MARRIED PEOPLE: How do some of you get to the point that you can't stand your ma!

MARRIED PEOPLE: How do some of you get to the point that you can't stand your mate and rarely speak to them?

I'm only wondering how it happens...I'm not judging anyone. I just got married in Feb and can't foresee it happening to us, but so did MANY couples who no longer speak to each other. How does it happen? (I'm talking about couples who still live together, btw)

Well for us it happened when we had kids. He started working all the time and I'm occupied with them all the time plus going to college so we have no time for each other except to argue over stupid **** that doesn't even matter. The most important thing to remember is to maitain your relationship...MAKE the time around kids, work and school because when the kids are gine you are back to having each other and if you have ignored the relationship it will fall apart completely.