For the Cancers in the Audience?!
Question: For the Cancers in the Audience!?
What is your process for letting go of pain or disappointment caused in part by another person!? Do you throw a temper tantrum at first, then have a pity party off by yoursef to become ok again!? Or, are you able to just swallow hard and press on without having a big process involved!? Moon and Rising, Venus sign too please!. Thanks!
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Hi marina,
I like this question btw!.I feel that it takes a hell of a long time for me to let go of anything that someone does to me,and sometimes,and i'm being very serious when i say this i will hold onto the hurt,and want to get my revenge on them(like a scorpio),and i usually feel sorry for myself for not being able to stand up for myself when they made the comment towards me,and i kind of wait for the right moment when i can get back at them for what they have done to me,and thats what usually makes me feel better!.I also write about my feelings and i keep a journal,and i write a poem about my anger or frustration about what happens to me,and i think for me it's like a release of that pain inside of me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I like this question btw!.I feel that it takes a hell of a long time for me to let go of anything that someone does to me,and sometimes,and i'm being very serious when i say this i will hold onto the hurt,and want to get my revenge on them(like a scorpio),and i usually feel sorry for myself for not being able to stand up for myself when they made the comment towards me,and i kind of wait for the right moment when i can get back at them for what they have done to me,and thats what usually makes me feel better!.I also write about my feelings and i keep a journal,and i write a poem about my anger or frustration about what happens to me,and i think for me it's like a release of that pain inside of me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a Cancer with a Virgo Moon, Sag rising and Gemini Venus!. When I am very disappointed it takes about a day sometimes couple of minutes or a few hours and then I'm fine!. Sometimes I talk it out with the person who disappointed me or I vent to someone who has an understanding ear, then I let it go!. I will admit sometimes its a little harder to let go than others but for the most part depending on how deep it was I'm fine by the next day!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well maybe i can Help You, i Go Out with a Cancer :), and we have been together for 2 years, she is a Cancer and i am a Leo!.!.
Well anyways From what i've noticed Cancer's have a hard time geting over someone or if someone has done them wrong, they usually have a hard time dealing with stuff like that!.!.
When this happens to a Cancer, they usually sheltereds there life from the world, because they are soo upset!.!.
Cancer's are VERY emotional, and people need to learn to be very careful around a Cancer because they can easily get upset!.
And Cancer's do get VERY madd at first at certain issue, but it sometimes can take a week or a month till they will get over there problem they had!.!.
THEY FORGIVE BUT DONT FORGET, because since they are a Water sign, they will be quick to forgive and movie on, but they can't ever let go of the past!.
Cancer's are very moody, there very caring people, they often allways ask for advice from there friends when there upset, friends is only what can make them feel better!.!.
Cancer trys soo hard to be perfect, and make everything around them perfect, but when things dont go there way, they get VERY upset, and sometimes it may take a while before they will get over it!.!.
Cancer's care soo much about everything,and all they want is someone to care for them back :)
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Well anyways From what i've noticed Cancer's have a hard time geting over someone or if someone has done them wrong, they usually have a hard time dealing with stuff like that!.!.
When this happens to a Cancer, they usually sheltereds there life from the world, because they are soo upset!.!.
Cancer's are VERY emotional, and people need to learn to be very careful around a Cancer because they can easily get upset!.
And Cancer's do get VERY madd at first at certain issue, but it sometimes can take a week or a month till they will get over there problem they had!.!.
THEY FORGIVE BUT DONT FORGET, because since they are a Water sign, they will be quick to forgive and movie on, but they can't ever let go of the past!.
Cancer's are very moody, there very caring people, they often allways ask for advice from there friends when there upset, friends is only what can make them feel better!.!.
Cancer trys soo hard to be perfect, and make everything around them perfect, but when things dont go there way, they get VERY upset, and sometimes it may take a while before they will get over it!.!.
Cancer's care soo much about everything,and all they want is someone to care for them back :)
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Like Scorpio, we don't forgive nor do we forget!. We may forgive rationally, but emotionally, never!. The difference between us and Scorpio is that we take it out on the WORLD rather than the person who wronged us!.
Edit: irum r, I find that hard to believe for Cancer is the most nostalgic sign of the zodiac!. But then again, everybody is different to some extent!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Edit: irum r, I find that hard to believe for Cancer is the most nostalgic sign of the zodiac!. But then again, everybody is different to some extent!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I usually feel disappointed for a while (around a few minutes or hours, sometimes carries on the next day, which is hardly), but when it is morning the next day I am up and ready for school and feel better!. I hardly throw temper tantrums!.!.!.
Sun- Cancer
Moon- Taurus
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Moon- Taurus
Rising- Capricorn
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usually i swallow hard, and take it in!.!. try and take the positive way out and be caalm, cool and collected!.!. i will be sad inside but know that i will find someone who doesn't let me down!.!. but later i might, when im down find a quiet spot and cry if things look bad
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rising aquair
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rising aquair
venus leoWww@Enter-QA@Com
I just take a few deep breaths and let it go!. No long complicated process or months spent brooding over things of the past!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
woman thy name is cancer man and women both r women emotional and hold grudges till lifes end
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I won't talk to anyone that day and just try to console myself!. Im not gonna have my weakness exposed!.Www@Enter-QA@Com