Something to think about?!
Question: When someone close to you, whether it be a friend or a family member, is going through a hard time (health issues, marriage issues, financial strugles, whatever), how does it change your perspective towards your own life and your own situation?
Answers: When someone close to you, whether it be a friend or a family member, is going through a hard time (health issues, marriage issues, financial strugles, whatever), how does it change your perspective towards your own life and your own situation?
It gives me an attitude of gratatude that I am O K
It makes me thankful for what i have and it makes me want to help any way i can
i am more thankful for all the good things in my life, cause i know there is alot of people out there who has got it so much worse than I do... It just make me not take anything for granted!!
It doesn't I try to help them the best that I can and if I have been in their shoes I share my story with them in hopes it will help them through the hard time and to let them know I made it through and that they can to.
It makes me more thankful 4 the good things and life and more supportive to those things
With all that I've been going through, you bet I have. On one side I have two deaths in my family and my Grammy being diagnosed with cancer and put in a nursing home. Then on the flip side I have a future grandchild on the way. Guess some one wanted to distract me from my sadness.
I think thank god my life isn't as shitty as theirs ... Trust me I do this constantly
My brother TJ - his gf is a miserable ***** who even he hates, his ex-wife is being investigated for welfare fraud and drug use, and mistreating his two kids
My brother MD is having marriage problem, because let's face it he's an asshole and refuses to treat his poor wife with some sympathy. She's being trying for a baby for years and the fertility drugs make her nippy and my brother can't handle his submissive Asian Bride not jumping when he commands it.
My sister is ... Apparently graduating with her Masters Degree in Psychology on The 17th and I'm telling you if she was telling me what was wrong with my life she'd get told to f off. She's in an abusive controlling relationship, she's broke because her gf won't allow her to work, her and her gf abuse my sisters daughter but treat her gfs daughter like a princess ... Basically her relationship with her gf means more to her than her own daughter or family ....
My fathers a drug addict that I dunno if he's dead or alive but I figure he's still alive because I haven't gotten his debts yet
My Mother ... Is a great liar. She hallucinated most of our childhoods up while she was sleeping threw them, pretends she loves us and cares ... All the while trying to get sympathy so we'll take care of her
See my marriage bs and problems are NOTHING compared to that bs!
It always makes me realize that maybe my life isn't as bad as I think it is, and that I should not be so worried about myself. I also want to be there to do anything I can to help them out too. I have been through a lot of rough times and I know the importance of having people around you that truly care and want to help you get back on your feet.