I am shy of talking to beautiful girls........?!
Question: How can I change myself?
Answers: How can I change myself?
dont change, girls will come to you. we think its sweet and cute that your shy, we like it sometimes. it shows your not a player, you want serious relationships. dont change!
Think that they are only human like you. Good luck!
Just become crazy as your nick suggests, when in their company, i know id love it!
be more confident when you go up to her and talk
first, try talking to ugly girls.. it might help
Now you know better than to change yourself.
clicheness: Be who you are, and be proud as you.
If people don't like the "real" you, then they are missing out and forget them. If they are smart enough to appreciate you, then lucky them.
When you get shy/nervous about something, practice tends to be the only way to get over it. So.....practice? If you have some bad turn outs, don't look back or let them discourage you, just move on and remember -- they are the ones who missed out. If you are patient I promise someday you'll find THE ONE and it'll all work out despite your shyness or anything else.
Just don't worry about it, enjoy life.
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trust me beautiful comes naturally so just cause they are beautiful doesnt mean that they are not human just like you and me give it a shot and the turn out might be great.
Hold a martini glass in your hand and say...my name is crazy....crazy_me. That should break the ice.
dont be so insecure!! be yourself and it helps if you can make them laugh and feel comfortable!! ;-)
I think your shyness may be because of thinking yourself. I mean, you concentrate on your own. "What will this girl think of ME if I say that or do this?" etc..You can try not to concentrate on yourself like this. Instead concentrate on her. What does she like? What are her interests?
You can think about the people whom you get along with well, and try to act like that when you're talking to beautiful girls.
Im way shy too. I dont like to talk to good looking guys at all. In fact if they talk to me, I walk away. Its a personality disorder I think. Im a hypocrite for saying this, but you should just introduce yourself, and fight off any urge to flee. Either they are interested or not, if not, there are plenty more where that came from.
think of some good topics of conversation (NOT PICK UP LINES) and go talk to them and remember stand up straight and look them in the eyes not their chests or your feet
it will take some time but with time you will get it i used to be very shy and to a certain extent still am it is not something that will happen overnite but be patient and work on your social skills it is worth it in the long run and not just for pretty girls
ohhh... read more about motivational books and always try to be friendly
:p thats how I manage to overcome my shyness.