Do you prefer modest people over boastful people, signs?!
Question: Do you prefer modest people over boastful people, signs!?
But there's a catch!.!.!.
The modest person is not only modest but unfortunately insecure and uncertain to the point where it's annoying as well!.
The boastful person is confident, sure and knows what they want but they're annoying anyway because they have too much pride and are self-absorbed!.
So, they're both annoying!.!.!.but which do you prefer!?
I'm a bit of both, but I can handle modest, self pitying, and indecisive people so I prefer them!.
No wait, I don't, because an arrogant and vain person is very entertaining and fun!. I like arrogant people better!.
Libra!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The modest person is not only modest but unfortunately insecure and uncertain to the point where it's annoying as well!.
The boastful person is confident, sure and knows what they want but they're annoying anyway because they have too much pride and are self-absorbed!.
So, they're both annoying!.!.!.but which do you prefer!?
I'm a bit of both, but I can handle modest, self pitying, and indecisive people so I prefer them!.
No wait, I don't, because an arrogant and vain person is very entertaining and fun!. I like arrogant people better!.
Libra!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Yeah!.!.!.I would then kill off Rach and become the King of this world!.!.!.!.( dont need to kill anyone since Rach already did the job for me )
lol
What you described there is a bit extreme , not everyone who is modest is insecure whiny and indecisive , and not everyone who is confident but boastful and arrogant!. I am confident in what I know , but I can be indecisive when it comes to certain things , I am very friendly and out-going , but I dont go rub on people face to let them know that I am good , ( though I am just answering your Q here haha)!.
But with the extreme case that you talked about , it is still better than those who KNOW that are good and all but still wanna try to act all modest intentionally to get good response from other people!. This is what I dont like!. If you are good at something , be confident about it !. Nobody expects you to know every single thing and it is true that what we know is a droplet of water, what we dont is the ocean , but when people ask if you are good at something and they'd like to know it , then if you are, say it!.
It is like teacher or a doctor when asked " are you familiar with the practice !? " , instead of reinstating your credentials and experiences to re-affirm your credibility , you say " no, I have been a doctor/teacher for 10 years now and I am still a beginner " , saying this does not make people think you are modest , saying this will make your credibility go down the pit and does not provoke trust from other people!.
Being purposely and falsely modest is just as worse as being arrogant, vain and boastful , both after all is to get approval from other people!. As for the true insecure and uncertain individuals , if they are true to their nature , i'd just be happy being with them and help them with that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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What you described there is a bit extreme , not everyone who is modest is insecure whiny and indecisive , and not everyone who is confident but boastful and arrogant!. I am confident in what I know , but I can be indecisive when it comes to certain things , I am very friendly and out-going , but I dont go rub on people face to let them know that I am good , ( though I am just answering your Q here haha)!.
But with the extreme case that you talked about , it is still better than those who KNOW that are good and all but still wanna try to act all modest intentionally to get good response from other people!. This is what I dont like!. If you are good at something , be confident about it !. Nobody expects you to know every single thing and it is true that what we know is a droplet of water, what we dont is the ocean , but when people ask if you are good at something and they'd like to know it , then if you are, say it!.
It is like teacher or a doctor when asked " are you familiar with the practice !? " , instead of reinstating your credentials and experiences to re-affirm your credibility , you say " no, I have been a doctor/teacher for 10 years now and I am still a beginner " , saying this does not make people think you are modest , saying this will make your credibility go down the pit and does not provoke trust from other people!.
Being purposely and falsely modest is just as worse as being arrogant, vain and boastful , both after all is to get approval from other people!. As for the true insecure and uncertain individuals , if they are true to their nature , i'd just be happy being with them and help them with that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I can't stand pathetic whiners, but I ABSOLUTELY CANNOT STAND boastful people!. I think humility is so very important!. Excrutiatingly important, in fact!. Boastfulness and excessive pride or arrogance is merely an obstacle to self-understanding and understanding of the world!. It is an excuse not to know yourself and the world!.
So, I would pick the humble person!. I personally feel that it is easier to help a humble, insecure person to be more confident - in which case you have a very respectful person, a person both confident and humble!. It is much harder to break through the ignorant pride of a confident person!. That could take a lifetime, if that!.!.!. and if you did, how could you be careful not to make them feel they are worthless!? It is difficult to give a person balance after they have taken more than they deserve!.
So yea, the first person for me I suppose!. Pisces!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So, I would pick the humble person!. I personally feel that it is easier to help a humble, insecure person to be more confident - in which case you have a very respectful person, a person both confident and humble!. It is much harder to break through the ignorant pride of a confident person!. That could take a lifetime, if that!.!.!. and if you did, how could you be careful not to make them feel they are worthless!? It is difficult to give a person balance after they have taken more than they deserve!.
So yea, the first person for me I suppose!. Pisces!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I really enjoy how you embodied your sign in your question ;D
I feel like!.!.!. I prefer to DATE the boastful confident person!.!.!. I'm a very blunt person and I don't mind shooting them down when they get out of hand!. But, I think if I was shy and insecure in my relationships it would be a different story!. It's just the fact that the boastful confidence thing doesn't last long when dating me!.
In terms of friends!.!.!. I think I'de prefer the insecure, indecisive type!. I'm more that type I think so there are never any power struggles that way I guess!.
Really though, in the middle would be ideal!. I know how both can be very annoying!.!.!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I feel like!.!.!. I prefer to DATE the boastful confident person!.!.!. I'm a very blunt person and I don't mind shooting them down when they get out of hand!. But, I think if I was shy and insecure in my relationships it would be a different story!. It's just the fact that the boastful confidence thing doesn't last long when dating me!.
In terms of friends!.!.!. I think I'de prefer the insecure, indecisive type!. I'm more that type I think so there are never any power struggles that way I guess!.
Really though, in the middle would be ideal!. I know how both can be very annoying!.!.!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
This reminds me reading a resume!. Some people think they can walk on water and think they are the best of the best!. My past experience tells me that some can talk ,but they cant do what they said!. Others are trying so hard but cannot em pressed someone!. It is okey to follow someone and learned other things from a gifted person, and it's also okey to teach and assist someone when help is needed, but insecure person needs to learn and be able to stand with their own two feet!.
Edit: First empression is the last empression, and that's the facts of life wether a person is modest or boastful!. In other words, in this world we lived in, no one is perfect!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Edit: First empression is the last empression, and that's the facts of life wether a person is modest or boastful!. In other words, in this world we lived in, no one is perfect!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I've dealt with both and I prefer the modest person!. It's easier to build a person up and help instill a little confidence rather than trying to knock an arrogant and boastful person off their pedestal!. Insecure people can be somewhat annoying but I can find compassion for them easier also!.
edit!. Marilyn, I second that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
edit!. Marilyn, I second that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I prefer not to jump to conclusions about people!. I don't think the modest person is as insecure and uncertain as you might think; and I don't think the boastful person is as prideful and self-absorbed as you might think!.
What bothers me more than the negative qualities that you describe is arrogance, self-aggrandisement and deceptive manipulation of the truth!.
You should understand this!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
What bothers me more than the negative qualities that you describe is arrogance, self-aggrandisement and deceptive manipulation of the truth!.
You should understand this!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I cant stand boastful people!.!. or overly mosest!.
I can honestley say i do not have any friends who fall into those categories!. Though i do know people who do!.!.and they cant stand me just as much as vise versa!.
But if i had to choose id have to say the boastful person because they probabley have other traits that i would connect with that would help me vito the cockyness!. As long as they have other traits in them that i like, my judgement on them should balance out!. I probabley just wouldnt be able to hang out with them to much!.
I would deffinatley say something that maybe hurt there huge egos accidentaley, just cause i feel truth is best:p
LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com
I can honestley say i do not have any friends who fall into those categories!. Though i do know people who do!.!.and they cant stand me just as much as vise versa!.
But if i had to choose id have to say the boastful person because they probabley have other traits that i would connect with that would help me vito the cockyness!. As long as they have other traits in them that i like, my judgement on them should balance out!. I probabley just wouldnt be able to hang out with them to much!.
I would deffinatley say something that maybe hurt there huge egos accidentaley, just cause i feel truth is best:p
LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com
modesty always win!. An inner self confidence is always attractive, but too much is annoying!. Modest people know their strengths but are VERY aware of their faults whereas arrogant people are VERY aware of their strengths and not so much on their faults!. 50/50 is where I like it!.
too much of anything is bad, really!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
too much of anything is bad, really!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Modest person!.
A boastful person is probably more insecure than a modest person and is undoubtedly fibbing!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
A boastful person is probably more insecure than a modest person and is undoubtedly fibbing!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I like modest more however!. Idk!. I like to keep the peace!. I can't handle spending too much time with a self-absorbed person or a boastful person!. I would say something to them after a while!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You are a Libra, so all ya gotta do is spend equal amounts of time with each so you will balance out all nice and evenly!.
I'm Aquarius, and I just can NOT tolerate arrogant boastful people!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm Aquarius, and I just can NOT tolerate arrogant boastful people!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I prefer boastful people, I can relate to them more!.
Modest people are like super annoying and it's like, "GAH"!.
Yeah!.!.!.!.
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Modest people are like super annoying and it's like, "GAH"!.
Yeah!.!.!.!.
GeminiWww@Enter-QA@Com
I prefer the modest meek persona over the boastful cocky persona!.
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I'll go with the modest person!. I find that most boastful types are the more insecure of the two!. They just feel that they can cover it up with bravado!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I like both!. The only people that I have any problem with are the types who think that rules only apply to others but not to themselves!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
both, they are entitled to their own feelings and behaviour, i'll just accept them as they are!.!.!. coz i want to be accepted for who i am also, no matter what!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hmm!. I'd go with the boastful person for entertainment!.!. mm [8Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think (and hope) both are fine!.
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well if they are both annoying, maybe ill find the modest one less annoyingWww@Enter-QA@Com
i think more modest people betterWww@Enter-QA@Com
I'll just stay home and read a book!. Pisces!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ahhh I answered a question kind of like this in P&S one night!. The answer I answered then fits perfectly with this question so I'm just going to C&P it here:
Deflated sense of self esteem!. You can never convince someone that they're good enough as long as they don't believe they are good enough!. It's much easier to deal with someone who has an inflated ego, because at least they believe they are good enough!.!.!. And if you really don't like them, don't hang around them!. Simple as that!. You're almost attracted and indebted to the person with the self esteem issue to help them realize they aren't worthless!.!.!.
I see it in society all the time!. Everyone will steer clear of the arrogant person, and try to help the person with the lowest self esteem, but it doesn't matter if that person doesn't believe in themselves!.
The question was: "Which is harder to handle, an inflated ego or a deflated sense of self esteem!."
Sagittarius Sun
Sagittarius Rising
Taurus moon
Low tolerance for people who whine, whine, whine and do nothing to change their situation!. You can either drown in your tears, or you can swim to the shore and do something about it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Deflated sense of self esteem!. You can never convince someone that they're good enough as long as they don't believe they are good enough!. It's much easier to deal with someone who has an inflated ego, because at least they believe they are good enough!.!.!. And if you really don't like them, don't hang around them!. Simple as that!. You're almost attracted and indebted to the person with the self esteem issue to help them realize they aren't worthless!.!.!.
I see it in society all the time!. Everyone will steer clear of the arrogant person, and try to help the person with the lowest self esteem, but it doesn't matter if that person doesn't believe in themselves!.
The question was: "Which is harder to handle, an inflated ego or a deflated sense of self esteem!."
Sagittarius Sun
Sagittarius Rising
Taurus moon
Low tolerance for people who whine, whine, whine and do nothing to change their situation!. You can either drown in your tears, or you can swim to the shore and do something about it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I prefer boastful people!. I find that boastful people are so consumed with themselves!.!.!.it's easy to get comfortable!. They often miss out on details of other people!.!.!.So, I never have to worry about being judged or observed!.
"it's always the quiet ones!."
I guess!.!.!.after coming back to this question, with a good nights sleep, I can add a bit more to my reasoning!.
Basically, I don't care if other people have faults!. I don't care if they find themselves to be absolutely superb!. They're opinion of themselves, at the end of the day, doesn't change my opinion about them!. If they have low self esteem, let them have it!. If they have high self esteem, good for them!.
There is something good in each of them!. I find that it's easier for me to have an acquaintance with a huge ego, because, I'm really good at laughing at making jokes when I'm in the right company!.
But for a genuine relationship, someone that I want to feel close to and know for a long time!.!.!.I want the one who is modest!.
They all serve their purpose!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
"it's always the quiet ones!."
I guess!.!.!.after coming back to this question, with a good nights sleep, I can add a bit more to my reasoning!.
Basically, I don't care if other people have faults!. I don't care if they find themselves to be absolutely superb!. They're opinion of themselves, at the end of the day, doesn't change my opinion about them!. If they have low self esteem, let them have it!. If they have high self esteem, good for them!.
There is something good in each of them!. I find that it's easier for me to have an acquaintance with a huge ego, because, I'm really good at laughing at making jokes when I'm in the right company!.
But for a genuine relationship, someone that I want to feel close to and know for a long time!.!.!.I want the one who is modest!.
They all serve their purpose!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Oh wow, hard one!. I knew a girl, and hung out with her a lot for a short time period, she was SO insecure it annoyed the heck outta me! Seriously, she couldn't go into the lunch line by herself, or go anywhere for that matter by herself and she asked NON STOP if she looked okay! She would flip her hair every 3 seconds and just do other things like straighten her shirt and apply lip gloss all the time!. There was never a moment she was just chill you know!?
I once befriended a girl in the 7th grade, she was very shy and insecure!. I started going over to her place a lot and hanging out with her!. I lived down the block so her home became a second home to me!. We became best friends!. I admit I'm a bit out there, aha, and over time she became more confident in her own skin and learned how to have some fun!. You'd look at her back then and know straight away she's a totally changed person now!.
I could handle a confident and boastful person!. As long as they didn't try to put me down, back stab me; was disloyal and there really was a friendship there!. I could help them slowly but gradually show them that appearences and material things aren't everything!.
I can't decide!. I wouldn't mind either of them actually if I really think about it!. Never give up faith in a person!.
LeoWww@Enter-QA@Com
I once befriended a girl in the 7th grade, she was very shy and insecure!. I started going over to her place a lot and hanging out with her!. I lived down the block so her home became a second home to me!. We became best friends!. I admit I'm a bit out there, aha, and over time she became more confident in her own skin and learned how to have some fun!. You'd look at her back then and know straight away she's a totally changed person now!.
I could handle a confident and boastful person!. As long as they didn't try to put me down, back stab me; was disloyal and there really was a friendship there!. I could help them slowly but gradually show them that appearences and material things aren't everything!.
I can't decide!. I wouldn't mind either of them actually if I really think about it!. Never give up faith in a person!.
LeoWww@Enter-QA@Com
Hmmm!.!.!.!.!.That's a hard choice, but I think I would take the vain and boastful person!. I can be nurturing and understanding to those that are a bit insecure, but after a while I would go insane from having to put up with their whining!. The boastful person would at least feel confident enough in themselves to not need my pity!. However!.!.!.Eventually, I'd also want to kill them, because I can't stand people who are full of themselves!.!.!.!.
Ugh!.!.!.!.How about I just avoid both people altogether!? Or is that not an option!?
LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com
Ugh!.!.!.!.How about I just avoid both people altogether!? Or is that not an option!?
LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com
Too modest people are extremely annoying,at least from my point of view!.
They are always the ones that never say anything,as if they were afraid!.
The boastful one has pride,is confident and is not afraid!.
He says whatever he wants to say and whatever comes to his mind!.These people are really entertaining and fun!.
It can get annoying,but it's really fun for the sake of starting a fight if I'm really bored,my Mars in Libra sucks!Www@Enter-QA@Com
They are always the ones that never say anything,as if they were afraid!.
The boastful one has pride,is confident and is not afraid!.
He says whatever he wants to say and whatever comes to his mind!.These people are really entertaining and fun!.
It can get annoying,but it's really fun for the sake of starting a fight if I'm really bored,my Mars in Libra sucks!Www@Enter-QA@Com