When is sex not an act?!
Question: when you're talking about gender
Answers: when you're talking about gender
I wouldn't worry about it, since with that kind of attitude you'll never get any!
When it's not on video.
When there's no audience.
when you say its not.
when your not having sex
when you don't perform
when your being raped
When you really mean it!
since sex is an action, including being raped ,masturbation wet dream, oral, and all others . The only answer would have to be when you are describing what sex you are Male or Female!