How do you deal with a break up??????!


Question: How do you deal with a break up!?!?!?!?!?!?
i know everyone has thier own way to deal with it!.!. but i was wondering if the one you broke up with is your true love then how do you deal with it!? im a cancer and i get hurt like hell and it gets so hard for me to deal with it!.!.!. and i was wondering how all other sign people get normal!.!.!. i want all of your own experiences and suggestion for me plzzzz

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I'm a Cancer female Leo Moon Scorpio Rising!. Usually it's easy I just talk to another guy and two days later I forget!. Or just hang with friends and a couple days later we laugh at the dumb sh*t the guy used to say and do and think why did we talk to the idiot in the first place!. I haven't ever fallen so hard like I did with the last one!. He's not only my ex but my son's father and I see him in my son!. I just been busy getting things situated with my classes, daycare, and job interviews, shopping, and taking care of home and talking to friends and working out!. Being busy definitely helps!. I don't get the same urge to call him!. I think of him less and less as days go by!. But he's someone I can never forget!. He is in my heart!. After all he did to me I shouldn't care or love him still!. But he does have a hold on me not as strong as before, soon it won't be a hold!. But right now he does!. I feel like I did all I could!. I told him how I felt!. I was more than willing to work it out!. I tried to contact him but I give up!. Maybe he'll wake up and realize what he had before it's too late!. Anyway reading helps, Watching movies with a friend or family member!. Just focus on you!. But then again if you already have it all together!.!. it might be harder!. I would just say treat your self!. And know it's his loss not yours!. You know your a great catch and 9 times out of 10 he'll come running back or he misses you too and just doesn't wanna be the first to come out and say it!.!. who knows!. Reading,cooking,working out, listening to music, writing, shopping, hanging out with some friends, drinking until i get a buzz, or meeting another guy all these things help!. I know I rambled on a little but I hope I helped!. Just know it'll be alright!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I deal with it by listening to nothing but sad songs and crying till I don't have any tears left to cry!. I also write in my journal daily about how I'm feeling!. By the end of the week, when I'm feeling somewhat better I start doing things to cheer me up like dancing, shopping, listening to uplifting music, hanging with friends, etc!. At that point, it's a lot easier to fill my head with positive thoughts and look forward to the future!. I'm all about logical thinking and strategies even with it comes to my feelings!. I always gotta have a game plan for anything in life =)Www@Enter-QA@Com

Well, I don't know what my rising moon is or if my sign has anything to do with how I deal with a break up (seeing how some people have great coping skills than others) but I can tell you of a book that will help you focus your mind so that its not constantly thinking about your ex!. Obviously if your not with this person anymore than they weren't your true love!.

The title of the book is "Journey from Abandonment" by Susan Anderson helps you through a break-up or the loss of a loved one!. It's help me through some tough times, but the best thing of all is 'time'!. Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Well i didn't broke up with anyone als bf but i did broke up with my friend who i considerd as my best friend!. But what i did cry as many as you want that is a relief, Do something thats take your mind on something else, Go out with your friends do something what you like to do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I would have to say lots and lots of Chocolate, sad movies, and sad songs to get out the grief!. Im a scorpio and I'm very emotional, so one minute I'm crying and the next minute I'm screaming and cursing because by boyfriend dumped me!. Just have your friends by your side and I have a feeling that you'll feel betterWww@Enter-QA@Com

i dealt with one 5 years ago!. my first and only love in 25 years!. i totally let myself go, but got back right on track after a year though! it was awful i didnt eat or talk to anyone for 4 days!!!! very difficult time
but i got over him eventually as i got busy!.

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Lots of booze!.!.!.I'm a Gemini so I have to drink enough for two!Www@Enter-QA@Com

if this person was your true love, then there would be no break-up!.!.!.you thought this was your true love, and it came close, but it wasn't "the ONE"

take the length of the relationship, divide it in half!.!.!.this is how long it will take to be truly over the person and ready for a healthy relationship again

allow yourself to grieve!.!.!.take the time you need, but also take it somewhere!.!.!.avoid getting stuck in a rut

talk about it!.!.!.it helps you process your feelings and make sense of what happened!.!.!.repression is totally unhealthy

list all the good things you found you liked in the relationship and what you want in a person!.!.!.then list all the negatives!.!.!.do this for both your behavior and theirs!.!.!.this helps you see what did not work!.!.!.and what does for you so next time you will be more prepared

keep busy!.!.!.focus on your job, get out of the house with friends, do some volunteer work to help others!.!.and avoid getting involved just for the sake of not being alone!.!.!.you need this alone time, painful as it seems right now, to process this whole situation!.!.!.

there will come a time when you have processed a lot, but are still not over the "half-the-time" point!.!.and this is what a good one-night stand can do!.!.!.if you get involved though, realize it will be a rebound, and it is also bad karma!.!.!.you know this one is selfish involvement, and you want all the good karma to help you out in life, so let's not mess that up just for selfish reasons!.!.!.so if you mess around, declare it a short fling, let the person know from the onset it will not be serious, and after the "half-the-length-of-the-relationship" period is over, THEN you are ready for genuine committmentWww@Enter-QA@Com



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