Psychic do u think i'm that selfish with money? my family think i'am bec!
Question: Psychic do u think i'm that selfish with money!? my family think i'am because i told them, they have
to wait until my next paycheck to come so i can give them some money, but they still think i'm selfish because i didn't give them money from my first paycheck, this is my first paycheck and i want to just enjoy it, for once, and plus they are mad about how much i should get them, why can they just appreciate that at least i gave them money!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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You must be Middle Eastern!.!.!.
My family is like that too!.!.!.
I just learned to ignore them!.!.!. you don't have to give them anything if you don't want to!.!.!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
My family is like that too!.!.!.
I just learned to ignore them!.!.!. you don't have to give them anything if you don't want to!.!.!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I feel like there's information thats missing from this story!. In many other countries, its common for family members to support other family members!.
I know a Jamaican guy, living in the U!.S!., married with 3 kids!. He sends money back to his parents and brothers/sisters in jamaica every month!. And that's common in their culture!.
If you feel like your family doesn't really need it, is using you or is being greedy, then i guess don't give it to them!. If they need it, nothing wrong with helping them out (whether it's your 1st check or not!. You'll have plenty more checks coming)!. Nothing wrong with giving!. Its good karma!. It'll come right back to you one way or another!.
Bottom line is, either you're gonna give them the money or you're not!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I know a Jamaican guy, living in the U!.S!., married with 3 kids!. He sends money back to his parents and brothers/sisters in jamaica every month!. And that's common in their culture!.
If you feel like your family doesn't really need it, is using you or is being greedy, then i guess don't give it to them!. If they need it, nothing wrong with helping them out (whether it's your 1st check or not!. You'll have plenty more checks coming)!. Nothing wrong with giving!. Its good karma!. It'll come right back to you one way or another!.
Bottom line is, either you're gonna give them the money or you're not!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well it depends on what they need the money for!. Is it for bills that are needed to be paid!? If it is then its understood why they needed it your first check and couldn't wait!. And even though your a kid, somtimes responsabilities hit early!.
If your parents dont work and are mooching off of you then thats a problem and you shouldnt give them anything!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
If your parents dont work and are mooching off of you then thats a problem and you shouldnt give them anything!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Your family sounds selfish! You got aright to enjoy your money! Perhaps for each member of your family that asks for money!. You should do what my dad did when I asked for money on his payday! My dad gave me a Regal Gifts & Stationery application slip!.!. And said Earn your own money! They'll then learn to handle money! I was 9 years old when I went selling Regal Gifts & StationeryWww@Enter-QA@Com
Do you owe them any money!? If so, pay them back and be done with it!. If not, it's your money -- not theirs!. I don't know why people think because they're related to you, you should give them part of what's yours!. If you think they need help and want to help them (and are able), that's fine -- but it's your choice, not an obligation!.!.!.
Just my opinion!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Just my opinion!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Why do you need to give them money at all!. I would set ground rules now let them know that the gravy train has derailed and this is not the bank of Santhia CWww@Enter-QA@Com
You should not have to give them money/help them out--if you don't want to!. But if you do, it should be more because you want to than out of duty/responsibility (granted that will be present to a certain degree)!.
I think it is wonderful to help your parents out--if that is what you want/they really need it (but at the same time--do not let it result in bitterness--let them know how you feel)!. And, make sure that they truly appreciate any sum that you give them!.
My dad bought a new house for his parents about 5 yrs ago (he was not enthusiastic about it at all--but he felt he had to b/c he could)!. He also handed over a large sum to his youngest sister 2 yrs later (b/c her irresponsible husband got into a drunk motorcycle accident--paralyzing the lower half of his body)!. On neither occasions were they appreciative, and that really hurt him (til this day)!. Perhaps it was b/c they felt that since he made considerably more than them and was far much more intelligent, it didn't really matter so much (it seemed so natural to them)!. But despite the size of any paycheck, a lot of effort (usually) goes into acquiring it (but you and only YOU, who actually did the earning--will ever be aware that)!.
So if you do give them YOUR money, make sure that is what you want to do (to a reasonably considerable degree) and that they appreciate it (to the degree that you feel they should)!.
**His parents never offered him money--when he was young--they were really really poor (but didn't care enough to really do anything about it--which is fine, b/c parents aren't technically required to do that), but they asked him shamelessly for a large sum of money for their knew house (and they were 65 at the time!.!.!.!.kind of old)!.!.!.!.!.and never said so much as a "thank you!." A year later, he found out that they had squandered @20% of it away gambling with cards!.
They ceased all duties, had food delivered daily, and played cards with their neighbors from night until dawn, everyday, for about 8 months straight!. And after visiting the house (that was supposedly purchased with that sum)--it looked like crap (more so than it should)--very suspicious!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think it is wonderful to help your parents out--if that is what you want/they really need it (but at the same time--do not let it result in bitterness--let them know how you feel)!. And, make sure that they truly appreciate any sum that you give them!.
My dad bought a new house for his parents about 5 yrs ago (he was not enthusiastic about it at all--but he felt he had to b/c he could)!. He also handed over a large sum to his youngest sister 2 yrs later (b/c her irresponsible husband got into a drunk motorcycle accident--paralyzing the lower half of his body)!. On neither occasions were they appreciative, and that really hurt him (til this day)!. Perhaps it was b/c they felt that since he made considerably more than them and was far much more intelligent, it didn't really matter so much (it seemed so natural to them)!. But despite the size of any paycheck, a lot of effort (usually) goes into acquiring it (but you and only YOU, who actually did the earning--will ever be aware that)!.
So if you do give them YOUR money, make sure that is what you want to do (to a reasonably considerable degree) and that they appreciate it (to the degree that you feel they should)!.
**His parents never offered him money--when he was young--they were really really poor (but didn't care enough to really do anything about it--which is fine, b/c parents aren't technically required to do that), but they asked him shamelessly for a large sum of money for their knew house (and they were 65 at the time!.!.!.!.kind of old)!.!.!.!.!.and never said so much as a "thank you!." A year later, he found out that they had squandered @20% of it away gambling with cards!.
They ceased all duties, had food delivered daily, and played cards with their neighbors from night until dawn, everyday, for about 8 months straight!. And after visiting the house (that was supposedly purchased with that sum)--it looked like crap (more so than it should)--very suspicious!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com