Poll,if sister and husband had an affair,would you forgive them?!


Question: jo


Answers: jo

No. it is betrayal at many different levels. Too many to simply ignore. You see when somebody cheats for whatever reason the person they are cheating with probably does not knows you. They are not your friends so they don't really care. A lot of times they don't even know you exist although sometimes they do and just don't care. When a friend is involve it crosses one more boundary of betrayal because a friend is someone you trust. However, a friend as close as they are are not as close as they can be. That is, you can always find a new best friend. A sister or brother on the other hand is too close for comfort. A sister knows who you are. They know how you think (generaly speaking) and have special access to your life and privilege information. They have taken all those privileges and knowingly and willingly used them with disregard to how you might feel or what your situation is. It is a very selfish act. Unlike a friend a sister or brother will always be there. When you get rid of a friend you might not have to see them again but a sister you will see at thanksgiving. It ruins a family relationship. Very bad thing. I guess the ultimate betrayal is if it was a parent because if you can't thrust your parent who can you trust? I guess your husband or a friend i some case but parents are supposed to be there to protect you.

no

your in a bit of a pickle arn't you

HEEELLLLLLLLLLLLL no. That is the ultimate betrayal, to do that with and to a family member.

yes as long as they were not from my family...

No. a sister, definitely not.

No

no i mean hell no

NO NO NO NO NO. Well, at least not for a LOOOONG time. I'd never talk to my hubby again and it would take a long time to heal and get my sister back. THANK goodness I don't have a sister!!

no

hellllllllllll no.

Absolutely not. Very high level of betrayal going on there.

maybe my sister but not my husband i would dump him

I'd forgive, but I wouldn't forget, and my relaitonship with both of them would never be the same,

this is a tough question and i have to say it really depends on the situation...i'd like to think i could forgive my sister but if it came down to it i dont really know if i could:(

I might pretend to forgive him, just so I could WRECK HIS EFFING LIFE!

The sister, hell yea I'd forgive her... she's my sister.

Sorry, not a chance.

Not in this lifetime.

no..i dont even forgive people for stupid stuff i would never forgive them for something that big

Eventually, yes, but things would never be the same. I had a similar thing happen to me. Life changed all three of us in the past 15 years. We are all very different now, and though we keep in touch on a civil level and don't bring up the past, we are not that close.

yes but that dosen't mean i have to take spouse back

It would be the best thing to do. However, it would be the most difficult thing in the world to do. Forgiving someone takes the pain, bitterness, envy, hatred and torture away. Forgiving them is the only thing that will bring you peace.

No!!!! I don't care for cheaters/home wreckers!!

I would forgive my sister but it would take a while. I wouldn't forgive my husband. Divorce!!

no

I am a very forgiving person, so I would forgive them, after I buried them.

I'd forgive my sister cause she is my blood, but my husband would have to go to hell and I won't ever forgive him. Can you say divorce papers?!? lol Men come and go, but a sister is forever! Have a goodnight!

sisters are blood husbands come and go. but, my sibling reltaionship would change forever.



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