Even if things were never resolved, would you forgive your enemies eventually in!
Question: Hold a grudge?? I know they say you should forgive and let go but I just can't right now. What would you do?
Answers: Hold a grudge?? I know they say you should forgive and let go but I just can't right now. What would you do?
That quote is a lot easier said than done. Grudges and anger can consume you. I know it's hard. I've held grudges on 2 people for years. Still am. Don't know if I will ever forgive, as they hurt me horribly, and on purpose.
i do forgive, but somehow i really cant ever forget, and i will feel hatred for no absolute reason
wait a bit and see if things get better chances are everybody will forget and when you move on in life you wont see that person again
yup, forgive and let go. It takes too much energy to stay mad at someone and makes you unhappy at the end. If your enemy did something terrible, karma will come back to haunt them. NO need to live your life with hate.
i have a tendancy to hold a grudge. somethings are just unforgiveable. i may eventually forgive but not always right away.
It's do-able. Just gotta take a step back and give it time.
Yes, I suspect I would.
To a degree yes. Will I remember the hurt ?...yes. Will I let the anger go? yes
it depends on what they did. if they did something small then i would get over it. lifes too short to be pissed off at someone your whole life.
Depends on the severity of their actions. I know 1 individual in my life I can never forgive. The rest I've moved on past.
Let some time pass... Its easier to forgive once the sting has worn off. In the meantime just avoid the person or people and move on with your life.
I have a couple that are entirely justified, so I will hold those grudges til I die.
Like for my cheating scumbag ex husband, for example.
forgive no! but not hold a grudge! you only hurt yourself then!
yes i would forgive them , cuz i would forget what i was fighting about =]
Even if u forgive,u can never forget! take note of their names,a good enemy is a dead enemy!
Generally, I'm a pretty lazy person, and bearing grudges is an effort.
You forgive for yourself not for your enemies. It doesn't mean you're going to be best buddies again and everything is all nonchalant. What it means is that you forgive to have inner peace for yourself so you can move on and focus on more important things that are of priority in you life. The more you dwell on your "grudges," the more bitter you become. Life is too short to be bitter and miserable.
I prefer to forgive my enemies in death.
Specifically theirs.
Now it's stupid to spend your life consumed by hate.
But you should forgive only those who deserve it.
well enemies are enemies and when they called enemies your against them so you can't forgive them, if your cool with them then you not friends and not enemies and if his your friend you cant hate him. hope it helped
I would not forgive or forget nor would i hold a grudge
what i would do is distance myself from them & move on.
You don't have to forgive anyone you are not ready to forgive. Take your time and reflect on the whole situation until you reach some level of neutrality. When you do, that is the time to let go. There is no benefit to holding a grudge, and in time it wears on your health. Honestly, I think that is the best reason to let go. When you are ready and you do let go, you will find you also grow in compassion and other ways of love.
I stopped holding grudges years ago. It doesn't make the other person feel bad -- it only eats away at you inside.
If someone apologizes, I forgive them an move on. If someone doesn't apologize, I just write them off and don't have anything to do with them.
Life is just too short to waste time wallowing in resentments.
I don't have any ENEMIES!!!
(Just,...... "Friends who "Think their Friends!!!"
You know. the "Old Saying" ............... "Keep You Friends Close................."
P.S. That ones...... FOR FREE!!!!!!!!!