How would you deal with someone who thought you were two different people?!


Question: How would you deal with someone who thought you were two different people!?
Alright, here's an answer I just posted in the Psychology section because a person asked what do you thik of overly sensitive people!.!.!. Please read, and let me know how you might deal with this situation!. I feel like I'm getting close to my limit, I think I might snap on him!.!.!.

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"I know a person who is like this!. Right now we're in the "getting to know you" stages and he thinks I have 2 sides to me because in text I'm one way and in person I'm another way!. I told him that you can't read too much into text messages because things like tone get lost in translation!. He thinks I'm so sweet in text then in person I'm rude, and sarcastic!. I honestly don't know if I'm going to be able to be his friend!. I mean he already thinks I'm fake but he doesn't even know me!. Every time I talk to him he asks me why I'm yelling at him or why I'm being rude!.!.!. I'm like WTF is wrong wth you!? I'm not being rude, I haven't even raised my voice!. I really can't tolerate it!. I told him I'm not out to get you, I'm not rude!.!.!. Just because I don't talk much in person and when I do you think I'm being too sarcastic doesn't mean I'm rude!.!.!. It means I'm quiet, and sarcastic!. Get over it, or don't talk to me!. I'm not going to be walking on egg shells with him, I'm assuming that some people we both know change who they are around him so he won't be offended, but I am who I am and it's not in me to act one way with him & another with everyone else just so he doesn't drown in his own tears!. It's so annoying, seriously!. Don't take everything personally!.!.!. And a lot of people have a calm side and a wild side, that's human nature!. He obviously doesn't get that, but I'm going to teach him a lesson!. We're supposed to hang out tonight with my sister & a good friend of mine/his!. I hope it turns out okay, but I can tell that I'll probably say something to him & we probably won't be getting to know each other anymore after this!.!.!.!. I think this guy is cool, but he has to cut this sensitivity thing out because we're never going to get along!.

I'm a sensitive person, as in watching what's around me, observing things, picking up vibes from people and places, but I don't let what other people say get to me, especially if they don't know me!.!.!. It's not worth my time and energy!.

You asked for honesty, there you have it served up steaming hot!."

Sun: Sagittarius
Rising: Sagittarius
Moon: Taurus
*Mars: Scorpio (he's a Scorpio, I don't know the rest of his chart)
*Venus: CapricornWww@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
You need to give the Mercury sign and aspects also!. This has a lot to do with Mercury issues!.

Beyond that, I think the problem is rather simple to see!. You are a person who communicates much better with writing than you do with spontaneous talking!. You have excellent writing skills, but your ability to discuss on natural impulse is probably much different!. You should explain to him that a person can communicate in writing entirely differently than he or she does in person!. Tell him that you would hope that he would be mature enough to understand this fact!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Stop texting with him!. If he doesn't like the 'in person' you, then you're not a good match to be friends or anything else!. Once he gets to know you better (assuming you get along) you can start texting again and he'll know how to take your texts!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

1!. you have attractive personality!.
2!. you are dominating person!.
3!. your speech is always sweet!. you have sweet voice for singing!.
4!. you have high anger!.
5!. control your tendencies!.
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Sounds like your "friend" (yeah right) is insecure and can't handle anything with a slight negative connotation towards them/has bad social skills/veryyy annoying!. I think Sagittarians sometimes say blunt things to be humorous and I get that!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

My best friend is going through a similiar situation, but actually they are in a very "warped" relationship!. She is a Gemini and he is a Taurus and you have to be a wit as well as get up pretty early in the morning to deal with her, but that's why I love her so much!. They are constantly arguing and he is always telling her negative things about herself, and it infuriates me beyond belief, but she wants him around for companionship!. I, personally, couldn't do it!. I am who I am and there is someone out there for all of us!. If I were you and me and this person were having this much difficulty already, I would deal with him in a very limited capacity or knowing me, not at all!. Why would you want to be friends with someone who thinks you are rude!?

Don't give him a reason to think you are rude - it's not worth it!. I could be wrong, but it sounds like you are persuing more than friendship or perhaps you are just up for a good challenge!. It sounds like you have never encountered someone thus far who has had a problem with your personality, which could be why this is annoying you so much!. You are who you are and if you are really secure in that, this guy wouldn't annoy you!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Capricorn

well in the same way that you are upset that they think your personality is sometimes too harsh they are upset with you for the same reason


you just sound like an uneven match if this is showing early on there will be bigger problems

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