I hate myself(astrologically speaking)?!
Question: I hate myself(astrologically speaking)!?
I'm a gemini and all, but in the rest of my chart, I have so many earth and water signs(feminine signs) and so many planets in detrimental position, it just pisses me off that I can be so passive and introverted, rather then like a masculine sign(air or fire)!. I'm just too quiet, I'm kinda boring, and I don't do anything at all because I'm afraid of conflict(mars in pisces =/) I hate myself alot!. Is there any way that I can offset having so many earth and water sign planets!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
You know I had to think about this one and come back to you! As you may recall I have my darn Mars and Venus in friggen Scorpio (which is not bad by the way) if I weren't a a Sadge with a Leo Moon and Gemini rising- Uggh!
BUT now I am thinking how important it is to have a balanced chart and every aspect/element in it! It brings balance and allows you the ability to draw upon the different aspects in you to relate to others! How lucky you are that you have them all within YOU!!! You are not all emotion, or all thinking or all action or all wall like strength!. You are all in ONE!!
Now the key is to make them work for you instead of you being directed by them!. Study the different things in your chart and draw upon these things as the situation requires it!.
We may not have been graced with the balances innate but we do have them all and it makes us more whole and more empathetic!
It is all how you view it Amiron/Rebel!.
Good luck!!!
Me:
Sun: Sadge
Moon: Leo
Ascendant: GeminiWww@Enter-QA@Com
BUT now I am thinking how important it is to have a balanced chart and every aspect/element in it! It brings balance and allows you the ability to draw upon the different aspects in you to relate to others! How lucky you are that you have them all within YOU!!! You are not all emotion, or all thinking or all action or all wall like strength!. You are all in ONE!!
Now the key is to make them work for you instead of you being directed by them!. Study the different things in your chart and draw upon these things as the situation requires it!.
We may not have been graced with the balances innate but we do have them all and it makes us more whole and more empathetic!
It is all how you view it Amiron/Rebel!.
Good luck!!!
Me:
Sun: Sadge
Moon: Leo
Ascendant: GeminiWww@Enter-QA@Com
lmao!
Oh, gemini girl, aka girl who used to be cool and pretty and amazing but now is a little twirp who's gonna get her face stomped in!.
You humor is hot, muy caliente to mexicans!. That combo is actually pretty cool, despite being a total punk in your relationships, but you're not complaining because "your parts just fit!."
that leo moon of yours will definately get you the nickname most female dogs acquire, so don't worry, you're not a haggard uninspiring piece of crap just yet, and that scorpio asc certainly doesn't help the unworthy cause, that is you, of course!. keep randomly dancing, and that moon and sun sign of yours will definately get you tossed in jail!.
Maybe your parts will fit in their also!? just a suggestion!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Oh, gemini girl, aka girl who used to be cool and pretty and amazing but now is a little twirp who's gonna get her face stomped in!.
You humor is hot, muy caliente to mexicans!. That combo is actually pretty cool, despite being a total punk in your relationships, but you're not complaining because "your parts just fit!."
that leo moon of yours will definately get you the nickname most female dogs acquire, so don't worry, you're not a haggard uninspiring piece of crap just yet, and that scorpio asc certainly doesn't help the unworthy cause, that is you, of course!. keep randomly dancing, and that moon and sun sign of yours will definately get you tossed in jail!.
Maybe your parts will fit in their also!? just a suggestion!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
why do you hate yourself for your astrological sign!? It doesn't matter if you have "feminine" or "masculine" signs!. I hate myself too!. I am a capricorn with libra ascendant and Leo moon!.I wish i could change my Libra rising- i would rather be a Scorpio-mysterious and intense!. But you can't change your sign no matter what!. I wish i could change mines, then i would be more introverted than most capricorns!. I doubt you are boring, and hey- some people like quiet people!. i know for a fact that i do!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I totally understand what you mean!. I have a similar problem myself =(!. I don't hate myself or anything but I would really rather be an outgoing person than a shy and quiet person and I really push myself to avoid being like that (unsuccessfully sometimes =( )!.
I have gemini sun , virgo rising, cancer moon, cancer mars and cancer venus (=s too many cancers for my liking!) and overall I've got 2 air planets, 4 water and 4 earth and no fire!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have gemini sun , virgo rising, cancer moon, cancer mars and cancer venus (=s too many cancers for my liking!) and overall I've got 2 air planets, 4 water and 4 earth and no fire!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Nothing is perfect !.!.!. my chart isn't perfect too!. I have too much mutable signs (Virgo, Gemini, Sagittarius) !.!.!.I have many bad aspects (Saturn, Uranus + ASC squares my sun)!. I have retrograde Mars in Aries so I'm violent at times + Scorpio moon (I'm introverted, very emotionall but also short tempered, determinated, stable and stubborn person)!.
Leo moon is good placement same as Gemini sun and Scorpio rising !.!.!. be glad with what you have :-)!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Leo moon is good placement same as Gemini sun and Scorpio rising !.!.!. be glad with what you have :-)!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Get some correction fluid and make your chart the way you want it!. Nobody else needs to know!.
I fixed mine but it means my birthday is Oct!. 23, 2011!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I fixed mine but it means my birthday is Oct!. 23, 2011!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
u think u got problems!? i'm aries ,and often get told ,the biggest pain in the b*m of the lot !.Www@Enter-QA@Com
We all hate ourselves, before we start to love and appreciate ourselves!. Having an existential crisis at a young age, is really more a blessing than a curse!. If you live through it you will understand, because the grief and hurt you go through will help you to grow and accept yourself for who you are!. As an adult, you will be much more stable than your peers!.
The most compassionate and enlightened people have the most difficult charts!. And don't worry about the feminine aspects - they are who you are - and to hell with the media heralding masculinity, or aspects of it!.
Many planetd in the 8th means a crisis ridden life - until you sort of hit rock bottom, you will rise like the phoenix!.
Having alot of water is and can be a blessing in diguise!. It shows being in touch with one's feelings!. There is nothing wrong with receptivity and passiveness!. In fact these people sit back and observe life the most, thereby gaining in wisdom!.
Edit: It all really depends on you and how you cope with your energies!.!. people deal with it in different ways!. The main thing is not to repress it or push it away, because then they will remain the same if they are not faced!. Face it head on - because the 8th house really fears nothing!. If u have saturn there, you may be much more fearful than most, but really, there is nothing to be afraid of
Edit: Of course you'd want to live it!. You can find the balance!.!. its all up to you!Www@Enter-QA@Com
The most compassionate and enlightened people have the most difficult charts!. And don't worry about the feminine aspects - they are who you are - and to hell with the media heralding masculinity, or aspects of it!.
Many planetd in the 8th means a crisis ridden life - until you sort of hit rock bottom, you will rise like the phoenix!.
Having alot of water is and can be a blessing in diguise!. It shows being in touch with one's feelings!. There is nothing wrong with receptivity and passiveness!. In fact these people sit back and observe life the most, thereby gaining in wisdom!.
Edit: It all really depends on you and how you cope with your energies!.!. people deal with it in different ways!. The main thing is not to repress it or push it away, because then they will remain the same if they are not faced!. Face it head on - because the 8th house really fears nothing!. If u have saturn there, you may be much more fearful than most, but really, there is nothing to be afraid of
Edit: Of course you'd want to live it!. You can find the balance!.!. its all up to you!Www@Enter-QA@Com
WATER doesn't mean feminine, it means feelings, creativity!.
Gemini is an air sign, one of their characteristics is communication, good people skills!.
Your Moon is in Leo so there is your fire,
Scorpio Rising usually manifest as being passionate, not only in love, could be work, a certain activity!.
LEO and SCORPIO are usually people magnets, they attract people (purposely or not, it's part of their personality)!.
Remember the stars impel, they don't compel: they influence us but we are perfectly capable of rising above those influences and be in control!.
I know a lot of people with Scorpio and Leo, they are all but shy!
good luck!
BTW: I'm Capricorn, rising Capricorn, moon Taurus, too much earth :)
!.edit!.!.
moving to a different region of the planet can change the way the stars influence us, otherwise, your natal chart (assuming is accurate) will always remain the same!.
!.!.edit!.!.
you really hate your chart!?
I tell you mine: 1 planet on fire, 1 water, a couple on air, the rest ALL EARTH!.
I am a very difficult person, I'm aware of it and I am always working on it (understanding my chart helps me a lot)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Gemini is an air sign, one of their characteristics is communication, good people skills!.
Your Moon is in Leo so there is your fire,
Scorpio Rising usually manifest as being passionate, not only in love, could be work, a certain activity!.
LEO and SCORPIO are usually people magnets, they attract people (purposely or not, it's part of their personality)!.
Remember the stars impel, they don't compel: they influence us but we are perfectly capable of rising above those influences and be in control!.
I know a lot of people with Scorpio and Leo, they are all but shy!
good luck!
BTW: I'm Capricorn, rising Capricorn, moon Taurus, too much earth :)
!.edit!.!.
moving to a different region of the planet can change the way the stars influence us, otherwise, your natal chart (assuming is accurate) will always remain the same!.
!.!.edit!.!.
you really hate your chart!?
I tell you mine: 1 planet on fire, 1 water, a couple on air, the rest ALL EARTH!.
I am a very difficult person, I'm aware of it and I am always working on it (understanding my chart helps me a lot)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi there :)
Well, let me assure you that it's MUCH worse when you have a feminine Sun and all the rest of your planets are feminine, too!. I should know because I'm full of feminine planets, lol!.!.!.and I have to admit that sometimes it is quite annoying !.!.!.so I can totally relate!.
I would suggest that you try to co-operate more with your introverted planets rather than try to change them!.!.!.If nothing else, they are NOT going to change and that will make your life difficult!.
also, something else that I only realized lately!.!.!.I believe things are in a certain position in our chart because there is a reason for it!. You yourself just mentioned you'd be in jail, if you had an Aries Mars!.!.!.It's not only about seeing the positive side- it's about understanding how different things would be if you and/or your chart were different!.
So let's get to the point now, because it seems like you need a solution!.!.!. Which are the detrimental positions you're talking about!?
Venus is good in Water and Earth signs and Mars is not detrimental in Pisces!. In fact, I think that Mars is very good in dual signs!.!.!.and especially in the case of Pisces!. I think of Pisces planets as joker cards!. They are actually a little bit from all the previous signs!.!.!. so if you want it to be an Aries Mars, you can turn it into such one!. (Although I'm not sure if you'd really want that)
After all, would you really prefer a Venus-Mars square over a trine!?!? Think about it ;)
It's much easier (and more effective) to make do with what you already have rather than worry about what you don't and never will!.
I guess the reason why you hate yourself is that you haven't realized that *everyone* has to deal with their own disadvantages!.- It's not like "God" is trying to punish YOU alone from all people!. The more you accept yourself, the easier it will be for you to distinguish real problems from self-created ones!.
By the way, do you have a Sun-ASC opposition!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, let me assure you that it's MUCH worse when you have a feminine Sun and all the rest of your planets are feminine, too!. I should know because I'm full of feminine planets, lol!.!.!.and I have to admit that sometimes it is quite annoying !.!.!.so I can totally relate!.
I would suggest that you try to co-operate more with your introverted planets rather than try to change them!.!.!.If nothing else, they are NOT going to change and that will make your life difficult!.
also, something else that I only realized lately!.!.!.I believe things are in a certain position in our chart because there is a reason for it!. You yourself just mentioned you'd be in jail, if you had an Aries Mars!.!.!.It's not only about seeing the positive side- it's about understanding how different things would be if you and/or your chart were different!.
So let's get to the point now, because it seems like you need a solution!.!.!. Which are the detrimental positions you're talking about!?
Venus is good in Water and Earth signs and Mars is not detrimental in Pisces!. In fact, I think that Mars is very good in dual signs!.!.!.and especially in the case of Pisces!. I think of Pisces planets as joker cards!. They are actually a little bit from all the previous signs!.!.!. so if you want it to be an Aries Mars, you can turn it into such one!. (Although I'm not sure if you'd really want that)
After all, would you really prefer a Venus-Mars square over a trine!?!? Think about it ;)
It's much easier (and more effective) to make do with what you already have rather than worry about what you don't and never will!.
I guess the reason why you hate yourself is that you haven't realized that *everyone* has to deal with their own disadvantages!.- It's not like "God" is trying to punish YOU alone from all people!. The more you accept yourself, the easier it will be for you to distinguish real problems from self-created ones!.
By the way, do you have a Sun-ASC opposition!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hey there!!! Look i'm an ARIES idk what moon rising sign i have!?
you dont have to let THAT get 2 you i mean just be you and dont let that mess with you ok:)
your ok the way you are i mean water sign are carign and really nice people, they are really spiritual also, so do you ever wonder how many people would like to have all those water sign just like you!? anw just love ur self with What God have give you! ok
And remember Ur still a Gemmini Wish means you Kinda A FIRE sign ok so dont worrie about that!.
PS!. ARIES/PISCIS I'M IN A CUP 03/21/89
Link Me As An Aries lol
http://enchulatupagina!.wamba!.com/comenta!.!.!.
Link Me As An Piscis lol
http://enchulatupagina!.wamba!.com/imagene!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
you dont have to let THAT get 2 you i mean just be you and dont let that mess with you ok:)
your ok the way you are i mean water sign are carign and really nice people, they are really spiritual also, so do you ever wonder how many people would like to have all those water sign just like you!? anw just love ur self with What God have give you! ok
And remember Ur still a Gemmini Wish means you Kinda A FIRE sign ok so dont worrie about that!.
PS!. ARIES/PISCIS I'M IN A CUP 03/21/89
Link Me As An Aries lol
http://enchulatupagina!.wamba!.com/comenta!.!.!.
Link Me As An Piscis lol
http://enchulatupagina!.wamba!.com/imagene!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com