Does this sound weird...?!
Question: ...Well me and my boyfriend...at nights before I go to sleep I get so nervous...and say I will leave him because of his weird thoughts and the way he looks the relationship ( everything planed ).
Ok and when I wake up in the morning...I realize how much I love him and that would be pretty hard to lvie without him....
does this sound weird...
ever happen to you....
...let me add that still in the morning I still think that his behavior of plaining everything is weird but I realize the fact that I love him....
Answers: ...Well me and my boyfriend...at nights before I go to sleep I get so nervous...and say I will leave him because of his weird thoughts and the way he looks the relationship ( everything planed ).
Ok and when I wake up in the morning...I realize how much I love him and that would be pretty hard to lvie without him....
does this sound weird...
ever happen to you....
...let me add that still in the morning I still think that his behavior of plaining everything is weird but I realize the fact that I love him....
happened to me once, but i took my words back after several days cos i realized how much i love him and need him, and luckily he didnt give up on me..if you love him, then dont make it stop
Do you mean planning everything? No, that's not weird it just means that he is stable and that he is serious about the relationship.
at night you are normally worn out and your kinda down, even if you dont realize it. I feel like that too, different reasons tho. But just about every night I feel like saying something, but I keep my mouth shut and normally feel all better in the morning.
well thats the person that he is...either u love it or u u dont
Then if you love him, you will not only put up with his ways, but you will _help_ him in PLANNING things. ;-)
Gezzzz That's it ? maybe you should stop whining or he will make plans to dump you!
Doubts are apart of life. Often my doubts are semi-frequent and for some time it worried me. However, when I spend time with my boyfriend all my doubts seem to vanish, if only for the time being, and I'm filled with such surety in regards to the state of our relationship.
So yes, doubts are normal, as well as indecision and a change of heart and mind.
Good luck with things between you and your boyfriend. Always wait those doubts out before making a rash decision that you might regret later (i.e. breaking up).
this has happened to me! but different situation, had nothing to do with a boyfriend. just mixed and confused thoughts. they say sleeping on something can help you realize what you truly feel. it sounds to me, and i may be wrong, but what you do not like is how he plans everything. so talk to him about it.. decide in your heart how bad its going to effect the realationship in the long run..
DO YOU HAVE A DRUG PROBLEM..IF NOT GET ONE,YOU NEED TO LOOK AT LIFE FROM ANOTHER ANGLE.YOU SOUND LIKE YOU HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT ANYTHING AND GO THROUGH LIFE WITH YOUR EYES CLOSED AND LEGS OPEN...WHATS UP WITH THAT..THREATENING TO LEAVE SOMEONE FOR PLANNING....DO YOU HAVE AN IQ HIGHER THAN YOUR AGE.
Planning is good. Sometimes. But a bit of spontineity would'nt go amiss. You love him so thats a good start, and if he shows you affection among his"weird"traits then thats good as well. If he shows you he really cares for you whether in public or private, then i would'nt put too much thought into what he gets up to when he's not around either. Just try and get a bit of where things stand in his head, when you do hang around together.