What aspects or placements would hint self-destructive tendencies?!


Question: What aspects or placements would hint self-destructive tendencies!?
I'm curious because if don't meet my high standards or expectations I tend to be so hard on myself to a point where it's not healthy!.

When I feel completely misunderstood or unloved, I lead myself into thinking that I'm a worthless pos that doesn't deserve to live and so I feel I must hurt myself just to see the reaction of my loved ones!.

Can anything in a chart explain this kind of behavior!? Would it be a chart filled with water signs, because I barely have any water!? I have water midheaven though!. Water's in the 1st house!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
Take a look at your saturn!. Hard aspects to saturn and saturn in the first house, for instance, can make a person VERY hard on themselves!.
I don't think water signs make a person self-destructive at all anyway, just more emotional!. That doesn't mean they are necessarily unhealthily hard on themselves, though!.

Edit: Hmm!. Saturn square pluto would certainly give you an element of frustration in your life and may very well lead to self-destructive tendencies in a person!. This may be a part of the problem, but I don't know if it pinpoints it exactly!. Only you can really figure that out by looking at your entire birthchart!. But perhaps in a way it is part of your being so hard on yourself - for some reason you take your frustrations inside you, and end up blaming yourself for your percieved failures - not meeting your own expectations as well as the expectations from others!. One of the problems with this aspect is that you are your own worst enemy in many ways!. You drag yourself down more than anyone because of your own insecurities regarding yourself!.

Despite this square you still have the power to draw yourself out of this negative cycle of percieved neglect, feelings of low self worth, self-harm, and attention-seeking!. This square will make this difficult, but there is always a push with squares to get out of them and learn from them - as I'm sure you know!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

awww!.!.!. danger danger danger
I did notice this about you and it breaks my heart a li'l

fingers point to venus, theres so much going on here but ill try
your right it mostly has to do with a water sign, but you said that you didnt have much water sign!? so i will go with Moon, Neptune, Pluto are any of this aspected to Venus, or aspecting each other then aspecting venus!?

your idea of yourself is sometimes way off from reality, you have a good imagination but dont let it wander off too far and let it destroy you!.!.

theres also acceptance in your part, its not good to continue this way, could be trines led in the wrong direction!?

these planets are never content with the world, you have to learn that no one can be perfect, but only be a perfect version of who you areWww@Enter-QA@Com

if only you loved yourself more and accepted who you are you would,nt let others have such power over you!. the people i admire are the ones who could,nt give a **** about peoples opinion on them and are free to live out their live without others having an influence!.
its something i'm working on, i did,nt have much self worth as a kid,as if there were better people who were entitled to more than me!.
hurting yourself to see the reactions of loved ones might be something you learnt to do as a child, maybe like me you did'nt realize how much you were loved!.
i have played dice with my life,to see if i could push,even die,because deep down i did'nt feel part of life, and its took alot of work to change those thoughts and if i can do so can you!. get rid of your pain and find what makes you happy ;)Www@Enter-QA@Com



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