How do you deal with fear?!
Question: How do you deal with fear!?
Do you:
Work through it!?
Avoid it!?
Confront it!?
Enjoy it!? (like a scary movie)
Please list your Moon and Mars!. Feel free to give examples!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Work through it!?
Avoid it!?
Confront it!?
Enjoy it!? (like a scary movie)
Please list your Moon and Mars!. Feel free to give examples!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
I work through it!. I think my Moon conjunction Neptune would like to avoid it, and goes through a process of debating whether or not that is a possibility!. But with a combination of Sun conjunction Mars, and Mercury opposition Saturn, I am restless and unsettled until I battle my fears!. I've had a lot of practice, so I've learned a number of coping mechanisms which help!.
Enjoy it!? No!.
Enjoy scary movies!? Yes!. With movies it is different, because it's like I'm some protected little animal inside a cave, just watching all the scary mean animals battle it out!. Same feeling I have when I'm curled up in my cozy bed while it storms outside!.
Moon in Libra
Mars in Pisces
Edit: I just saw your edit!. I deal with fear of the unknown by using the same coping mechanisms I use in dealing with fear of the known!. I confront it so that I can move on with my life!. I learned a valuable lesson long ago when I thought I wasn't going to make it through a long term health issue!. I learned that I could become so focused on only one particular way of thinking that it didn't allow me to see other ways of thinking!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Enjoy it!? No!.
Enjoy scary movies!? Yes!. With movies it is different, because it's like I'm some protected little animal inside a cave, just watching all the scary mean animals battle it out!. Same feeling I have when I'm curled up in my cozy bed while it storms outside!.
Moon in Libra
Mars in Pisces
Edit: I just saw your edit!. I deal with fear of the unknown by using the same coping mechanisms I use in dealing with fear of the known!. I confront it so that I can move on with my life!. I learned a valuable lesson long ago when I thought I wasn't going to make it through a long term health issue!. I learned that I could become so focused on only one particular way of thinking that it didn't allow me to see other ways of thinking!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Depends!.!.!.!.
I get really nervous when swimming in the ocean (and yes, I do hear the theme song for Jaws when swimming - lol)!.!.!.!.!.but I do go swimming - I just try to be aware and as alert as possible! - work through it!.!.!.!.
A dark alley with stranger figures doing strange looking things in the dark!.!.!.!.avoid it!
Dealing with people - confront it!
LOVE scary movies!!!!!
Moon- Scorpio
Mars - Sag
*** I just thought of something - I was trying to figure out some things that really scare me!.!.!.not much though I get nervous pretty often!.!.!.
!.!.!.and then I remembered what it was like when I first brought my son home from the hospital! Always worried and scared that something could happen - even off the wall stuff that would just be a fluke!.!.!.!.or constantly checking to make sure he was still breathing while he slept - choking and spitting up!.!.!.!.I was petrified of my own son! He was sooo tiny!.!.!.and I had absolutely no experience with babies before him! A complete nervous wreck! I don't think I really relaxed until after he was a year old and even then I worried! lol! He is 3 and if he takes a tumble!.!.!.I'm usually the mom with her hand over her face thinking OMG!!.!.!.trying not to get overly worried but still concerned!.!.!.lol!.!.!.he's a tough kid - I don't really worry until he cries!.!.!.very seldom he gets injured to the point of crying though he has lots of bumps and bruises - lol - I guess I have learned to deal with 'mommy' fears and kind of work through the harder ones!.!.!.and I am sure I will find other stuff to worry about as he grows! ;)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I get really nervous when swimming in the ocean (and yes, I do hear the theme song for Jaws when swimming - lol)!.!.!.!.!.but I do go swimming - I just try to be aware and as alert as possible! - work through it!.!.!.!.
A dark alley with stranger figures doing strange looking things in the dark!.!.!.!.avoid it!
Dealing with people - confront it!
LOVE scary movies!!!!!
Moon- Scorpio
Mars - Sag
*** I just thought of something - I was trying to figure out some things that really scare me!.!.!.not much though I get nervous pretty often!.!.!.
!.!.!.and then I remembered what it was like when I first brought my son home from the hospital! Always worried and scared that something could happen - even off the wall stuff that would just be a fluke!.!.!.!.or constantly checking to make sure he was still breathing while he slept - choking and spitting up!.!.!.!.I was petrified of my own son! He was sooo tiny!.!.!.and I had absolutely no experience with babies before him! A complete nervous wreck! I don't think I really relaxed until after he was a year old and even then I worried! lol! He is 3 and if he takes a tumble!.!.!.I'm usually the mom with her hand over her face thinking OMG!!.!.!.trying not to get overly worried but still concerned!.!.!.lol!.!.!.he's a tough kid - I don't really worry until he cries!.!.!.very seldom he gets injured to the point of crying though he has lots of bumps and bruises - lol - I guess I have learned to deal with 'mommy' fears and kind of work through the harder ones!.!.!.and I am sure I will find other stuff to worry about as he grows! ;)Www@Enter-QA@Com
facing fear , I have 2 modes
1st mode : internally panic but externally calm , cool, cold, detached and collected!.
then 2nd mode : work through it step by step!.
Depends on what kinda fear , I may just call most of my fear anxieties ( Moon in Pisces ) For example , when facing the idea of losing my scholarship ( or when i think i am losing it, whether it is true or not lol ) , I would then become detached a bit from friends and focus more on study until I deem it enough to put me safely on the scholarship list again!. I have very irrational fear about not having a scholarship, i am so attached to the scholar money ( Sun Mars in 10th ) and career and public image and to being considered significant , I would work my *** off to restore what I want!. I guess Sun-Mars conjunct in 10th would always have a saturn undertone reminding me not to stray to far away from what should be the most important!.
For phobia , like cockroaches , I would jump if they are on my body , but if I see them from a distant, I would
1 - grab the insect killer to spray directly onto them menacingly
2 - if they are small enough , I would grab a tissue ( make it 2 or more pieces ) and wrap them up and flush them down the toilet!.
Now if it was about survival ( be that physically - which never happened ) or emotionally, I would not use Pisces Moon , I think through crisis, people dont use saturn, or mars, but they use their best learnt lesson - South node!. And indeed, I used south node when I feel I need to gravely protect my emotionality/feelings!. And yeah, when I am pushed into the corner , I would use scorpio south node supported by Sun Mars trine , and I sting like a thousand bees both at once and through out a period of time just as true as how a scorpio revenge would be!. And that happened once!.
For unknown fear!.!.!.!.I would be very confused at first, spending several nights ( 10 to 15 minutes each night ) to figure out, to pout and to feel depressed, but it would be just gone in a few day due to pisces moon ability to absorb garbage from people!. Or real challenge would surface after a few days ( pisces moon serve as a premonition tool ) and well then I would face it head on ( with grace of course ;D )Www@Enter-QA@Com
1st mode : internally panic but externally calm , cool, cold, detached and collected!.
then 2nd mode : work through it step by step!.
Depends on what kinda fear , I may just call most of my fear anxieties ( Moon in Pisces ) For example , when facing the idea of losing my scholarship ( or when i think i am losing it, whether it is true or not lol ) , I would then become detached a bit from friends and focus more on study until I deem it enough to put me safely on the scholarship list again!. I have very irrational fear about not having a scholarship, i am so attached to the scholar money ( Sun Mars in 10th ) and career and public image and to being considered significant , I would work my *** off to restore what I want!. I guess Sun-Mars conjunct in 10th would always have a saturn undertone reminding me not to stray to far away from what should be the most important!.
For phobia , like cockroaches , I would jump if they are on my body , but if I see them from a distant, I would
1 - grab the insect killer to spray directly onto them menacingly
2 - if they are small enough , I would grab a tissue ( make it 2 or more pieces ) and wrap them up and flush them down the toilet!.
Now if it was about survival ( be that physically - which never happened ) or emotionally, I would not use Pisces Moon , I think through crisis, people dont use saturn, or mars, but they use their best learnt lesson - South node!. And indeed, I used south node when I feel I need to gravely protect my emotionality/feelings!. And yeah, when I am pushed into the corner , I would use scorpio south node supported by Sun Mars trine , and I sting like a thousand bees both at once and through out a period of time just as true as how a scorpio revenge would be!. And that happened once!.
For unknown fear!.!.!.!.I would be very confused at first, spending several nights ( 10 to 15 minutes each night ) to figure out, to pout and to feel depressed, but it would be just gone in a few day due to pisces moon ability to absorb garbage from people!. Or real challenge would surface after a few days ( pisces moon serve as a premonition tool ) and well then I would face it head on ( with grace of course ;D )Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well!.!.!.It really depends on what type of fear it is!. Personally, I tend to find few things that actually scare me, but when I do, it gives me a feeling of enjoyment and satisfaction!.!.!.However, there are times when I genuintely fear certain things, and those normally tend to fall under the real life categories, such as failing to accomplish a goal, or the fear of being disrespected, or perhaps the fear of the unknown!.!.!.but when I am dealing with it, I tend to just hold my breath and confront it straight on!. No point in running away!.!.!.It only avoids the inevitable!.
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Well I'm currently 16, and i have been giving myself weekly injections since i was 12 (long story short, i was in a car accident blah blah blah and now my joints are are messed up) and IM fine with it now, but when i first started giving them, i was sooo scared!. I hated needles!. But i got over my fear by being around them more!.
I'm into art, so i would use the needles, clean them, and then using the parts from the needles, i built a sculpture!. (sounds weird i know, but it looks cool) By working with them and looking at them all the time, it made it so i wasn't as scared when it came time to give the shot!. also, i would put on my head phones while i give the shot, to help take my mind off of it!. After a while i just kinda realized it wasn't as bad as i thought, it was pretty much all in my head and just the thought scared me, not the actual needle!.
(So basically, unless you face your fear, you wont ever get over it!.)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm into art, so i would use the needles, clean them, and then using the parts from the needles, i built a sculpture!. (sounds weird i know, but it looks cool) By working with them and looking at them all the time, it made it so i wasn't as scared when it came time to give the shot!. also, i would put on my head phones while i give the shot, to help take my mind off of it!. After a while i just kinda realized it wasn't as bad as i thought, it was pretty much all in my head and just the thought scared me, not the actual needle!.
(So basically, unless you face your fear, you wont ever get over it!.)Www@Enter-QA@Com
i think everyone has a fear when they feel like they don't understand the "Cause" of everything, all phenomenon, --and that they could be affected by it --because its unknown!.!.!.!.
the best way to deal with fear myself---is to investigate/ find out what is causing you fear and look at it from a detached emotional lens scientifically --at the process !.!.if you get what i mean!.!.!.because i used to fear alot of things but when i started looking at everything neutrally-as in every action was a normal phenomenon; i lost fear!. i think thats the best way of confrontation !. after all, fear is just a matter of perception!. Take away perception/or any sort of attitude and its just neutral as it is!.!.!."cause and effect" kind of thing!.
alot of the fear comes from the unknown, but the better analogy is that we don't have a proper understanding of the nature of some action causing us distress, because we view it from our own self-made perception, and not what it is by itself!.
and it's why some people say they have no fear, in other words, they look at everything "normally", as in they place themselves equally eye to eye with it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
the best way to deal with fear myself---is to investigate/ find out what is causing you fear and look at it from a detached emotional lens scientifically --at the process !.!.if you get what i mean!.!.!.because i used to fear alot of things but when i started looking at everything neutrally-as in every action was a normal phenomenon; i lost fear!. i think thats the best way of confrontation !. after all, fear is just a matter of perception!. Take away perception/or any sort of attitude and its just neutral as it is!.!.!."cause and effect" kind of thing!.
alot of the fear comes from the unknown, but the better analogy is that we don't have a proper understanding of the nature of some action causing us distress, because we view it from our own self-made perception, and not what it is by itself!.
and it's why some people say they have no fear, in other words, they look at everything "normally", as in they place themselves equally eye to eye with it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
work through it and confront it if possible!. some of my fears try to avoid me (if you know what i mean)
I enjoy scary movies very much!!
I'm terrified of heights and I love to push myself and go on rollercoasters and ferris wheels and look over the edge!. But I try to climb on a little ladder and I can only get so far!. I always try though!!!
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I enjoy scary movies very much!!
I'm terrified of heights and I love to push myself and go on rollercoasters and ferris wheels and look over the edge!. But I try to climb on a little ladder and I can only get so far!. I always try though!!!
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depends of what type of fear!.!.!.!. got too many as everybody!. being secure its the clue to deal with fear!.!.!.!.!.
ex: fear of the unknown :o i enjoy it but someone has to kick me to get into it!.!.!.!.!. i have a pre-thought that i'll make a mistake but it's the process of learning nothing to fear!.
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ex: fear of the unknown :o i enjoy it but someone has to kick me to get into it!.!.!.!.!. i have a pre-thought that i'll make a mistake but it's the process of learning nothing to fear!.
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i had a fear of lightning,
i tryed to avoid it at the start,
then i tryed to work through it,
then i confronted it,
it usually goes in that order for anything!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i tryed to avoid it at the start,
then i tryed to work through it,
then i confronted it,
it usually goes in that order for anything!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Grasshopper Says
Do not Feed the Dragon - Starve it
Face the Dragon - It will become a lizard
Step on lizard
An abridged version of what I would do!? Look at how stupid it is and get back on track!.
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Do not Feed the Dragon - Starve it
Face the Dragon - It will become a lizard
Step on lizard
An abridged version of what I would do!? Look at how stupid it is and get back on track!.
Good question BTWWww@Enter-QA@Com
I confront it head on with both barrels blazing!. Not always the best thing!. The unknown is the one thing we can count on!.
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Avoid it and then it goes away!.
Except for the ghosts fear!.
This will never go away!.
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Except for the ghosts fear!.
This will never go away!.
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With patience and confidence!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Confront it!. Stare it in the face and smash right into it!.
Be strong!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Be strong!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
well, the only thing I ever unreasonably feared was spiders!.!.I tried learning about them, getting used to them,etc!. It was and probably is to a degree my biggest fear ever (had bad incident on the Azores as a small child)!. I finally said fk* it and got a tattoo of a spider web across my lower back!.!.pics on 360 :-) as soon as I can figure out my camera problem or buy a new one,because I'm getting the rest of my back filled in now!. Anyway, I don't know why, it just kind of helped me deal!.
For not unreasonable fears!.!.I'm really not so much afraid as maybe weary!. I usually confront head on, balls out!. Little things , well like last night!.!.I've been worried about dumping my bike so I finally just did it (controlled) so I'd know how to handle and peeled out ,etc just trying to get out of my comfort zone a little!. I really didn't like the whole dumping thing!. The burn out was not too bad, I must say :-)
I had some unpleasant business with somebody trying to hurt me!. I did fear him for other reasons!. And it was a very reasonable fear due to his threats and the fact that he'd stabbed his ex after they divorced!. I just did what I could!. Got a gun!. Moved around; across the country actually!. Looked over my shoulder!. Years past & eventually stopped worrying about it!.
I'm not sure why, but I don't think I fear the unknown so much!.!.!.
My moon is pisces and my mars is virgo!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
For not unreasonable fears!.!.I'm really not so much afraid as maybe weary!. I usually confront head on, balls out!. Little things , well like last night!.!.I've been worried about dumping my bike so I finally just did it (controlled) so I'd know how to handle and peeled out ,etc just trying to get out of my comfort zone a little!. I really didn't like the whole dumping thing!. The burn out was not too bad, I must say :-)
I had some unpleasant business with somebody trying to hurt me!. I did fear him for other reasons!. And it was a very reasonable fear due to his threats and the fact that he'd stabbed his ex after they divorced!. I just did what I could!. Got a gun!. Moved around; across the country actually!. Looked over my shoulder!. Years past & eventually stopped worrying about it!.
I'm not sure why, but I don't think I fear the unknown so much!.!.!.
My moon is pisces and my mars is virgo!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I know its hard to believe but I do not have any fear LIbra Www@Enter-QA@Com