How would a person with heavy Cancer and Leo influences react if I say this?!
Question: How would a person with heavy Cancer and Leo influences react if I say this!?
"I'm not happy that you don't call me every day, and even though you always return my calls I feel like interrupt you at work, and I don't want to do it!. So I think a phone call at the end of the day is not too much to ask and if you don't agree I don't want to be with you" He calls every other day, but I want him to call every day, because I'm not happy when I have to wait!. I'm not by any means insecure about him, I know he's totally into me and is serious about me but I just want to communicate to my boyfriend more!. I'm not sure if its too much though so I want to ask other people's opinion before I say it, and what might his possible reaction be!?
He has his Sun and Moon in Cancer,
ascedant, Mercury, Venus in Leo
and mars in Virgo
Or should I wait for Mercury to go back to normal before I open my mouth!? lolWww@Enter-QA@Com
He has his Sun and Moon in Cancer,
ascedant, Mercury, Venus in Leo
and mars in Virgo
Or should I wait for Mercury to go back to normal before I open my mouth!? lolWww@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
That sounds a bit extreme to me!. I think your Leo Moon is acting up!.
So you would rather not have anything to do with him than to only hear from him every other day!? Does this really make sense!? When you test people there is a very good chance that they will fail!. Do you really want him to call you because he feels he has to!.!.!. or else!?
I think giving him an ultimatum would be a very bad idea!. Unless part of you secretly wants him to leave you!.
Ooops! Leo Asc means Uranus rules his 7th house!. He needs his freedom within a relationship!. End of story!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So you would rather not have anything to do with him than to only hear from him every other day!? Does this really make sense!? When you test people there is a very good chance that they will fail!. Do you really want him to call you because he feels he has to!.!.!. or else!?
I think giving him an ultimatum would be a very bad idea!. Unless part of you secretly wants him to leave you!.
Ooops! Leo Asc means Uranus rules his 7th house!. He needs his freedom within a relationship!. End of story!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Don't say it play it!. Love is a game!. If you act like you want to see him less, he will want to see you more!. If you act like you want him too often, it will push him away!. Never mind all of that astrology!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You are being too controlling!. You are telling him to call you, which doesn't make the times he does call you special!. But you have to make it COMPLETELY clear that you want to be with him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yeah, agreed with Jamie and others, not the best idea!. It's also going to sound a bit bossy to someone with all that Leo I think:( He's really not going to like that!. A better way, if you want him to call more, is to say something more along the lines of "I'd really love to hear from you more often"!.!.!.!.or something like that!. Either way, it kind of sounds like he's being told what he has to do, and no, that's not going to fly!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Let him have his space!. With all due respect, he may actually be very busy and is trying his best!. I know it might be hard not to take it personal when you like someone a lot, but judging by your situation it doesn't seem like he's doing it on purpose at all!. Think of the way he acts outside, when you spend time with him!. If he is nothing but affectionate to you then, than I'm sure he loves you, so go by how he acts then!. But sometimes you just have to respect his independence and busy schedule without taking it personally!.
As far as astrology, I'm sure with his double cancer though he does have a lot of care for you, even if his mercury and ascendant in leo may suggest he communicates a bit more of a "defensive" upfront than he really has!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
As far as astrology, I'm sure with his double cancer though he does have a lot of care for you, even if his mercury and ascendant in leo may suggest he communicates a bit more of a "defensive" upfront than he really has!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
first of all!.!.never take astrology as the absolute truth and answer to all!.!.u ahve to go with ur instincts and so,whatever i suggest here is just suggestions and form what i know about astrology!.!.ok!?!?!.!.:)!.!.ok,then!.!.well!.!.i'm a bit surprised!.!.as the cancer male is usually the clingy one and possessive and needs to be around their loved ones a lot!.!.but i see with his ascendent,mercury and venus in leo (venus affects how wwe are in love relationships)!.!.he is a cancer that needs a lot of attention and can sometimes be a little selfish and thinking of himself!.!.and the mars in virgo makes him dedicated to his work!.!.so with all this!.!.i would say!.!.he is most likely loyal to you and cares very much about u!.!.but he needs a lot of praise and attention and mothering,so he likes the fact that u want to have more contact with him and that u make him feel wanted and needed!.!.he can also get in his "moods"!.!.but i would suggest that u DO tell him straightout what u suggested u would say in ur question!.!.because if a guy is supposedly a serious boyfriend,he SHOULD be calling u every day!.!.not every other day!!.!.and he's a cancer!.!.so he wont want to let go of u if he really loves u!.!.so he'll be more obliging!!!.!.but!.!.TELL HIM!Www@Enter-QA@Com