I'm trying to find the name of this film!?!?!

I'm trying to find the name of this film!?!?

I believe it takes place in a different country and its about this guy and his family mainly. I've seen this movie before and I do remember a certain part. This man's daughter was raped by her uncle while she was sleeping in bed during a get together. The girl later hung herself in her back yard. The father then went to this pub or bar where he was known and nearly killed the uncle. The father read his daughter's diary, which was how he found out. That is about as much as I can remember. The movie is pretty old. I'm 25 and I remember watching this in the early 90's.

is it french?