Would a Scorpio girl (or any other girl) take this as an insult or loyalty?!
Question: Would a Scorpio girl (or any other girl) take this as an insult or loyalty!?
A scorpio friend of mine has obviously been trying to get closer to me!. I would love to get closer to her, (b/c she is the only woman id ever want if I wanted a relationship) but I feel that she can do so much better than me!. I feel like id ruin her life!. I want her to have the best, but I can't give it to her!.
And so I told her this, and she just shook her head and didnt say anything!.
My question is: if some guy told you that, how would you take it!? loyalty and true love or insulting!?
NOTE: I don't go out with anyone else, so you can't say that I just don't love her enough!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
And so I told her this, and she just shook her head and didnt say anything!.
My question is: if some guy told you that, how would you take it!? loyalty and true love or insulting!?
NOTE: I don't go out with anyone else, so you can't say that I just don't love her enough!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
I don't think you thought long and hard ENOUGH before you said that!.
Your actions/words in a way contradict how you feel and you need to think and access the situation once more before you push her away permanently!. And trust me, you will, if not now then later on cos she put herself out there to let you know how she feels about you!. She is a Scorpio, dude!. It's only natural for them to do so!. Cos if you don't snatch her up, you can bet on it that somebody else will!.
I can't speak for her but, personally and truthfully!. I would probably take that as an insult!. actually, I have IRL!. and it wasn't pretty cos I completely cut the guy(s) out of my life for doing so!. They have realized their mistake now but I was no longer interested cos I found someone else who was worth my time and love!. I wouldn't take it as loyalty regardless of what you say cos one can only be loyal if they are commited to one another but not if they are not together!. You can tell yourself that till you are blue in the face but it won't mean anything, especially to her!.
Cos I ditched the one guy who say the exact same thing to me!. Only with him, he said that he wouldn't do anything for me- " I'll do 'almost' anything for you" were his exact words and that wasn't good enough for me!. and now he's changed his mind, so now apparently he would do anything for me afterall!. It's just too bad he realized it too late cos now when I think of him!. All I think is that he is not man enough to be my man cos now I look at him, I see him in a different light!. And also, the fact that I am now taken!.
I will break it down for you from a females perspective, ok!?
In a way, you are telling her that you don't love her enough to try, to try to make her happy!. Is that how you truly feel!?!? That your efforts to try, that she wouldn't be worth it!? How can you say that she is the one person you'd ever want but not even atleast try to make her happy!.
Are you making her happy now!?!? A broken heart and rejection hurts and suks dude!.
As one fish to another, don't look down on yourself or ever feel that you are worthless, cos you're not!. And she doesn't seem to think so!.
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Your actions/words in a way contradict how you feel and you need to think and access the situation once more before you push her away permanently!. And trust me, you will, if not now then later on cos she put herself out there to let you know how she feels about you!. She is a Scorpio, dude!. It's only natural for them to do so!. Cos if you don't snatch her up, you can bet on it that somebody else will!.
I can't speak for her but, personally and truthfully!. I would probably take that as an insult!. actually, I have IRL!. and it wasn't pretty cos I completely cut the guy(s) out of my life for doing so!. They have realized their mistake now but I was no longer interested cos I found someone else who was worth my time and love!. I wouldn't take it as loyalty regardless of what you say cos one can only be loyal if they are commited to one another but not if they are not together!. You can tell yourself that till you are blue in the face but it won't mean anything, especially to her!.
Cos I ditched the one guy who say the exact same thing to me!. Only with him, he said that he wouldn't do anything for me- " I'll do 'almost' anything for you" were his exact words and that wasn't good enough for me!. and now he's changed his mind, so now apparently he would do anything for me afterall!. It's just too bad he realized it too late cos now when I think of him!. All I think is that he is not man enough to be my man cos now I look at him, I see him in a different light!. And also, the fact that I am now taken!.
I will break it down for you from a females perspective, ok!?
In a way, you are telling her that you don't love her enough to try, to try to make her happy!. Is that how you truly feel!?!? That your efforts to try, that she wouldn't be worth it!? How can you say that she is the one person you'd ever want but not even atleast try to make her happy!.
Are you making her happy now!?!? A broken heart and rejection hurts and suks dude!.
As one fish to another, don't look down on yourself or ever feel that you are worthless, cos you're not!. And she doesn't seem to think so!.
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Best is right!. There is someone I am interested in and am certain it can work (lol I have stopped beating myself up as a person and see reality!. You too should realize you are a good man if you intend for things to work)!. In my situation, it is not that I am not interested, but I am resolving some matters in order to move forward unimpeded!. I am taking a stepping back in order to move forward!. Btw, if you do not believe yourself worthy you will be unable to accept her love!. You must believe in you if you are to believe the relationship can work!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
that's sweet and all, but overall/bottom line it's torture for her!.!.!. pls just love the woman!.!.!. scorpios have a whole lot to give but are selective), if she's willing to take the iniative just flow w it!.!.!. dont hurt her by telling her u cant give her what she wants, obviously you dont know (im sure what she wants is YOU)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpios are selective about who they allow in thier lives!. You just showed her that you dont think much of yourself and she may find that unattractive!. Let her decide if you are good enough!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i think you already you know what she thinks!. she must have said something back to you in response!.
i personally "feel" it is flattering but in reality it will mean i won't have the person i want in my life!.
so even if she appreciate it,i doubt that is what she wants!. someone who care enough not to be with her!
one last thought!. if iwas her, and you had no one in your life!. and you were into me and so was i , but still you dont want me as a partner, i would be confused and hurt!. THERE!
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i personally "feel" it is flattering but in reality it will mean i won't have the person i want in my life!.
so even if she appreciate it,i doubt that is what she wants!. someone who care enough not to be with her!
one last thought!. if iwas her, and you had no one in your life!. and you were into me and so was i , but still you dont want me as a partner, i would be confused and hurt!. THERE!
would you like that!?Www@Enter-QA@Com