How do you feel when someone insults you and what do you do about it?!


Question: How do you feel when someone insults you and what do you do about it!?
are you more of an action or talk person!?
and If your an action person what do you do!?
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Answers:
When I was very young, I was very passive and non reactive, from shyness!.
In my teens, I learned that redirecting the anger into humor could diffuse the situation considerably!. I did beat up a boy in 6th grade because he picked on my best friend (a girl)!. So I guess I was action oriented!.

Now that I'm older and although I will accept truthful and knowledgeable critiques, I laugh at most insults!. I rarely get angry about them anymore; I usually feel pity for the person!. Here's why:

A person who feels compelled to post long, irrelevant rants or strings of insults about a quasi-anon person is usually projecting their insecurities and feelings on inferiority on the subject; most of the time they are randomly probing for a reaction because it gives them a sense of power over the subject!. If they can make the other angry, they have an obscure sense of control!. These types may even have no control over their own emotions and may feel empowered by the ability to provoke a like response in others!.

Responding angrily to them only encourages the behavior!. Better to respond simply, truthfully, and as directly as possible; the behavior will amplify at first, in a harder attempt to gain response, then will subside as the person fails to get the desired response; eventually they will go away and sulk for a while; then go whine to one of their few friends!.

Each time they repeat this self-destructive cycle openly they will lose credibility and, eventually, an audience!.

So time is on your side, Mr!. Leo!. Let your pride hold your temper in check and let the person insulting you self-destruct!.!.!.

Here is an excerpt from a very good book that includes this subject (the anger cycle!.) http://books!.google!.com/books!?id=jqHLgb7!.!.!.

You might want to post this in psychology, too!.

Capricorn Sun/Pisces Mars

**FYI wasn't me, didn't do it!.**Www@Enter-QA@Com

when someone insults you,and you have done no wrong to them,it just shows that they are jealous of a quality that you posses!.I have read some of your answers and you have very good ones,you are also a top contributor,so that makes alot of those who are not upset,you also answer Questions asked of psychics!.So,just like me,you are a target of nonsense!.I take it that you are an adult just as i am,so just ignore them!.We All know,no one would insult you in person,so don't let it!.Your fabulous!. :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com

It depends on the situation if I am insulted over the net I literally laugh my ash off in real life at how childish and pathetic they are!. If I am insulted in real life depending on what the issue is I may take slow action you don't realize your in trouble until it's to late for you OR in a rare case when my buttons get pushed bad enough I will get physical example was last year when my brother insulted my "fag got" friends he pushed a major button no one insults my friends even if it's meant to insult only me!.!.!. me and him both ended up in the hospital getting stitches in our head!.!.!.!. Overall I am action

Sun Scorpio
Moon Aries
Rising LeoWww@Enter-QA@Com

I've recently had the same experience on youtube A person put horrible derogatory remarks on the front page of my account because they thought I was gay due to a positive remark I gave to a gay video and I didn't know about it for a month I was so angry I got really nasty and got revenge on the person to find out later it was a!.!.!. 11yr old girl! Eeek a child with a mouth like sailor, I felt bad but I couldn't believe the mouth on that kid!.
Some peoples kids!

Now when someone makes negative comments to my comments I just ignore it and post more positive comments, you can block the person too!.
Aquarius
Moon Scorpio
Mars AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com

I would look at the insult and if it was something that I could better myself on I would work with it

On the other hand I also look at was I mirroring something to that person about them self !?

Eg: If I was fat and someone insulted me about my weight I would work on loosing some weight not for them but for my on health reasons

Eg: If someone said I was self centered and I knew that they were and they didn't realise it, I would then have a talk to them and point it out


also some people's insult others and they take it as a compliment


I am Taurus Sun & Sagittarius Moon & Rising


Love & Blessings
MillyWww@Enter-QA@Com

She is a stalker, son!. She is trying to call your bluff!. She has her own unresolved emotional issues, and she's trying to project them onto you!.

I had one of these types who decided she wanted to marry me, and I was no where close to wanting to marry her!. When she couldn't have me, she started filing frivolous lawsuits against me!. It was insulting because sometimes she had summons sent to my place of work!.

I would say I'm more of an action person!. When someone won't leave me alone, I now go straight to an attorney!.

AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com

Well, I'm an action and a talking person and I'm a taurus!. But, I'm the kind of person who is calm and if you do something to insult me in anyway!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.lets just say "it does not look good"!. I mean I can control my anger and it will take at least a week for me to actually jump people!. See what I do is that, I first lecture them and they will end up crying!. If they still seem to insult me at all, I'll try to hold it in, but if they really give me the message I'll crush them! And I don't jump them for little stuff like money or anything stupid!. Like what you said "respect" is something that is valuable to people!. And the part where you said "If your an action person what do you do!?", I would rather not mention that part!. But it feels good to actually talk to someone who does more action, than just sit and do nothing about his life!. I like this question!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Hi Trill!!! : )

I can't see the video!.!.!.!.darnit!

Anyway, what is going on with her!? Is this a "friend" of yours!?

IDK but from what I see on here and by our interacations, you are a good person like to the core!. Anyone who really knows you knows that already, so what else matters!?

IDK but if I am honest (which I always am - lol) I used to get hurt when people would do uncalled for stuff!.!.I would probably still talk to my best friend about it (maybe a few more people too depending on how it "hit me") but their words of encouragement is all I would need to shrug it off!.

Let it roll right off of your back Trill!. It's an internet person- who cares!?

There are so many more important things to expel your thoughts and energies on!

Good luck!

Me:

Sun: Sadge
Moon: Leo
Ascendant: Gemini Www@Enter-QA@Com

I don't usually talk back, I just smile and shake my head most of the time!. I'm pretty calm about it if it's something petty or immature!. I don't like to argue!.!.unless someone is being unreasonable and close-minded about something or I need to prove a point, then I get really worked up!. But getting upset over someone calling me a name or whatever is pointless, THEY'RE the one with the issues man, not you!.!.lol!. Don't worry about them or whoever!. The only time I've ever gotten physical is when someone was trying to hurt me and someone I'm close to!.
LeoWww@Enter-QA@Com

Well, interesting you should ask since I was just insulted!.!.!.!.

I reacted like a psycho!.!.!.!.I screamed at the top of my lungs, threatened the person that insulted me, and grabbed them and tried to throw them into the wall!.

So, I'm kind of a combination between action and talk!. When people push my buttons, I am not to be messed with!.

LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com

Hmmm it depends!. I always say how mad i am and what i'm going to do!.!.!.but then I see the person and i'm totally nice cause i dont want to start problems LOL!. I'm kind of all bark no bite!.!.!.i dont wanna start any fights they are just unpleasent!. On here I couldnt care less if anyone insults me, sometimes I think its kind of funny actually LOL!. I'm a writer so i'm used to criticism!. I'm the same way in person, loll but sometimes I'm really stupid!.!.!.and laugh along at the time!.!.!.then get really pissed off later on!.!.!.and go off at them about it like months later!.!.!.and they are like wtf are you talking about!? Over the years I've learned not to be so sensitve, its just a waste of time!. You have to learn to laugh at yourself!. If someone disrespects you I feel that they will get theirs!. I'm a Cancer we're very overly sensitive its annoying!Www@Enter-QA@Com

hey whats wrong!?

I dont really enjoy insulting people i dont know so they would feel bad about themselves for some immature reason!.!. just pitty them

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hey man i looked at her profile and shes 17 and has chris crocker videos LOL, probably a homo!. a pretty weird person, just dont take it personally, just another confused teen who listens to greenday to be coolWww@Enter-QA@Com

When ppl insult me I usually ignore it!. I figure if they are talking about me then they are leaving someone esle alone :) plus I know I'm so much better then them to even stoop to their level!.

My bestest is a Leo she is also the action type so i understand!. She can't turn the other cheek even though I advise her too :P But me being a Libra I realy do hate conflict!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

ah it really depends!. for me, when im insulted i usually end up making the person feel awkward and stupid!. I think its the old guilt trip too, like i will ignor them and make them pay!. i guess cancer is guilting, and scorpio moon is for revenge!.!. but usually i try to ignor peoople who insult me, unless they are close family, then i will let them know!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

If it's insulting me then I don't care,I just laugh or say something smart,hurting and in a sarcastic joke so the person understands!.
When it's about my religion or my friends I care!.
I'm not an emotional person then I don't get hurt easily!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

i'll say im both but when someone insults me i'll either walk away or put them in their place!.!. it depends on my mood etc!.!.

It's really sad and pathetic how young kids nowadays think its cool to insult other members on the net!.!.when in reality they cannot do this in person!. thats so true right there!.!.!. they need some discipline from their parents!.!.!.

im gemini aka 2 facedWww@Enter-QA@Com

I'll find another thing to insult about them as a comeback!. I don't ever like to be disrespected for no reason and I will defend myself!. I only fight verbally!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I get called a bi+ch a lot!.!.!.!. as a matter a fact thats the only insult anyones ever thrown at me lol!. I just look at the person and say SO!?
what is your point!? move on!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.

scorpioWww@Enter-QA@Com

I ignore them!.
They can think what they I want and I can care less!.

GeminiWww@Enter-QA@Com

For me personally, I'm more of a talk person until someone pushes me into action!. It's rare that I get evil with my words and it takes a LOT to get me to that point but when I do get there I want to hurt as much as possible!. I will go out of my way to cause as much emotional pain as possible and say things I usually end up regretting!. I have to truly dislike someone or being VERY pissed in order to go that route though!. I've only been that way with some of my family and a few enemies!. Not with any of my friends though ironically!.

As far as that comment on your page, some "kids" think its trendy to be b*tchy and mean for no reason at all not realizing how pathetic and truly ignorant they look to other people!. She probably think its cute to get attention that way but she's an immature brat so just ignore her spiteful and totally uncalled for comment!. There are so many attention whores on the net nowadays that it doesn't even make sense!. They're cowards that do things to be seen and then hide behind their computers like cockroaches in the walls!. I would use e-RAID on them if I could LOLWww@Enter-QA@Com



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