How to get a Scorpio to open up?!


Question: How to get a Scorpio to open up!?
Basically, I've been having some problems with him lately (for the record me = virgo) I think he's become bored and he's definately losing interest in me!. He's a pretty powerful man, so he has a few girls after him, and he seems to like it - he loves attention, but I trust him!. I finally snapped yesterday when I had a bad day!.!.!. got some incredibly horrible news, and went to him to make me feel better and it was kind of like!.!.!. it was like asking a mathematician to paint the mona lisa!. It's not usually like that!. and I'm quite concerned about this girl who's been sniffing around him!. Basically he said that, yeah, he kinda likes her, but he would never do anything to me, and he said that he does it because I make him jealous all the time!.!.!. when I ask him how, he just shrugs and says "I dunno"
Been thinking about leaving him, but first I kinda want to pin-point the problem, to see if it's the right decision!.!.!. but I just can't get him to open up to me, no matter how much I ask!. He would do anything I asked him to, within reason - apart from this!. and he would stop talking to this girl if I asked!. but I don't want to be one of those horrible girls who dictate who they can and cannot be friends with!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


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if you keep asking him whats wrong, he is definitely NOT going to tell you!.
The best thing to do is to try asking specifically!. Acually!.!.!.dont even ask!. Just say!. If he pushes a little, dont be afraid to push back!. We scorpios despise weakness of any sort!. Be logical and precise!. Be very strong with your words and dont put on an act of any sort!. Tell him that he hurt you!. Tell him that you notice him becoming detached and bored!. Make him want to open up to you!.!.!.make him want to be with you!. If he doesnt comply, make yourself a little less emotionally available!.!.!.that will hit him hard, trust me!.
be careful not to push too hard tho!.!.!.!.that could cause him to get competitive and try to hurt you!.
This will be very complicated!.!.!.!.so be careful with your words and listen closely to his responses!.!.!.that will tell you a lot!. Take some control of the conversation

The whole other girl thing!.!.!.I would watch out for that!. You wont be one of those "horrible girls who dictate"!. You have a gut feeling, and he said that he liked her!. He likes the attention!.!.!.but its not fair to you!. Give him the option!.!.!.her or you!. Be firm

And good luck girl! <33Www@Enter-QA@Com

My man is a scorpio too, and he does that all the time!. its their nature this is from one side!. Don't make a drama of it ( the other girl), try to see what he likes in about her and do what ever he say that he likes, !. Just take him back before she steals him, don't compare between you and her this will show that u feel insecure and that u don't trust him!. Just tell him what does he like about her that really works beleive me I do it all the time,

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Well, iam a scorpio, and it isnt easy to make us open up!. Actually you cant make us, because if we feel forced we will run away from you!.

You can ask him questions, but do it calmly!. Iam sure he does love the chase of other women liking him!.
But you should find out how you make him jealous all the time!. Tht could be part of the problem!.
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I think that if someone is hurting you in a relationship, it's time to leave!. Even if it is a Scorpio!. He's playing mind games with you just to see if you care!. But when he sees that you're not going to play into his games, he'll come back crawling and end up being the best guy in the world to you!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

you have to be trusted to have them open up, but it's hard for them to trust so you gotta be patient and most of all, be true!.

they are hiding their interior from the world!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

I'm a scorpio so if you wanna get us to open up
!.!.!.!.!.get us drunk or share your real feeling with them <3 best of luck with you scorpio opening issuesWww@Enter-QA@Com

Good luck with that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I discovered that the only way to get through a Scorpio is by being patient!. They do take some time to fully trust someone and open up to them!. They hate the feeling of rejection so what they do is they wait as long as they can because they have very intense feelings and they do not want to scare you off or come off as to strong!. As soon as they sense that the person feels the same they will start expressing themselves, but not completely!
I found that is easier to understand his nature and be soft, and slow with my words, just like he is!. Time will make him trust you and open up his feelings and thoughts!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Scorpios are very secretive!. I know this because my father was a scorpio and my mom had lots of problems interacting with him!. They eventually got divorced!. Getting a scorpio to open up is extremely difficult to impossible!. I'd be ready to suggest counseling, but it will be hard for him to open up, especially if you're there!. I feel weird saying this, but maybe he'll be open during sex!. Scorpios are so sex driven that I'd give it a try!. Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com

welcome to the club!.!.!.

interacting with them,will killing u softly,lol!.!.!.been passed it lately,i think im one of the failed one communicate well with scorpio people!.!.but i still hv my great curiosity inside me!.!.!.let gv them space!.!.!.just tested his feeling anyway but stopping contacting him!.!.!.in the right time,i think he will start to hear n communicate with u back!.!.!.well,atleast u tell him abt wht thngs makes u feel inconvinience!.!.!.the rest just depends on him how to react on it!.!.!.!.
its like a gamble,lol!.!.!.hope all the best with u,miss :)
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