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Question: What aspects in a person's chart makes them feel responsible for the happiness of others!?
Feeling a need to "save" others who they are close to!? Even when such saving may be detrimental to their own wellbeing!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


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Hmmmmm!.!.!.

Generically speaking, mothering and fathering tendencies would need to be involved, along with control issues, yes!? So Cancerian Suns & Moons & Venuses & Marses could be involved!. Capricorn & Virgo are father & perfection obsession respectively!.!.!. so those signs in Venus or Mars might be culprits, provided there is a compassionate enough Moon in the chart to make them care about others!. Capricorn & Virgo tend to be self-protecting, so that would have to be there to open them up!. And of course, Pisces energies could be involved in Sun, Moon, Venus or Mars!.

I would say any hard Venus/Neptune aspects would be involved to make someone behave self-detrimentally!. The inability to see clearly would make people go too far!. Hard aspects between Mars & Neptune or Moon/Neptune could be involved, but Venus is the more likely culprit!.

A more explosive self-detrimental quality would be hard aspects between Uranus & Venus!. I am a Capricorn with a Capricorn Venus opposing Uranus & squaring Neptune!. I often try to control in my relationships, though I have gotten better over the years!.!.!. Having relationships "suddenly" explode in my face has re-trained me!. The Neptune square has often made me oblivious to the building energies that led to the explosion!.

Of course, all of the above could be negated if a person has a strong well-functioning Saturn in their chart, protecting them!. Or if Jupiter is trining Venus!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I'm going to add placements in the 6th house to the mix here!. Sun in 6th lives to serve, Moon in 6th finds service to others emotionally nourishing, Venus in 6th "loves" to serve, Mars in 6th is driven to serve, etc!.!.!. These individuals aim to please, and as such will take the happiness and comfort of others on as their own responsibility!. Regardless of whether or not it's actually to their benefit, because in a way, they are benefiting from the experience!. The Sun in 6th person will feel as though they have a purpose for living, the Moon in 6th individual will feel emotionally fulfilled through their service to others, and so on!. Add to this the Pisces/Neptune influences already mentioned as well!. Pisces/Neptune will take the martyr/saviour role to the next level though, desiring to save *everyone* rather than just those who they are close to!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

I would think that aspects of Jupiter to the moon might cause that need to nurture and perhaps try to make people happy!. I would think that Libra in the 2nd, 5th, and 7th houses might try really hard to please others, but not out of "saving" them, but out of a desire to relate!. Aquarius in midheaven or Jupiter may want to Save the world, in a global sense, but more in a universal sense!.

Ah, Cancer in 2nd would be very protective of those close to them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Sigh!.!.!. Mars in Pisces for starters!. I think that placement is at the top of the list!. And yes, we suffer for "saving" others who are probably capable of saving themselves in the first place!.

We just can't help ourselves!. It's like that little reflex hammer the doctor uses to stimulate reflexes by tapping on tendons!? We see someone we care about hurting or being hurt and we have to at least try to do something to help!. I am just getting past a painful process because of feeling I had to save a friend!. I would probably do the same thing all over again!.

Another placement is Saturn synastry between charts!. If someone has Saturn falling on another's personal planets, or vice versa, there is also a need to save!. Do you remember when I posted a question about a inexplicable feeling of "owing" another person something when there's a Saturn connection!? Sort of a similar thing!.

http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index;!.!.!.

(I'm going to try to answer your other questions as well!.)Www@Enter-QA@Com

Good question!. I have this feeling, maybe something concerning Neptune!.!.!.martyrdom!? I don't know but whatever it is I have it!.

Maybe even Yods!? I have two Yods and I am very giving to my loved ones and sacrificial towards them!. I'm not satisfied until they are and I put them ahead of me!. I'm also very indecisive, I tend to always say,"I won't like it if you won't!." even though deep down inside it's killing me not to like whatever it is!.

Edit, haha in one of my Yods, the apex is my Mars!. Hahahaha!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

It think it might be their moon sign!.
They feel like they need to "save" people that they're close to!.
I think Mars might play some role as well,since you mentioned the part of getting to the point of hurting oneself!.
Mars in Aries/Scorpio would probably make one brave, and ready to take some risks in order to "save" others!.
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Hey Jamie, good question!.

The only aspects I can think of would be sun square, opp!. or conjunction neptune!. They may feel an obligation to serve others and that they have to do something to make others happy or satisfied!. Same for the moon I'd assume!.

I'll have to see what others say to this as well!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Perhaps venus in pisces, or cancer!.

I say this because, a pisces, especially the females, feel the urge to be "martyrs", and cancers, obviously, are very protective!.

Venus determines how we relate in our relationships!.

But honestly!.!.!.I think we can all use a little martyr every once in a while, despite your sign!.!.!.but then again!.!.!.my rising is pisces :o)Www@Enter-QA@Com

Moon sextile Neptune is one I found, they feel the need to take action and solve problems concerning society!. They are concerned about others well being!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

If we're dealing with moon signs here, my best guy friends (Sun Pisces) has a Gemini moon and Libra on his descendant!. He always wants everyone to get along and he won't be happy if two of his friends are arguing with each other!. He self sacrifices for the better of his friends, he always has and he always will!. He always tells me he has a hard time putting himself first when things aren't going good for those around him!. He has his Venus in Pisces and he is not selfish towards those he loves but at the same time they can take advantage of that and I've noticed he pours out his great emotions to people who are not worthwhile!.

That's really all I can think of!.!.!. He's awesome, one of the most selfless people I know but sometimes I wish he'd be a little selfish so these undeserving people don't prey on his loving ways!. He had a very bad childhood though and he learned to think at a very young age that in order for things to be okay with his family he would have to self sacrifice!. It's sad though!. But he's growing out of that and realizing he shouldn't let others walk all over him and he shouldn't have to make all of the effort to help those when they don't want to help themselves!. He's taught me to care more because I'll leave you laying in the dust unless I truly care about you, and I've taught him that you can't stop and help EVERY single person that needs it because they will take advantage of you if they don't have the best intentions!.

*Edit* I know you didn't specifically mention Moon signs but since they deal with emotions they might be able to explain why one person would be more inclined to "save" someone else regardless of the effect upon themselves!. :)

*Edit 2* Jamie, there's a question I posted, that I would like your input on!. It's about erratic behavior, so if you get some time, would you please answer it!? Thank you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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