Do you believe in divorce & what is your sign?!


Question: Do you believe in divorce & what is your sign!?
Personally, i'm a libra and i think people don't take marriage even close to as seriously as they should!.
i am completely against divorce, and it's something i would not even consider!. if i get married, it is for life, regardless!.

OH, and moon signs too!.
i am a virgo moon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


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Ah, Libra/Virgo combo eh!? Well, that would, in some cases, make your more of a traditionalist!.

My parents' marriage was long-lasting (until my father died) and completely loving!. They stayed together through extremely hard times--my father was severely injured early on in their marriage and became paralyzed--but they never fought!.

However, I completely disagree with you on divorce!. In fact, I feel it would be better if we didn't make relationships so contractual!. Abuse (both spousal and of children), cheating, constant, unresolved fighting, a sudden change in one or both partners!.!.!. all those are excellent reasons to get out of a marriage!.

Obviously, (except certain cases) a couple should take the decision very seriously and attempt to salvage their love, especially if they have children!. They also need to think /hard/ before they enter into marriage and have kids!.

But to allow unhealthy relationships to fester only hurts everyone involved!. Years of fighting, no matter the result, do damage to a family!. They leave emotional scars!. I don't believe in the concept of one person being meant for only one person, so divorce isn't the end of a person's love life!.

I think people go about divorce the wrong way at times!. They drag their children into it, they make money a huge issue, etc, etc!.!.!. But I do not think we should get rid of divorce!. That would be extremely horrible for a lot of people!.

Love is not an excuse to allow your partner to hurt you emotionally or physically!. Love is about mutual respect and thinking of your partner before yourself!. Love is knowing your own feelings and being honest!. Love is not just about an overwhelming feeling, because relationships based on that are not always going to succeed!. It needs to be about both feeling and the health of the relationship itself, as well as it's effect on the people around them!.

I'm sorry your family had to go through so much!. Twenty seven years would be too many years of pain for me, no matter how wonderful the aftermath!. Especially if I exposed my children to it!.

also, the divorce rate may be higher, in part, because people aren't as serious about marriage!. But also consider the amount of women (my grandmother) who stayed in marriages with cheating and abusing men because social standards were so harsh and religion was much more important back then!. I'm glad society isn't like that anymore!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I am Leo!.
Well, I think that marriage should be something that you put a lot of thought into!. A lot of the higher rates of divorce all over the world can be attributed to the fact that the people do not put that much consideration when they marry and they end up going to relationships that are hard to commit to, or abusive, or hurtful!.
However, I do believe that if you find yourself in a relationship that is doing you harm and you tried to "work it out" but it hasn't worked, you should opt for divorce!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

People should seriously think before they get married!. Celebrities are the worst people to get married, they divorce like its second nature and therefore divorce has now become a trend!. I believe in marriage!. If someone gets married, they have to be in it for the real deal and take it seriously!. I think people should only get divorced if it is absolutely necessary, not just because they don't click sexually, etc!. or the usual "irreconcilable differences", work on your freakin differences!.

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I am a Libra and I believe in divorce!. I think marriage is too overrated!. People think that marriage means something, but the truth is that it doesn't [anymore] people get married so that they can say they're married!.!.!.that's all!. I have no intention of getting married any time soon, if I ever do, even though I'm engaged!. Marriage is only a peice of paper if it's not backed by love, trust, and commitment to one another!. I used to say that if I got married it'd be for life, but that's just not how things are!.

You say "regardless" - Ok, well, let's test that theory:
-Your husband cheats on you!?
-Your husband beats you up!?
-Your husband is verbally abusive and calls you names all the time!?
-Your husband beats your children!?
-Your husband sexually/mentally/verbally abuses your children!?
-Your husband gets another woman pregnant!?
-Your husband gives you an STD he got outside of the marriage!?
-Your husband loses his job, and is unable to work for a year!?
-Your husband tells you he's gay after 5 years!?

!.!.!.I could go on!.!.!.there is no "regardless" all of us have a breaking point!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

I definitely take marriage/committed relationships seriously and am the type of person to keep trying (sometimes longer than I should) so I understand what you mean!.

I am hoping that if I get married or am in a true for life committed relationship that it won't end in divorce or separation!. I certainly am not going to go in to the relationship thinking that will be an option!.

That said and not to negate what I said above, I do believe in divorce though!. Not for frivolous petty reasons but for valid bonafide reasons (extreme abuse (verbal, physical, mental) cheating, etc)!. It is unhealthy to stay in a destructive relationship and life is too short for there to be a settling to be in that type of relationship ongoing!. As they say, this is no dress rehearsal!.

I applaud your commitment but hard and strong positions can sometimes come back to bite us hard!

Good luck!!

Me:

Sun: Sadge
Moon: Leo
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My parents are divorced!. Actually it was a long time ago!. My mom was a caps and my dad was a leo!. I'm a libra and I've learned to get over it and get on with my life!. Divorce is real and not everyone is compatible together after 20 or 30 years!. People change!. And sometimes they don't want to change for the better so it doesn't work if 1 partner is giving their all and trying to make things work and the other doesn't agree that they need to change at all!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

sagittarius

i accept divorce as part of life!.!.!.i haven't been married yet!.!.!.but truly sometimes while we feel that we should live happily ever after with someone you love, not always do you know "everything about them" even though the other may say they may love you!.!.!.what happens whe they get really angry and become abusive on you!? Is divorce a sin for wanting to leave!? Or what if you find out that maybe your marriage was an entire joke or some kind of plot so you guys get benefits financially!.!.for being a couple!. Or what if it's an arranged marriage!?

I believe marriage is sacred, however there are cases where you just have to file for divorce!.
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No one believes in divorce, otherwise why would they marry someone!?
You dont choose to say before marriage - "im not going to divorce you because i dont beleive in it"- well you probably could say it, but you wont really mean it if someone actually treated you badly!.!.
What if your husband/wife tried to kill you!? (it actually gets as worse as this in some countries)
Im sure for those who dont beleive in it would agree for a divorce!.!.!.
Divorce is not something to choose or beleive on!. It just happens!. You can't not have divorce with someone when you dont beleive in it!. Its not a religion but rather just to stay away from your spouse, and therefore legally!. To save your life -or mentally to save your soul!. No one wants to be treated badly!.

What i do beleive though is you should only marry someone you are in LOVE with!. And i mean really in love - mentally, physically etc howevwer!.!.!.and someone that just makes you smile!. You should be sure and NEVER have a time like "Im too old and i need to marry", because then you are in a hurry and you will never find the best!.!.and therefore you wont be happy and then divorce (seen this)!. This can make the couple unhappy, and not just marrying someone who you dont know (who knows!.!.!.he/she could be a murderer!?) and when you know the person, you a familiar with the person and the hidden bad stuff -you will know before marriage!. Otherwise, when you do, a divorce is a must (EVEN FOR THOSE WHO DONT BELIEVE IN IT) you would want to save your lives!.

So for those who want to save your lives ----- don't rely your life on "I'm not ever going to divorce" because you dont know!.!.!.!. you may want to change what you just said!.!.!.

I dont trust anyone 100% because people can change!.!.!.!.and anyone can be evil, i would do anything for my love but not something where i can say the future like "If you try to slap me or hit me or kill me i will leave it the way it is because i dont beleive in divorce"

Basically my point of view - i guess you;ll hate me for this and those who dont beleive in divorce :) but whatever!.!.!.!.this is my advice!.!.!.(for everyones own good - even if you dont think it is - ps!. its the 21st century guys!) i dont like it either but what can i do if i have to do it!?!?!?

PS!. is it just me or am i seeing you everywhere in yahoo answers!?!?!? LOL!. i think ive answered more than 2 questions of yours in the horoscope section :PWww@Enter-QA@Com

I don't know what my moon sign is, but I'm a Cancerian!.

I know that people don't often take marriage as seriously as they should, however, even the best marriage can fall apart!. I support divorce in this sense!. Although I would not have a divorce unless I absolutely had to, I understand that for some people, it's the only option they had!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

No I dont believe in divorce!. Marriage is a huge commitment and should be taken seriously!. Thats why we date before we get married so we can get to know each ohter and see if it will actually work and theyre willing to work together!. I think it would suck too!. Like you said, If I get married ITS FOR LIFE, Regardless!.

Im a Leo
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marriages are made in heaven, then where are divorces made!? I don't believe in divorce!. u can leave somebody but cannot divorce!. refer any texts in the world where GOD has said about divorce directly not by any so called messenger or people!.

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i have never been married but ive seen the impact of plenty of divorces and i am completely against itWww@Enter-QA@Com

Coming from a family of divorce, I don't believe in it!. It's a life long committment (it's hard, but you have to work on it)!. I'm a virgo!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think that people divorce more often then stay in the marriage or take it seriously so yes i believe in divorce but i hope i never get involved in it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yeah, I believe in it!. But veeeeery strict guidelines!. Only if they cheat on you and if they abuse you, you can leave!.

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Like Sleepy Cat Eyes said, if your spouse is severely harming you or could possibly kill you!.!.!. (god bless her cousin), there is no reason to stay in that marriage!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

I would never want divorce in my life
But if my love for them drifted away then I'd do whatever is necessary to leave and be happy!.!.!.

Gemini

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i think under the right circumstances may be necessary!. virgo!. don't know moonWww@Enter-QA@Com

Nope
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i am very much against divorce!.
i will never marry unless i am 100% sure that the person is as dedicated to making it last as i am!. it is important for me to find someone commited


i would never want to have to divorce because i think its very ugly and sad that it happens to people :(Www@Enter-QA@Com

yes i do, coz if you dont love each other anymore, why torture yourself in maintaining a sh*tty relationship, when you could be somewhere and be with someone that could give you happiness!.!.!. we only live once, why waste the rest of your live being with someone you dont love!.!.!. it would just make your life miserable!.!.!.

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I have to admit, I believe in divorce under certain circumstances!.

People change during their relationships- some dramatically and some not!. Likewise, some people rush into marriage or become miserable over time!.

I don't think you should stay with someone just because you took vows!. You should TRULY love your partner!. I really despise it when people that don't love each other try to convince themselves that staying in their (fake) relationship is the right thing to do!.

I watched my cousin go through a pretty bad marriage!. Her husband abused her constantly!. After awhile, I was wondering why she didn't leave the prick but she wanted to stay in the marriage!.

Then one day, her husband beat her so bad that she ended up in the hospital!.

Does that sound like love to you!? A person that loves you wouldn't hurt you like that!. She's still with him now, but ever since then, my relatives have been persuading her and her husband to get a divorce!. All I have to say is "It's about time!"

Her husband is not the same person as when they got married 20 years ago!. She shouldn't have to pay for it!.

Even if a person's relationship isn't as severe as my cousin's, I still believe in divorce!.

And by the way, dating does not foretell the future my dear!. People change!. YOU change!. So your marriage will change too- for better or worse!. Counselling does not bring love either!. It's a way to fix the problem, but sometimes problems like my cousin's can not be fixed!. For her, it's either get a divorce or fear her husband for the rest of her life!. You said there is no valid reason for someone to get a divorce!. You're insane if you think people like my cousin should stay w/ a person that could possibly kill her!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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