Need serious advice....to a weird situation?!


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Need serious advice....to a weird situation?

i met this GAY guy about 5 mths ago and now we're pretty good friends...i just recently have been crushing on him...i know its weird . Tonight i heard from a friend that knows him too, she said that he is really attracted to my personality and she said that we would date if he wasnt gay...so what do you think? isnt that usually what matters when it comes to liking someone in that way....i mean thats how some ppl even start being gay...for example if a straight girl falls for another girl wouldnt that be the same thing as a gay guy falling for a straight girl....am i right?

in case you needed to know he has been with a girl before....


Answers:

I agree with your assessment. Nobody should be bound to the labels they give to themselves. I had a similar situation happen with me. A lesbian friend of mine went up on stage during open mic at a coffee house and confessed that "If (she) weren't gay, (she'd) totally want Anthony," and it's like "well, can't you just say 'I'm not gay?'" Not that it would've worked out, because the attraction wasn't mutual, and I was dating the girl who is now my wife. Anyway, the point is -- screw labels. Just be yourself. I'm not straight or gay; I'm attracted to my wife.


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