You or them?!
Question: Is it more difficult for you to tell someone how you feel, even if it will hurt their feelings...or is it harder to keep it to urself for the sake of the others feelings?
Answers: Is it more difficult for you to tell someone how you feel, even if it will hurt their feelings...or is it harder to keep it to urself for the sake of the others feelings?
I personally find it harder to keep my feelings to myself. Bad things and emotions tend to build up when I keep it all bottled up inside. So, I just work up the courage and say what I have to and let it be done and over with. If you are just trying to spare someones feelings, then you really are doing them the injustice. Unless it is something plainly cruel that just doesnt need to be said in the first place, go ahead and let it out....nicely though! :)
I have a wicked tongue that I try to tame every day I live. It was inherited, in my defense.
i keep things to myself so i wont hurt feelings
I think it's better to tell the truth.
int he long run, it will hurt them more, to think that they have been living a lie
more difficult to tell
I prefer to keep it inside.
I try to keep it to myself if possible. I still stand by the old saying "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all."
It's harder to tell someone how you feel when it hurts their feelings, but sometimes the truth just comes out.
I have a habit of telling a lie to spare one's feelings.
I tend to keep things bottled up.
But i SHOULD tell people my feelings.Its just to hard,and im very self-conscious.
truth is all ways best
its harder to keep it to my self be most honest especilly if you love them. it may hurt at first but at least you where turthful
Some ppl handle criticism better than others, so I just go by instinct.
I think its more difficult to hold it in..either way they're going to be hurt, but if you dont like them, and they arent aware, theyre going to be by you alot, and since you wouldnt feel the same you'll end up ignoring them or acting weird around them and it'll end up far worse than if you had just told them and they could move on to someone else...wow...confusing...do you know what I mean, though?
it's more difficult for keeping it to yourself because then you'll be stressed out and say what u mean when you're angry. it's better to let out the feelings but don't use harsh words, just let them down easily. i do it and it REALLY REALLY helps. good luck
I always try to make my point clear to anyone, regardless, and if I ofend anyone, I just have to apologize.