Question about son and daughter?!
Question: Question about son and daughter!?
I figure this isn't in the "appropriate" category, but I'm looking for any advice I can get on this, from anyone!. Please!. My 10-year-old son and my 12-year-old daughter have a pretty good relationship!. They get along well and look out for each other!. That said, they do like to tease each other from time to time (they are brother and sister, after all)!. My son, believing for some reason that it’s cute or funny, will sometimes give his sister a “titty twister!.” I know that he doesn’t do it maliciously or with the intent to hurt her badly!. Rather, as I mentioned, I think he finds it cute or funny, as a way to tease her!.
I’ve attempted to deal with this by taking away some of his privileges and by talking with him about how sensitive a girl’s breasts are!. I’ve really tried to convey that to him, even analogizing a girl’s breasts to his balls!. Each time, he seems to listen and seems to respond well – and he even goes so far as to apologize to me and to his sister – but then he’ll be back at it, another day!.
Anyway, my daughter, God bless her, doesn’t like to tattle on her brother!. As I mentioned, they have a pretty good relationship, for being brother and sister!. She approached me today (presumably after he did it again, although she wouldn’t say), and she asked me this question: The next time he does it, could she give him a taste of his own medicine by giving him a LIGHT kick in the balls!? I hedged and said that I would think about it and would talk with her later!.
Naturally, it would pain me to see my son get nipped in the buds, quite literally, but I really sympathize with my daughter in this situation; and since I’ve tried taking away privileges and tried talking with him (all to no avail), I’m leaning toward giving her the green light to give him a taste of his own medicine!.
I’m looking for your views on 1) whether I should give her permission to do it LIGHTLY; and 2) assuming I give her that permission, whether I should be on the sidelines, so to speak, to ensure that nothing gets out of hand (and to give him an icepack afterwards :-P )!.
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I’ve attempted to deal with this by taking away some of his privileges and by talking with him about how sensitive a girl’s breasts are!. I’ve really tried to convey that to him, even analogizing a girl’s breasts to his balls!. Each time, he seems to listen and seems to respond well – and he even goes so far as to apologize to me and to his sister – but then he’ll be back at it, another day!.
Anyway, my daughter, God bless her, doesn’t like to tattle on her brother!. As I mentioned, they have a pretty good relationship, for being brother and sister!. She approached me today (presumably after he did it again, although she wouldn’t say), and she asked me this question: The next time he does it, could she give him a taste of his own medicine by giving him a LIGHT kick in the balls!? I hedged and said that I would think about it and would talk with her later!.
Naturally, it would pain me to see my son get nipped in the buds, quite literally, but I really sympathize with my daughter in this situation; and since I’ve tried taking away privileges and tried talking with him (all to no avail), I’m leaning toward giving her the green light to give him a taste of his own medicine!.
I’m looking for your views on 1) whether I should give her permission to do it LIGHTLY; and 2) assuming I give her that permission, whether I should be on the sidelines, so to speak, to ensure that nothing gets out of hand (and to give him an icepack afterwards :-P )!.
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well i think its weird but i say let her do it!. ill bet he doesn't touch her breasts anymore, witch he shouldn't be doing anyway but let her!. and no you don't need to be there!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
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let her kick him!. and maybe you should do something a little harsher than just taking away his priviledges!. you need to make it clear that if he ever touches her again he will have hell to pay!. no apologies needed he needs to stop!. obviously your dughter is uncomfortable with her brother touching her this way, and he is not gonna stop until she learns to stand up for herself and makes him!. so if that means she needs to kick him light or hard then so be it!. honestly i think that is totally inappropriate!. what girl would not be bothered by her brother touching her like that!. take thias seriously and next time stop him BEFORE he does it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com