How can i get my Loud, Leo cousin to be more considerate?!
Question: How can i get my Loud, Leo cousin to be more considerate!?
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I'm a quiet, intellectual Leo gal!. My cousin is loud, walks around half naked, clicking his fingers and singing loudly, jumping around and making noise!. He makes it his business to stop whatever he's doing and accost me as soon as i wake up and ask me questions, he attempts small talk with me in my house, when I'm obviously groggy from waking up!. He's kinda stupid too!.
Even though he's mixed race, half jamaican, half mixed white!. And I'm very mixed with jamaican, m!.white, indian!.!.!.etc!.!.!.
We where having a conversation about spring cleaning the house before my ma gets back from holiday(he accosted me in the morning again)!. I said she doesn't care, because she told me not to clean, and he just kept insisting we clean!. Then he said that he thinks cleaning, and taking care of one's things is "A Black Thing!"
He's more black than me and he wasn't even ashamed of what he said!. He said that blacks make better cleaners, because we're better at it!.
This is just another reason why i can't live with him, but i have no choice!. It's my mums house for now, she wants him here, and i can't afford to move out!. I work part time and study full-time!.
He's offensive, loud, stupid and he drives me crazy!.
Do any of you have any advise!. Is he like a serious Leo or what!. Serious attention seeking, thinks his word is law no matter what(i live here, his days are numbered)!.
Do any of you know any Leos like this!? I'm a Leo, but not as bad as he is!. His sun, moon and rising must all be Leo!.
I'm Sun-Leo, Moon-Aquarius, Rising-Virgo!.
Is this my virgo pickiness, or does he really sound annoying!?
Please give me any advise you can regarding my situation!.
I don't think i can articulate my anger for him properly in this question!.
How can i live with him, What should i say to him, How should i behave around him!?
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I'm a quiet, intellectual Leo gal!. My cousin is loud, walks around half naked, clicking his fingers and singing loudly, jumping around and making noise!. He makes it his business to stop whatever he's doing and accost me as soon as i wake up and ask me questions, he attempts small talk with me in my house, when I'm obviously groggy from waking up!. He's kinda stupid too!.
Even though he's mixed race, half jamaican, half mixed white!. And I'm very mixed with jamaican, m!.white, indian!.!.!.etc!.!.!.
We where having a conversation about spring cleaning the house before my ma gets back from holiday(he accosted me in the morning again)!. I said she doesn't care, because she told me not to clean, and he just kept insisting we clean!. Then he said that he thinks cleaning, and taking care of one's things is "A Black Thing!"
He's more black than me and he wasn't even ashamed of what he said!. He said that blacks make better cleaners, because we're better at it!.
This is just another reason why i can't live with him, but i have no choice!. It's my mums house for now, she wants him here, and i can't afford to move out!. I work part time and study full-time!.
He's offensive, loud, stupid and he drives me crazy!.
Do any of you have any advise!. Is he like a serious Leo or what!. Serious attention seeking, thinks his word is law no matter what(i live here, his days are numbered)!.
Do any of you know any Leos like this!? I'm a Leo, but not as bad as he is!. His sun, moon and rising must all be Leo!.
I'm Sun-Leo, Moon-Aquarius, Rising-Virgo!.
Is this my virgo pickiness, or does he really sound annoying!?
Please give me any advise you can regarding my situation!.
I don't think i can articulate my anger for him properly in this question!.
How can i live with him, What should i say to him, How should i behave around him!?
Help!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
he's just a douchebag!. his symbol doesnt have anything to do with it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Most little kids are just annoying, it's the parents job to put them in their place and make them behave!. But I do think his Leo-ness makes him seek to be the center of attention and your Virgo rising does not see it as acceptable behavior!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have a sag!. cousin who is just as bad!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well I'm also aquarius moon!. U'll have to be very diplomatic with this guy until u finish ur studies completely and get very good marks so that he doesn't interrupt u with ur current studies and make ur whole life a mess!. Be very careful, study very hard and before u make any big decision complete ur studies very well so that u land up in a nice job and be independent even if ur mom insists u to stay away from her!. coz if ur studies get worse he won't be the one to say because of him it happened!.
And in situations like u mentioned above be very diplomatic!. Request him that he is the coolest cousin u have and u are 100% sure he won't disturb u in ur studies instead he will help u!. say things like that and believe m Leo will go beyond their way to help someone in need!. they just want appreciated !.!. so later once ur studies are over u can be with him or away from him!.!.
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And in situations like u mentioned above be very diplomatic!. Request him that he is the coolest cousin u have and u are 100% sure he won't disturb u in ur studies instead he will help u!. say things like that and believe m Leo will go beyond their way to help someone in need!. they just want appreciated !.!. so later once ur studies are over u can be with him or away from him!.!.
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