How to deal with a trifling man?!
Question: How to deal with a trifling man!?
my kids father is so lazy its getting sad!.we swapped cars a week ago and he spilled motor oil on the floor behind the drivers seat!.and guess what he havent even cleaned it up!.im driving around with motor oil in my car!.the kids have to sit in the back by the way!.also i came home last night to find that he stopped up the toilet by trying to flush too much tissue!.he used my bathroom rug to clean up the nasty toilet water!.i cant replace the rug because its a large shag!.im pissed since he left the nasty wet rug lying in the middle of the bathroom floor!.he left and went to his home!.!.!.!.!.lying saying he was taking his friend home and he'd be back to clean up the mess!.did he come back!?no!!!im really tired of his trifling ***!.i dont believe in cleaning up behind a 29 year old man!.im just 24 for pete's sake!i have to deal with our three kids on a daily basis!.he's too lazy to help me with them!.he thinks because he provide money that he's not obligated to do anything else!.any ideas on how to deal!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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I notice you said ''he left and went home'' as he obviously has not an ounce of respect for your home and your belongings, i would stop him coming to my house!.!.!. let the kids go to his home and wreck it!.!.!. then go home!.!.!. see how he likes it when the boot is on the other foot!.!.!. let him see the kids at the park etc!.!. but make it clear that until he grows up and shows some respect he does not enter your home!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
that is the most disgusting, lazy *** thing I 've ever heard a man do!.!.!.Drop his *** like a fly and take him to child support court!. May sound impossible right now, but a single mom with three kids can get plenty of help from DSS until the court date kicks in!. That is gross, and I don't know how you put up with it!. I would have lost him a long time ago!.!.!.Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Talk to him like you mean business! If he still doesn't help, Threaten him to get a divorce!. If that doesn't work then he obviously doesn't care 4 u, get a divorce!. The kids will adapt!. If you're already divorced get a restraining orderWww@Enter-QA@Com
Lose him!!!!!!!! You can find much better than that! down right LAZYWww@Enter-QA@Com
take him to child support court!.and loose him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
just leave simple as thatWww@Enter-QA@Com