Is there something in my birthchart that makes it hard for me to have a lasting !


Question: Is there something in my birthchart that makes it hard for me to have a lasting relationship with someone!?
Here is my birthchart: http://www!.astro!.com/cgi/chart!.cgi!?rs=3b!.!.!.


Only good astrology people answer please!

And if there is what aspects in my chart would be causing that!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
Hi Ron

I think that there's a good possibility that it may be the type of person that you tend to attract which makes it difficult for you to maintain a relationship!. I think that it's possible that your relationships start out with more of a foundation in sex than in actual compatibility between the two personalities involved!. I have a hunch that this could be a defense mechanism due to some difficulty with communicating your emotions!. I think the Mars/Moon trine can come across as a bit of a double edged sword for you at times!. Considering your Mars placement, it's in 8th Gemini, ruler of your 7th, and trine Pluto/ascendant, which would indicate to me that you send out a very powerful sexual energy, and would probably have the tendency of rushing into sex fairly quickly in a relationship!. Now, the thing is that it's an air sign Mars/Moon/Pluto/ascendant, and so the people that you're attracting have no idea just how emotional you really are, and also how emotionally involved you get when you're sexually involved with someone!. All they see are the air signs, they see someone a lot more emotionally "cool"!. When they get to know you, I think it's possible that's when they figure out that it's a 4th house moon, one of your ruling planets in the house which it rules, and that there's a Cancer Sun and Venus (your other ruling planet) in the mix as well!. You have difficulty expressing your emotional nature verbally, and may have a tendency of equating sex with love!. The square to Saturn/N Node in Virgo from Mars and also to S Node in Pisces in 5th may be saying that you need to learn to be a bit more discriminating in regards to who you become involved with, and have a little more patience and just get to know the other person a bit better, and give them the opportunity to know you better before you dive in!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Well, you are a cancer!. Cancer's are "crabs"!.!.!.they have shells you know!? So, in terms of a relationship, you are probably likely to to hide alot of your feelings!.

also, your moon is in Aquarius, which only highlights the aspect of supressing emotions, as Aquarius is an air sign, which represents thought and logic!.

Some times, you may feel torn between your feelings and your mind!.

also, Cancers are prone to moodiness, and if there was a psychological disorder connected to Aquarians, it would probably be bi-polar, (lol!. j/k !.!.!.in a way)!.!.!.so you can run very hot and very cold!.

However, in generally!.!.!.I would say no!. There isn't anything in your birthchart that would keep you from having a good relationship!. That's silly!. Your rising sign is in Libra, and Libra is the sign of the scales and balance!. The rising sign is about how we interact with others, and the face that we show!.

Don't worry, according to your birthchart, you actually seem pretty affable!. Maybe, you just make bad choices with people sometimes!? lolWww@Enter-QA@Com

Yes do not worry!.!.

You are still very young!. Your moon in the 4th is highly sensitive!.
Pluto on the asc could draw or repulse!.!.

just had a 5 second look!.!.!.sorry!.!.falling asleep!.

please do do not despair!.

I feel you are are too sensitive for your own good and some people could sense this as sense it as " desperation"!. Please take care of yourself first!.

I really, really, really do not want to be mean by the way!. But you might project insecurity and that might push people off!. You are Cancer and cancer are known for their clinginess!.!.!.and for some the more you cling : the more they want to escape!.

you have lots of good things Really !!!!!!



Night from Canada !!!Www@Enter-QA@Com

with SOMEONE!?!?!? THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM, PAL! You're putting the cart before the horse!. You're trying to get into a relationship at all costs and you don't even KNOW anyone you're close to! What next!? Are you going to be planning on getting married!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

Ooh, 1:33 birth time!.!.!. partial bad luck!.!.!. keep trying, and eventually your fortunes will turn, I'm guessing!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Look at the oppositions in your chart!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think happiness is what you make it, don't blame your "bad fourtunes" as to why things aren't working!. You know!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

Your Moon and Mars are in Air signs!.!.!.they can be flighty and you may be somewhat detached!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

gemini mars and aqua moon, that's it right there!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Hi ron,thanks for the add,venus square pluto does give a few problems in relationships,alot of the relationships you will have will be karmic,and result in alot of fighting and hurt,in past lives you were somewhat of a playboy!.Do not focus on why they do not work out,just take a look at yourself and figure out what is something in you that you would like to work on!.You will find someone that will be perfect for you,he has brown,and I see the initial "R"!. lol sorry about that ron,i will have to focus more on you,il email you tommorow I apologize for any discomfort!.!.
also not all love relationships will be problems,and at times personal relationships with family could suffer too,God Bless


ok ron,il email you when i get home from church :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com

I'd say your Aquarius Moon, and Gemini Mars!.

too bad they arent sextiled with each other!.
Aquarius as you know is very detached and needs their freedom and would rather have a friend than a partner, having it in the moon (which i believe is the key to long term relationships) it could be somewhat elusive for you!. in other words, the longer they stay with you the more your moon traits will show!.


Gemini Mars, you easily get bored, you always want to experience new people, and youre easily bored!. may have a tendency to cheat lol

edit: the other aspects i dont think would affect it much since the ascendant aspects can just be superficial and not skin deep!. but i didnt notice you had venus square pluto!.!. that would definitely bring some trouble!. maybe its hard for you to understand the needs of your partner!. maybe your a bit harsh or cruel sometimes, figure this out and it would be a lot easier for you, thats whats so great about squares, you can learn from it!.

edit: yea, having squared on pluto, you would have the intensity of this planet blocked, so its having a hard time where to direct that energy so it ends up flying like fireworks!. imagine a kettle with a lid!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I don't mean to sound arrogant, but your chart handed the answer to this one to me on a silver platter!.

Your natal chart is "afflicted" (I do not like that word, but for lack of a better one I used it) with Pluto in Libra hanging in front of the Libra ascendant almost exactly one and a half degrees!. So Pluto directly affects how the world sees you - your Libra ascendant!.

Uranus is in its exaltation in Scorpio in your second house!. So Uranus is expressing its energy more powerfully than usual!. It squares your Moon (the Moon represents your unconscious and inner self and emotions) and also squares Jupiter (the minor Sun, in my opinion) along with Mercury!. So you have three planets that have tension with Uranus in your chart, including the Moon in Aquarius, and Uranus rules Aquarius!. The Moon rules Cancer, your Sun sign, so Uranus gets "pointed to" by your Sun, via Moon in Aquarius, and Aquarius ruled by Uranus!.

To boot, Uranus is trine your Sun, and your Sun disposits back to Uranus!. Uranus makes four major aspects in your natal chart and for other reasons appears to be a very influential planet (for example, it also has an opposition to the lot of fortune in your natal chart, and Mars, for example, disposits back to your Sun via Mercury then the Sun)!. Uranus likes to break free and have its own way!. You are a child of the Moon, but Uranus could be your godfather according to your chart!. So I think sometimes all of us need to be gently reminded of the value of compromise and working together!.

To completely answer your question, you choose how to use the energies in your chart, so make the choice to have better relationships, work at it with the help of other people, books, and internet articles, and actualize it!. Don't be hard on yourself!. Play your strengths and mitigate your weaknesses!. Feel free to pm me if you want to chat about it more!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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