Cancers ending friendships?!
Question: Cancers ending friendships!?
My best friend won't talk to me and it's making me really depressed, I miss him a lot even though he's a douche!. Please answer!?
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I'm sorry this issue is still going on for you!. I feel badly for you, because I know that us Cancers really make it hard for people to know where we're coming from!.
First of all, he's not a douche!. LOL You love him and you know it, so try not to knock him!. Believe it or not, I know EXACTLY where he's coming from and can relate in a way to what he's going through!. I will try to explain it!.
I can tell you that being away from home is the hardest life change he has ever had to experience!. We can't stand change at all!. We're not good with it and don't cope well!. He went through a lonely and depressed homesick period where he sulked and felt extremely sorry for himself!. He wants to have his friends right there with him, and since the world can't be the way he wants it hurts!. After a while, he got sick of the sulking and the feeling miserable and now it seems he is going through the "time to move on" phase!. We'll weep and have a temper tantrum over things for just so long and then we brush ourselves off and adapt!. It's what makes us who we are: resilient and strong!. Since it can't be the way he wants it to be, he is going to try and bury his feelings or detach from them!. They're not doing him any good, and in order for him to move on, he can't constantly be reminded about what he is missing or what he doesn't have!. Right now he is just trying to find peace within and adapt to all the changes going on for him emotionally!.He will most definitely keep in touch!.!.!.!.but he will detach for a while!. Remember, Cancers don't typically let go of anyone if the friendship is good and right!. It is never easy for us to walk away!. Never!. Ever!. And I do mean never!. I know it my seem incredibly selfish, but he is focusing on what he needs to do in order for him to be ok and adjust to his new environment!. If talking with you and other old friends is painful for him, it will keep him from doing what he needs to do!. He's just trying to cope!. Try to understand!. It doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, because he does, and he always will!. Right now though, he needs to help himself!. I hope that this made sense to you!.I don't think the guy is a jerk, I just think that he really is going through a lot right now!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
First of all, he's not a douche!. LOL You love him and you know it, so try not to knock him!. Believe it or not, I know EXACTLY where he's coming from and can relate in a way to what he's going through!. I will try to explain it!.
I can tell you that being away from home is the hardest life change he has ever had to experience!. We can't stand change at all!. We're not good with it and don't cope well!. He went through a lonely and depressed homesick period where he sulked and felt extremely sorry for himself!. He wants to have his friends right there with him, and since the world can't be the way he wants it hurts!. After a while, he got sick of the sulking and the feeling miserable and now it seems he is going through the "time to move on" phase!. We'll weep and have a temper tantrum over things for just so long and then we brush ourselves off and adapt!. It's what makes us who we are: resilient and strong!. Since it can't be the way he wants it to be, he is going to try and bury his feelings or detach from them!. They're not doing him any good, and in order for him to move on, he can't constantly be reminded about what he is missing or what he doesn't have!. Right now he is just trying to find peace within and adapt to all the changes going on for him emotionally!.He will most definitely keep in touch!.!.!.!.but he will detach for a while!. Remember, Cancers don't typically let go of anyone if the friendship is good and right!. It is never easy for us to walk away!. Never!. Ever!. And I do mean never!. I know it my seem incredibly selfish, but he is focusing on what he needs to do in order for him to be ok and adjust to his new environment!. If talking with you and other old friends is painful for him, it will keep him from doing what he needs to do!. He's just trying to cope!. Try to understand!. It doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, because he does, and he always will!. Right now though, he needs to help himself!. I hope that this made sense to you!.I don't think the guy is a jerk, I just think that he really is going through a lot right now!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My Cancer friend stopped talking to her Aries best friend once for a reason the Aries was completely oblivious to!. But the Aries gave her the space she needed and they didn't talk for a few months!. Then one day, the Aries sent the Cancer a text asking if she wanted to hang out, so they did, and they never discussed why they were fighting and are still strong as ever!
Cancers are complicated!. Sometimes they just need space!. Tell him you don't know what else you can do and that you'll give him some space and will wait for him to be ready to talk again!. Then the ball is in his court!.
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Cancers are complicated!. Sometimes they just need space!. Tell him you don't know what else you can do and that you'll give him some space and will wait for him to be ready to talk again!. Then the ball is in his court!.
Hope things work out!.Www@Enter-QA@Com