Question for Cancers only?!
Question: Question for Cancers only!?
Do you avoid confrontation until pushed to your absolute breaking point, or do you lash out the instant you feel offended!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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i avoid confrontation, and i just get upset quietly and then later when the anger uilds up i make a decision to say something!.
cancer
- aquarius risingWww@Enter-QA@Com
cancer
- aquarius risingWww@Enter-QA@Com
honsestly, it is very difficult for me to avoid confrontation!.
i have a very, and i mean very big mouth that gets me into alot of trouble!.
my aries ascendent makes me very short tempered and touchy, so i take many comments the wrong way!. i lash out very easilly, and i use to have a HUGE anger management problem!. i was a complete loser!. i had no self control, and people got on my bad side for the smallest things!.
i am much better with controlling myself and i am proud of myself, but once in a while, a simple comment will force me to say soemthing i don't mean!.!.and then a fight will start!.
i don't really have a breaking point, honestly!. no matter how angry i get, i still am VERY aware of my surroundings!. especially when i find myself in a physical battle!.(which is something i am not proud of)!.
i am still aware of every punch i throw, every movement of my enemy!. It's like i'm some robot!. everything's blurry, and all i see is the target!. i am still very much concious with myself, so i am usually the first one to pull myself off of the person!.
honestly, i don't like hurting anyone!. i hate seeing that i made somebody feel bad about themself!.!.!.or that i hurt them badly!. I just don't know how to express my compassion without being hurt myself!.
cancer sun
aries rising
taurus moon
gemini marsWww@Enter-QA@Com
i have a very, and i mean very big mouth that gets me into alot of trouble!.
my aries ascendent makes me very short tempered and touchy, so i take many comments the wrong way!. i lash out very easilly, and i use to have a HUGE anger management problem!. i was a complete loser!. i had no self control, and people got on my bad side for the smallest things!.
i am much better with controlling myself and i am proud of myself, but once in a while, a simple comment will force me to say soemthing i don't mean!.!.and then a fight will start!.
i don't really have a breaking point, honestly!. no matter how angry i get, i still am VERY aware of my surroundings!. especially when i find myself in a physical battle!.(which is something i am not proud of)!.
i am still aware of every punch i throw, every movement of my enemy!. It's like i'm some robot!. everything's blurry, and all i see is the target!. i am still very much concious with myself, so i am usually the first one to pull myself off of the person!.
honestly, i don't like hurting anyone!. i hate seeing that i made somebody feel bad about themself!.!.!.or that i hurt them badly!. I just don't know how to express my compassion without being hurt myself!.
cancer sun
aries rising
taurus moon
gemini marsWww@Enter-QA@Com
At first I thought one had to have cancer to respond to this, then I realized it's that astrology thingy!. I was born in July so I reckon it qualifies me!. I have never put much confidence in astrology and I don't know a thing about the mars rising and the stars shooting stuff (or whatever the responses indicated)!. I am aware that men are from Mars and women are from Venus if that helps!. I read that in a book by the same name!.
I do know that I used to be very mellow and would always capitulate to people rather than argue or disagree!. In recent years I find that I am much less tolerant and more outspoken and I'm not sure I like the new me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I do know that I used to be very mellow and would always capitulate to people rather than argue or disagree!. In recent years I find that I am much less tolerant and more outspoken and I'm not sure I like the new me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
This is totally a Cancer answer !.!.!. it depends on my mood!. LOL! I try and avoid conflict as much as possible but sometimes I just want to argue, never really fight!. Usually what happens is I get mad and offended at one person but lash out at another, usually my husband!. He does great though!. He calms me down and I sit and explain why I am mad, and who I am mad at, then I usually confront the person!.
I am a Cancer with Virgo ascendant!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am a Cancer with Virgo ascendant!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am not a cancer but sagittarius!.
I will blow but calm down very quickly also!.
I think lack of confrontations equals lack of communication!.
What is best !?!? bottling down feelings or give the silent treatment !? I think the latter is actually very cruel on other person!.
If some cancers lack the gift of open and honest communication!.!.then too bad!. They only do harm to themselves anyway!.
Am not a water sign but a fire sign and nothing annoys me more than people playing mind games or faking being martyrs and using their emotions to make other people feel guilty!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I will blow but calm down very quickly also!.
I think lack of confrontations equals lack of communication!.
What is best !?!? bottling down feelings or give the silent treatment !? I think the latter is actually very cruel on other person!.
If some cancers lack the gift of open and honest communication!.!.then too bad!. They only do harm to themselves anyway!.
Am not a water sign but a fire sign and nothing annoys me more than people playing mind games or faking being martyrs and using their emotions to make other people feel guilty!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
hello my rising is in cancer so i want to answer this quesion!. I try to avoid confontation because I like to be civil and get along, but you described it perfectly!.!.!.!.!.!.!.my absolute breaking point and then I will just blow up at the smallest thing the person has done once that point has been crossed!.!.!.!.omigoodness! Then I have to explain why I was mad at the other big stuff because the small thing I just blew up about seemed pointless right!? But that's me!.
aquarius w/ cancer rising
*edit- I hear ya Marina :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
aquarius w/ cancer rising
*edit- I hear ya Marina :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am very dignified person!. Of course someone has to get me to that point, for me to flash!. I have the uttermost respect for people, but when there is no respect back, that's when there is a big problem!. I won't shut up when someone is trying to be judgmental!. I command respect, that's true pride!. I cannot stand pettiness in people at all (zero tolerance)
Through the years I've learned to deal with ignorant people!.
Cancer Sun
Aquarius Moon
Leo Rising!. Roar!!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Through the years I've learned to deal with ignorant people!.
Cancer Sun
Aquarius Moon
Leo Rising!. Roar!!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yoooo I totally can relate to many of you guys on here!. I can act both wways but lately I have been like a ticking bomb!.!.!.calling everybody out on their bs and really frank my bf is a leo and he is like you really blunt and explosive and combative!.!.!.!.
Then when i hold things in like many of you i end up blowing up on the wrong people and for small things lol
It must be my aries moon, libra rising, mars scorpio
Glad to know im not aloneWww@Enter-QA@Com
Then when i hold things in like many of you i end up blowing up on the wrong people and for small things lol
It must be my aries moon, libra rising, mars scorpio
Glad to know im not aloneWww@Enter-QA@Com
Thankyou kitty blitz, When younger like up to age 30,someone would piss me off but it didnt come out till 3 - 4 hours later!.Now at age 45 it comes out before the fool is done yaking, I have PTSD to boot,so when I flash & your in my face,pardon me here!.!.!.!.your getting the crap beat out of you!.Back in April it took 14 riot cops and three teasers to get me down!.The PTSD is from cop beat downs!.Which only makes it worse!.That is my answer!.**EDIT : TD!? Walk in my shoes!.CowardWww@Enter-QA@Com
Depends on what has been done or said and how I feel that day!. There are a lot of things I let slip until someone pushes me so far I lash out irrationally!. Other times I lash out right then and there!. haha of course I always apologize afterwards!.
Most people who know me call me a spaz!. lolWww@Enter-QA@Com
Most people who know me call me a spaz!. lolWww@Enter-QA@Com
Honestly both, and school i refuse to make a scene, unless thres a terrible terrible rumor about m,e but at home anytime one of my sisters or my mom or dad say anything i'm crazy, and i lash out!. also to my friends i can be bothWww@Enter-QA@Com
I lash out the minute I feel offended!. I've always been VERY outspoken!. My daughter is also a cancer, and she is just like her mama!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
For this Q I'll go get DF***Www@Enter-QA@Com