Mutable signs- does this happen to you?!


Question: Mutable signs- does this happen to you!?
I have been trying to set boundaries (which is a very weak area of mine) and no matter how hard I try it seems very little changes!.

Even with my closest friends, I expressed very clearly the things that they (my Gemini bff and my other close Capricorn friend) do that I don't like because its either very selfish of them or hurts my feelings or puts me last (taken in to consideration last) like all of the time!.

They say they hear me and then the very next time they're doing it again!.

I have said our friendship will suffer and blah blah blah but still nothing!.

Thing is that I don't know what else to do!. I have tried to "lay down the law" but they know they can just smooth things back over like they always do!.

I don't understand!.!.!.I am supposed to be a no joke Fire sign- LOL- what the frig!?!

Furthermore, if I am honest, I already love them to pieces and don't really want them out of my life as friends!. I don't believe in spiting myself and to "breakup" with them will make me sadder then them I am sure!.

I don't get it!. Do you think it is my mutability!? How can I improve!?

My chart:

Sun Sagittarius
Moon Leo
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
V house in Virgo
VII house in Sagittarius
XI Pisces

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Answers:
I dont' see Yikes's point at all!.

Fortunately for your friends you are not acting like a Scorp Mars at all!. You would be expected to take action and move in a vindictive manner when you feel wronged against you- apparently your humanitarian Sun Sag is overriding that, for their sake!.

Is this because you are mutable!? I doubt it!. You are speaking your truth and trying to get them to hear you and that is huge! Are you in this situation because you are too nice and forgiving!.!.!. probably!. I have a Gem Rising and forever find Gem Sun girlfriends to be a disappointment!. BTW I also have Scorp Venus and Mars, and I have more vindication than you!.!.!.

Astrology aside, the fact of the matter is, that you cannot change anyone but yourself!. You can continue to assert yourself, until something changes!.!.!. either they will change, or those you call your BFF will change!. That is the bottom line!. If they are not hearing your needs and trying to treat you better, than I think, you deserve to treat yourself to better BFFs!Www@Enter-QA@Com

try to grow backbone, as fellow pisces, be stronger and don't let them push you around, they think you are too easy!.
stick with it and you will see!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

What is your ascendant!? That is most important!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Moon - Leo
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Scorpio


theres your problem
your moon is at odds with your venus
your moon is at odds with your mars
hard for you to relate to others especially the way you feel etc!.!.!. you just send the wrong signals, be aware of your flaws and you can change

edit: because theres a good chance you have the aspects (check your chart for aspects) moon square Venus and moon square mars, google those aspects for more informationWww@Enter-QA@Com

Maybe try this!?

Setting boundaries starts with you!. So, it sounds like you have given more than needed verbal warnings to others!.!.!.(!?correct!?)

I am not sure exactly what your situation is with your friends, but maybe you need to re-categorize them!.!.!.!.!. I had/have a few "friends" that just did what they wanted on their terms only!. When they agreed to do something with me, they didn't!.

One example - I told this one person!.recently!.!.!.!.!.still continued!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.so now I have decided not to trip on it and not make plans with this person, be available, expect nothing and put zero energy into it - just like they do for me!. I am done!.

So why do you want to be their friend!? They don't sound very supportive - what's keeping you connected to them!? Do they show interest in you and things you are interested in!? In times of trouble do they check in and ask how you are doing if you don't keep in touch!? Do they even remember your past conversation (hey - it happens!)!? When they contact you is it only when they want something from you!? If you were in need of someone right now, would they be there for you!?

Well, just some ideas!.!.!.!.and thoughtsWww@Enter-QA@Com

I'm a combo of 3 mutables: Pisces Sun/Gemini Moon/Sag rising

Boundaries!.!. agh! So hard to keep them!. Mutable signs aren't the ones to set boundaries!. It's too hard for us to make a decision and stick with it!. It's not because we're liars or cheaters!. It's because we change, sometimes even crave for change!. Personally speaking, I don't even have a favourite color!. One day it's green, yellow the next!. We're more of a let go type, enjoying the moment, saving the day without thinking the next one!.
You've already made it clear to your friends but maybe you should be louder!? Or maybe you can try to figure out what makes them behave like this!.!. maybe they don't intend to hurt you, they do it unintentionally (well that may be a fixed sign: leo,cap,scorp,taurus!.!.) After being sure of that, it'll be easier for you to ignore the "hurting" things they do!. With your sag sun and gemini ascendant, I'm sure your sense of humor comes naturally!. Just respond with a joke, make a joke out of it!. Use words (geminis are experts with words) to overcome!.

Hope that helps, wish you luck with ur friends :)

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