA@Com
A lot of the fire signs can be control freaks as well!. Especially aries because they tend to think there leaders which a lot of them are!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Lots of fixed sign influence would do it!. Heavy Saturn or Pluto influence too, as I think has been previously stated!.Www@Enter-QA@Com