Do you think we have an advantage & have you ever changed yourself...?!
Question: Do you think we have an advantage & have you ever changed yourself!.!.!.!?
!.!.!.Like adopted the traits of a different sign for the sake of being compatible, as ridiculous as it sounds!? I have, haha, also have you changed yourself because you didn't like this or that about your sign or w/e!?
You know what traits you have, and the traits that other signs might not find so attractive, so have you ever changed things about yourself because you, yourself didn't find the traits you possess any good!?
Am I making any sense!? Lol!.
For example:
Before I only knew that I was just a Libra & I was never flirtatious to begin with & I've been told I'm intimidating but Libras are supposed to be approachable or w/e & kind & when I first meet someone I'm not!. I also don't think like a Libra, but my Virgo Mercury explains that!. And now I know it's because of my Pluto in the 1st house that caused some people to feel intimidated or seem scared of me!. Than there were some traits like the indecisiveness of a Libra that I didn't like, so I forced myself to be decisive and it worked!.
Do you think you changed yourself since you know yourself better now!? Do you think we have an advantage because we know about astrology and we know what makes others tick!?
State your signs as well, mainly your Sun & Rising & Moon!.
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You know what traits you have, and the traits that other signs might not find so attractive, so have you ever changed things about yourself because you, yourself didn't find the traits you possess any good!?
Am I making any sense!? Lol!.
For example:
Before I only knew that I was just a Libra & I was never flirtatious to begin with & I've been told I'm intimidating but Libras are supposed to be approachable or w/e & kind & when I first meet someone I'm not!. I also don't think like a Libra, but my Virgo Mercury explains that!. And now I know it's because of my Pluto in the 1st house that caused some people to feel intimidated or seem scared of me!. Than there were some traits like the indecisiveness of a Libra that I didn't like, so I forced myself to be decisive and it worked!.
Do you think you changed yourself since you know yourself better now!? Do you think we have an advantage because we know about astrology and we know what makes others tick!?
State your signs as well, mainly your Sun & Rising & Moon!.
Libra Sun & Rising, Aries Moon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Hi Danger ;D
Interesting!.!.!.I have given thought to this as well!.
And, well I personally think each sign is a different expression of the same thing!.!.!.we all have a piece of each other!.
So we can tap into all the traits!.!.!.and some we just show more or less of!.!.!.than another sign & vise versa!.
I think we can decide, wouldn't you say!?
So yeah if you don't like something about yourself!.!.!.you can change it!. And if you love something about yourself you can embrace it!. And, you can even do 'monkey see monkey do' and copy something you like about someone!.
I even think if your around certain signs for a long time they just rub off on you!.!.!.each sign 'learns' something from other signs!.!.!.good or bad!.
Having the advantage of knowing about astrology helps!.!.!.it makes one self aware!.!.!.wheather good or bad!.
Struggling aspects help us see what to avoid, learn, resolve, etc!.
Harmonious aspects help us gain, keep, embrace, etc
That's what people do!.
And I also have to add!.!.!.even if you or anyone didn't know about astrology!.!.!.change is a possiblity!.
Just be proactive about, want it, do it!.!.!.!.take little step of course cuz nothing happens over night :)
Because if you yourself want it the mind can do it alls you need is will power!.!.!.and it becomes natural & real!.!.!.do it for you not others cuz then it can be fake or unwanted!.!.!.!.
And, just to add to the idea I don't think anyone or sign is 'not compatible'!.!.!.!.!.you can be compatible with anyone!.!.!.there are no rules!.!.!.just astrologically speaking!.!.!.we have to learn each others ways & be open!.!.!.just some people are easier than others!.!.!.!.the hard people may or may not be liked!.!.!.it depends!.!.!.!.it's life -_-
And, in my life!.!.!.yes I have done that 'change' & develop my sign!.!.myself!. Just tap into the energies!.!.!.set goals!.!.!.and do it!.!.but it takes time!.
I have also learned to deal with others even before I found astrology!.!.!.but it made it easier to know what makes others tick !.!.!.thats true :)
And, yes Jupiter is a nice planet whatever sign you have there!.!.!.try to express it more & you can feel more at peace with yourself!.!.!.nice thought she gave you :)
My Jupiter says I have to feel more energetic & optimistic to feel at peace, because my Saturn can make me resentful or a person who thinks it will not be okay all the time!.!.!.very very very very true in my case!.!.!.so I always try to be positive!.!.!.it helps a lot!.!.cuz I am known to follow my Saturn sometimes xP
Something to look at!.!.!.in your chart!.
I feel like Juptier & Saturn are opposites!.!.!.personally!.
Jupiter gives the hope!.!.!.Saturn takes you down!.!.!.!.amoung their other needed functions!.!.!.of course!.
I hope that helped :D :D :D
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Interesting!.!.!.I have given thought to this as well!.
And, well I personally think each sign is a different expression of the same thing!.!.!.we all have a piece of each other!.
So we can tap into all the traits!.!.!.and some we just show more or less of!.!.!.than another sign & vise versa!.
I think we can decide, wouldn't you say!?
So yeah if you don't like something about yourself!.!.!.you can change it!. And if you love something about yourself you can embrace it!. And, you can even do 'monkey see monkey do' and copy something you like about someone!.
I even think if your around certain signs for a long time they just rub off on you!.!.!.each sign 'learns' something from other signs!.!.!.good or bad!.
Having the advantage of knowing about astrology helps!.!.!.it makes one self aware!.!.!.wheather good or bad!.
Struggling aspects help us see what to avoid, learn, resolve, etc!.
Harmonious aspects help us gain, keep, embrace, etc
That's what people do!.
And I also have to add!.!.!.even if you or anyone didn't know about astrology!.!.!.change is a possiblity!.
Just be proactive about, want it, do it!.!.!.!.take little step of course cuz nothing happens over night :)
Because if you yourself want it the mind can do it alls you need is will power!.!.!.and it becomes natural & real!.!.!.do it for you not others cuz then it can be fake or unwanted!.!.!.!.
And, just to add to the idea I don't think anyone or sign is 'not compatible'!.!.!.!.!.you can be compatible with anyone!.!.!.there are no rules!.!.!.just astrologically speaking!.!.!.we have to learn each others ways & be open!.!.!.just some people are easier than others!.!.!.!.the hard people may or may not be liked!.!.!.it depends!.!.!.!.it's life -_-
And, in my life!.!.!.yes I have done that 'change' & develop my sign!.!.myself!. Just tap into the energies!.!.!.set goals!.!.!.and do it!.!.but it takes time!.
I have also learned to deal with others even before I found astrology!.!.!.but it made it easier to know what makes others tick !.!.!.thats true :)
And, yes Jupiter is a nice planet whatever sign you have there!.!.!.try to express it more & you can feel more at peace with yourself!.!.!.nice thought she gave you :)
My Jupiter says I have to feel more energetic & optimistic to feel at peace, because my Saturn can make me resentful or a person who thinks it will not be okay all the time!.!.!.very very very very true in my case!.!.!.so I always try to be positive!.!.!.it helps a lot!.!.cuz I am known to follow my Saturn sometimes xP
Something to look at!.!.!.in your chart!.
I feel like Juptier & Saturn are opposites!.!.!.personally!.
Jupiter gives the hope!.!.!.Saturn takes you down!.!.!.!.amoung their other needed functions!.!.!.of course!.
I hope that helped :D :D :D
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Yes!. Absolutely!
Most of our reactions are based on stuff going on under the surface!. If we are aware of that stuff under the surface we can better control our reactions and how we interact with others!. Astrology can help us do that for ourselves and others!.
You made perfect sense!. I think it is what astrology is all about!. Knowledge that is not applied to life is pointless!.
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Most of our reactions are based on stuff going on under the surface!. If we are aware of that stuff under the surface we can better control our reactions and how we interact with others!. Astrology can help us do that for ourselves and others!.
You made perfect sense!. I think it is what astrology is all about!. Knowledge that is not applied to life is pointless!.
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No!.I prefer manipulating the environment to my advantage!.I have never changed myself!.
Sagittarius!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sagittarius!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I started getting interested in zodiac personalities because I was trying to analyze and understand a friend I wanted to get close to!. When I read about the Cancer profile, everything I observed about her just fell into place; it was like a revelation! All her behaviors were explained by basic Cancer traits and motivations (her Rising, Moon and even Venus supported her behavior too)!.
Since then, I have used my knowledge of her stars to help forge a stronger friendship by recognizing her fears and social style, and so, volunteer an emphasis on trust, security and open adoration for her Venus in Leo!. So, I don't think I have changed myself for the sake of other people, but I have learned what to do make someone more comfortable!.
Reading about myself, I have recognized a few negative traits of my own and am working on them for improvement (procrastination and aimlessness are the big ones)!. I have shared this with my Cancer friend and just like in the text book, this lost and lazy Pisces has found a similarly sensitive person who can keep me inspired and grounded!
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Since then, I have used my knowledge of her stars to help forge a stronger friendship by recognizing her fears and social style, and so, volunteer an emphasis on trust, security and open adoration for her Venus in Leo!. So, I don't think I have changed myself for the sake of other people, but I have learned what to do make someone more comfortable!.
Reading about myself, I have recognized a few negative traits of my own and am working on them for improvement (procrastination and aimlessness are the big ones)!. I have shared this with my Cancer friend and just like in the text book, this lost and lazy Pisces has found a similarly sensitive person who can keep me inspired and grounded!
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I have to change myself for the teachers at school!.!.
I don't like them much!.
If I could only take a knife,and stuck it in them for 100 times I would do that!.
I have Capricorn in Uranus and Neptune,which I HATE with my whole heart,and I feel like killing myself because of it!.
Once I get mad,It takes me hours,days even months untill I act in a positive way!
I hate that to death!
People want me to change that BUT I CAN'T!
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I don't like them much!.
If I could only take a knife,and stuck it in them for 100 times I would do that!.
I have Capricorn in Uranus and Neptune,which I HATE with my whole heart,and I feel like killing myself because of it!.
Once I get mad,It takes me hours,days even months untill I act in a positive way!
I hate that to death!
People want me to change that BUT I CAN'T!
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Well!.!.!.yeah, I've kinda done that!. Really, in the end you can't "cheat" Venus like that!.!.she'll come back and kick your butt!
But you can use what you know about what the other person finds attractive, how the other person communicates, and what the person needs to help them, to spice up things, to work around communication issues, and to improve your relationship!. Let's face it, every relationship takes work; I just consider synastry another tool to help get the job done!.
Another thing that I do is try my best to "run with" my Jupiter characteristics!. My Jupiter is in Scorpio, so I'm always trying to incorporate Scorpio characteristics into my daily life; this is intended to influence and "work with" the energies of Jupiter!. It seems to work for me, when I consciously tap into those Scorpio traits!.
Cap Sun, Aqua Moon, Pisces Rising
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But you can use what you know about what the other person finds attractive, how the other person communicates, and what the person needs to help them, to spice up things, to work around communication issues, and to improve your relationship!. Let's face it, every relationship takes work; I just consider synastry another tool to help get the job done!.
Another thing that I do is try my best to "run with" my Jupiter characteristics!. My Jupiter is in Scorpio, so I'm always trying to incorporate Scorpio characteristics into my daily life; this is intended to influence and "work with" the energies of Jupiter!. It seems to work for me, when I consciously tap into those Scorpio traits!.
Cap Sun, Aqua Moon, Pisces Rising
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Amazing question Danger! I wanted to ask the same question, and you did it for me!. I suppose great minds think a like!. : )
Yes, I do find myself changing quite often!.!.!.I see certain traits as weaknesses, and there are some things I just cannot allow myself to have!. Like you, there are many Libra traits I do not identify with!.!.!.!.But I have so much Libra in my chart, it seems unexplainable!. I suppose the fact that I have so many squares between my Moon and Libra planets, that how I feel is at odds with the way I think!.
Often when I read certain Libra traits, I am angered so much, because it just does not describe me!. Now don't get me wrong, if I didn't find anything truthful, then I wouldn't believe in astrology!. I definitely am aware of the Libra side of me, but the way I express my Libra traits is not the same as others!. When I see generalizations about the sign that describe it as weak, pathetic, shallow, and wishy-washy, I get infuriated from my very core!. It honestly sends me into a rage!. I know that I shouldn't take it so personally, because nobody actually knows me, but I just can't help it!. I am the kind of person that loves to find the truth, and a need to explain things, and when I think that others have given up on thinking, then I just start feeling mad!.
The way I feel is that astrology can help map out certain things, and help us to understand ourselves and others!. I do not let it rule my every step and move!. Only I can decide how I react in a situation, and what choices I'm going to make!. My personality has changed a lot as I've grown, so the things I identify with now, are not the same as those I may have a few years ago!. When I admire or respect a certain trait that is not already inherent, I will do everything in my power to gain that trait!. I will make it a part of who I am until it has eventually merged to my core!. If I see a trait as weak and useless, such as indecision, or the inability to stand up for yourself, and a need to please the crowd, I will do everything in my power to stand against that which is only holding me back!. While there are certain positives of being a Libra that I am definitely glad to have, and have learned to embrace and use effectively, I will always work to shed those which are less than favorable!.
I think that the advantage I have is being self-aware!. I love astrology, but I don't need it to tell me who I am!. I am who I choose to be!.
Libra Sun and Rising, Cancer Moon (Pluto in 1st house)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, I do find myself changing quite often!.!.!.I see certain traits as weaknesses, and there are some things I just cannot allow myself to have!. Like you, there are many Libra traits I do not identify with!.!.!.!.But I have so much Libra in my chart, it seems unexplainable!. I suppose the fact that I have so many squares between my Moon and Libra planets, that how I feel is at odds with the way I think!.
Often when I read certain Libra traits, I am angered so much, because it just does not describe me!. Now don't get me wrong, if I didn't find anything truthful, then I wouldn't believe in astrology!. I definitely am aware of the Libra side of me, but the way I express my Libra traits is not the same as others!. When I see generalizations about the sign that describe it as weak, pathetic, shallow, and wishy-washy, I get infuriated from my very core!. It honestly sends me into a rage!. I know that I shouldn't take it so personally, because nobody actually knows me, but I just can't help it!. I am the kind of person that loves to find the truth, and a need to explain things, and when I think that others have given up on thinking, then I just start feeling mad!.
The way I feel is that astrology can help map out certain things, and help us to understand ourselves and others!. I do not let it rule my every step and move!. Only I can decide how I react in a situation, and what choices I'm going to make!. My personality has changed a lot as I've grown, so the things I identify with now, are not the same as those I may have a few years ago!. When I admire or respect a certain trait that is not already inherent, I will do everything in my power to gain that trait!. I will make it a part of who I am until it has eventually merged to my core!. If I see a trait as weak and useless, such as indecision, or the inability to stand up for yourself, and a need to please the crowd, I will do everything in my power to stand against that which is only holding me back!. While there are certain positives of being a Libra that I am definitely glad to have, and have learned to embrace and use effectively, I will always work to shed those which are less than favorable!.
I think that the advantage I have is being self-aware!. I love astrology, but I don't need it to tell me who I am!. I am who I choose to be!.
Libra Sun and Rising, Cancer Moon (Pluto in 1st house)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi there!.!.!.
good question - I used to want to be different from who I am!.!.!.more or less whatever!.!.!.!.lol!.!.!.!.as I have matured however, I am proud of the person I have become and really don't wish to be more like anyone else!. There are of course, things about myself that I would like to enhance, perfect, even soften cirtain aspects!.!.!.and so on!.!.!.I like that I am different and I am my own person - I also find appreciation for other peoples differences - to me, this is part of the 'spice' of life and with the right combination a great chemistry can be made and even enjoyed!.!.!.!.it's just a matter of finding the right mix - lol
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good question - I used to want to be different from who I am!.!.!.more or less whatever!.!.!.!.lol!.!.!.!.as I have matured however, I am proud of the person I have become and really don't wish to be more like anyone else!. There are of course, things about myself that I would like to enhance, perfect, even soften cirtain aspects!.!.!.and so on!.!.!.I like that I am different and I am my own person - I also find appreciation for other peoples differences - to me, this is part of the 'spice' of life and with the right combination a great chemistry can be made and even enjoyed!.!.!.!.it's just a matter of finding the right mix - lol
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