How do I pursue an older more mature Capricorn male?!
Question: How do I pursue an older more mature Capricorn male!?
I have been friends with this mature Capricorn male for about 2 months now!. We both are in our late 30’s!. At first when we started talking he seemed very aloof and cold, but as we begin to work more closely together, he seemed a little more relaxed but not too much!. I can tell that he’s still rigid and shy around me!. We talk, but it’s just surfac/superficial talk with no details!.
He’s a little nicer to me then anyone else in my section!. I see him as a very nice, sweet and very friendly person, but my co workers seem to think that he is stuck up and cold!. Oh…I didn’t mention that we work for the same company, which is NOT a problem for I don’t see him often in the building but every blue moon and he works in another section!. So in essence, I have known him for 6 months total!. I only really see him when we have to work together on my account, which is hardly ever!. He is VERY professional and strictly that!!!
I feel that he is interested in me, but can’t really tell!. In these last 2 months, he has what I think initiated a few things with me!. He offered to help me with a personal project that I am working on as well as asked me out to lunch!. He brought a book from his house for me to read and when I asked when he needed the book back… he said I should keep it!. He told me to ask him if I ever needed anymore help and I told him that I would!. I respect his time, so I only ask questions if need be!.
I’m a Taurus Lady!. I don’t want to rush into anything myself and I want him to move at his own pace!. I have not pushed him in this area at all!. I am a very busy girl who has her own goals and working on starting her own business, but I’m REALLY interested in knowing him more!.
I am a traditional Lady, who feels that a man should initiate, but when do I know to reciprocate his initiation!?!?!?!?
How can I tell if an older more mature Capricorn male is interested in me as more then just a friend!?
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He’s a little nicer to me then anyone else in my section!. I see him as a very nice, sweet and very friendly person, but my co workers seem to think that he is stuck up and cold!. Oh…I didn’t mention that we work for the same company, which is NOT a problem for I don’t see him often in the building but every blue moon and he works in another section!. So in essence, I have known him for 6 months total!. I only really see him when we have to work together on my account, which is hardly ever!. He is VERY professional and strictly that!!!
I feel that he is interested in me, but can’t really tell!. In these last 2 months, he has what I think initiated a few things with me!. He offered to help me with a personal project that I am working on as well as asked me out to lunch!. He brought a book from his house for me to read and when I asked when he needed the book back… he said I should keep it!. He told me to ask him if I ever needed anymore help and I told him that I would!. I respect his time, so I only ask questions if need be!.
I’m a Taurus Lady!. I don’t want to rush into anything myself and I want him to move at his own pace!. I have not pushed him in this area at all!. I am a very busy girl who has her own goals and working on starting her own business, but I’m REALLY interested in knowing him more!.
I am a traditional Lady, who feels that a man should initiate, but when do I know to reciprocate his initiation!?!?!?!?
How can I tell if an older more mature Capricorn male is interested in me as more then just a friend!?
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Answers:
Wow, does your post ever bring back some memories!.!.!(some good memories, at that!.!.)
Well, I do think that Capricorn man likes you, because he gave you one of his personal items!.!.!.this is a dead giveaway!.
My own older Capricorn man loaned me a book of (you're going to love this one) war poems to help me with one of my college classes!.!.!.Later he recorded a tape of 80s music that he thought I would like!.!.!.
This how those funny, sentimental Capricorn guys show their interest!.!.by being useful and a dependable presence in his life!.
I think you have a real good handle on this situation as well!. He's interested, you're not pushing him (which is very smart----), and he's probably still feeling you out to make positively sure he won't be rejected when he finally does get up the nerve to ask you out!. He probably admires your business sense, too, and will probably find your "traditional Lady" ways quite to his liking!.!.!.Most Capricorn men love exactly that!.
The only thing that would concern me is that he might be attached already!. If not, my only advice to you is that you make him aware that you would not mind going out for coffee or something like that sometime!.
This is such an exciting time for you; I truly wish you and your friend the very best!.
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Well, I do think that Capricorn man likes you, because he gave you one of his personal items!.!.!.this is a dead giveaway!.
My own older Capricorn man loaned me a book of (you're going to love this one) war poems to help me with one of my college classes!.!.!.Later he recorded a tape of 80s music that he thought I would like!.!.!.
This how those funny, sentimental Capricorn guys show their interest!.!.by being useful and a dependable presence in his life!.
I think you have a real good handle on this situation as well!. He's interested, you're not pushing him (which is very smart----), and he's probably still feeling you out to make positively sure he won't be rejected when he finally does get up the nerve to ask you out!. He probably admires your business sense, too, and will probably find your "traditional Lady" ways quite to his liking!.!.!.Most Capricorn men love exactly that!.
The only thing that would concern me is that he might be attached already!. If not, my only advice to you is that you make him aware that you would not mind going out for coffee or something like that sometime!.
This is such an exciting time for you; I truly wish you and your friend the very best!.
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I think that he is trying to show that he cares for you but in really subtle ways!.As he's a shy guy, he probably would like you to make the moves!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi Princess,
This is an interesting question!. I find it fascinating that you don't get any answers from the capricorn dudes!. Guys where are you!? Share you war stories!
Here is my story that might provide some insights into your Capricorn male!.!.!.
Who am I!? Simply a mighty screwed up, twisted, or unusual!? capricorn!.
Understand that I feel that my reactions are deeply biased by my moon, ascendant and mars sign!.!.!. but I!.m still made of capricorn stuff!.!.!.
Casting:
lady - TAURUS SUN
me - CAPRICORN SUN, with ARIES RISING, a SCORPIO MOON and a R-18 MARS!.!.!.
==========WAR STORY===========
Office settings
A new accountant is hired by our office!. She comes a couple of times per week!. Taurus!. pretty!.!.!. but nothing spectacular!. (how can i tell, i barely looked at her!)
She comes by my desk every time she is in to say "hi"!.!.!.
At first I gave her an almost cold shoulder (typical capricorn), as if she was like anyone else, as if I did not notice her, another co worker, how boring, business as usual, let's get back to work!.!.!. capricorns don't *fake* or think about being cold, aloof, enigmatic, stoic!.!.!. whatever!.!.!. that's the way we are!
A couple of weeks went by and same story!. Her smiles seemed genuine (not fake), the more I observed her from a distance, the more she actually grew on me,
but !.!.!.
I believe that as capricorns:
- i've been hurt before (who has not!?), I'm in no hurry to open my heart that easily, you have to "prove" your worth,
- one step at a time baby, no need to hurry, win me over if you dare!
- let's bottom line, you smiled to me, fine, anybody can smile to me, nothing to get exited about!. to me so far you're just like any other girl!.
!.!.!.!.!.
weeks still went by and then she turned on the heat by giving some clumsy compliments about the music I was listening to and laughing about anything I was saying as if I was joking!.!.!. ok maybe a little but I never considered myself funny at all!.!.!.
That's when my SCORPIO MOON who seems to be a little wiser in matters of the heart got in the picture!.!.!.
SCORPIO MOON -- CAPRICORN SUN, are you blind or what!?
CAPRICORN SUN -- What do you mean!?
SCORPIO MOON -- Don'T play stupid with me! That Venusian is openly flirting with you! What are you waiting for!? a smack on the forehead!?
CAPRICORN SUN -- Yeah you may be right, she looks like a *nice girl*
SCORPIO MOON -- A nice girl!?!? Damm it you fool, she's HOT! She's everything you're looking for in women and you know it!
CAPRICORN SUN -- humm, maybe you're right, but I dont dig that pseudo flirting stuff, If she likes me, why does she not come straight to me and tell it like it is!?
SCORPIO MOON -- WHAT!?!?!? Are you telling me that you expect her to come to you, tell you that she likes you a lot, and ask you out for for lunch!?!?
CAPRICORN SUN -- Well, yes, exactly!.!.!. If she digs me, I want tangible facts, get to the heart of the matter, I do not care about that silly flirting, playing games or whatever!.!.!. How hard could it be to ask me out - "Hi, I'm taurus, I dig you a lot, come with me for lunch!"!.!.!. Why should I step down from my mountain and do all the work!? !.!. if she wants to come with me where the air is fresh, to greener pastures, let her join me!
!.!.!. hearing all that non productive, nonsense my ARIES RISING, CAPRICORN SUN's nemesis finally rose his ugly head
ARIES RISING -- You guys are pathetic!!! What are you arguing about!?!?!? It's obvious we ALL dig this girl, she's blond, she's got the meat where it counts, her smell gets to our head , her eyes sprinkle like the sun, she lights the room even in sunny mornings and when she's too close, our pants get too tight! Shut up and let me show you how it's done!.!.!.
R-18 MARS (evil smile)-- Attaboy ARIES RISING, now *you!.re talking!.!.!.
[WARNING R18 RATING -KIDS, don'T try this at your office!]
One day, when there was not too many people in the office!.!.!. I don't know what got into me, I simply got off my chair, walked up to her desk, unannounced, quietly, sneaked from behind TAURUS lady, grabbed her, squeazed her, she turned around almost like she expected and begged for it for AGES and I gave her one of those KISS that even Hollywood has no clue about!.!.!.
BING, BANG! instant chemistry, fireworks, hell breaking loose, alleluyahs!.!.!. take your pick, immense release of energy and sexual tension!.!.
got back to my senses, smirked at her, and walked back to my desk as if nothing happened!. Imagine the rest :-D!.!.!.
[END WARNING R18]
==========END OF STORY==========
Here are some facts:
As a capricorn sun, I always had instant chemistry with venusians (Taurus) and Virgos!.
Unless your capricorn has my birth chart pedigree, don't expect him to boldly sweep you off your feet, kidnap you, carry you like a potato sack, throw you in a haystack and devour you! (I must admit that it would be cool though!.!.!.) :-D
To me your situation is funny, typical, I must have seen it (lived it) a thousand of times!.!.!. I'Www@Enter-QA@Com
This is an interesting question!. I find it fascinating that you don't get any answers from the capricorn dudes!. Guys where are you!? Share you war stories!
Here is my story that might provide some insights into your Capricorn male!.!.!.
Who am I!? Simply a mighty screwed up, twisted, or unusual!? capricorn!.
Understand that I feel that my reactions are deeply biased by my moon, ascendant and mars sign!.!.!. but I!.m still made of capricorn stuff!.!.!.
Casting:
lady - TAURUS SUN
me - CAPRICORN SUN, with ARIES RISING, a SCORPIO MOON and a R-18 MARS!.!.!.
==========WAR STORY===========
Office settings
A new accountant is hired by our office!. She comes a couple of times per week!. Taurus!. pretty!.!.!. but nothing spectacular!. (how can i tell, i barely looked at her!)
She comes by my desk every time she is in to say "hi"!.!.!.
At first I gave her an almost cold shoulder (typical capricorn), as if she was like anyone else, as if I did not notice her, another co worker, how boring, business as usual, let's get back to work!.!.!. capricorns don't *fake* or think about being cold, aloof, enigmatic, stoic!.!.!. whatever!.!.!. that's the way we are!
A couple of weeks went by and same story!. Her smiles seemed genuine (not fake), the more I observed her from a distance, the more she actually grew on me,
but !.!.!.
I believe that as capricorns:
- i've been hurt before (who has not!?), I'm in no hurry to open my heart that easily, you have to "prove" your worth,
- one step at a time baby, no need to hurry, win me over if you dare!
- let's bottom line, you smiled to me, fine, anybody can smile to me, nothing to get exited about!. to me so far you're just like any other girl!.
!.!.!.!.!.
weeks still went by and then she turned on the heat by giving some clumsy compliments about the music I was listening to and laughing about anything I was saying as if I was joking!.!.!. ok maybe a little but I never considered myself funny at all!.!.!.
That's when my SCORPIO MOON who seems to be a little wiser in matters of the heart got in the picture!.!.!.
SCORPIO MOON -- CAPRICORN SUN, are you blind or what!?
CAPRICORN SUN -- What do you mean!?
SCORPIO MOON -- Don'T play stupid with me! That Venusian is openly flirting with you! What are you waiting for!? a smack on the forehead!?
CAPRICORN SUN -- Yeah you may be right, she looks like a *nice girl*
SCORPIO MOON -- A nice girl!?!? Damm it you fool, she's HOT! She's everything you're looking for in women and you know it!
CAPRICORN SUN -- humm, maybe you're right, but I dont dig that pseudo flirting stuff, If she likes me, why does she not come straight to me and tell it like it is!?
SCORPIO MOON -- WHAT!?!?!? Are you telling me that you expect her to come to you, tell you that she likes you a lot, and ask you out for for lunch!?!?
CAPRICORN SUN -- Well, yes, exactly!.!.!. If she digs me, I want tangible facts, get to the heart of the matter, I do not care about that silly flirting, playing games or whatever!.!.!. How hard could it be to ask me out - "Hi, I'm taurus, I dig you a lot, come with me for lunch!"!.!.!. Why should I step down from my mountain and do all the work!? !.!. if she wants to come with me where the air is fresh, to greener pastures, let her join me!
!.!.!. hearing all that non productive, nonsense my ARIES RISING, CAPRICORN SUN's nemesis finally rose his ugly head
ARIES RISING -- You guys are pathetic!!! What are you arguing about!?!?!? It's obvious we ALL dig this girl, she's blond, she's got the meat where it counts, her smell gets to our head , her eyes sprinkle like the sun, she lights the room even in sunny mornings and when she's too close, our pants get too tight! Shut up and let me show you how it's done!.!.!.
R-18 MARS (evil smile)-- Attaboy ARIES RISING, now *you!.re talking!.!.!.
[WARNING R18 RATING -KIDS, don'T try this at your office!]
One day, when there was not too many people in the office!.!.!. I don't know what got into me, I simply got off my chair, walked up to her desk, unannounced, quietly, sneaked from behind TAURUS lady, grabbed her, squeazed her, she turned around almost like she expected and begged for it for AGES and I gave her one of those KISS that even Hollywood has no clue about!.!.!.
BING, BANG! instant chemistry, fireworks, hell breaking loose, alleluyahs!.!.!. take your pick, immense release of energy and sexual tension!.!.
got back to my senses, smirked at her, and walked back to my desk as if nothing happened!. Imagine the rest :-D!.!.!.
[END WARNING R18]
==========END OF STORY==========
Here are some facts:
As a capricorn sun, I always had instant chemistry with venusians (Taurus) and Virgos!.
Unless your capricorn has my birth chart pedigree, don't expect him to boldly sweep you off your feet, kidnap you, carry you like a potato sack, throw you in a haystack and devour you! (I must admit that it would be cool though!.!.!.) :-D
To me your situation is funny, typical, I must have seen it (lived it) a thousand of times!.!.!. I'Www@Enter-QA@Com