Did your wedding day turn out to be as picture perfect as you planned?!
Question: It did... and better. We were blessed with amazing weather... it held up long enough for us to get married in the mountains and get some great pictures. More people showed up which was nice and my brother in law who was my hubby's best man was incredible.. if it weren't for him, I'm sure I would have fainted from dehydration... he kept real good care of us, a new side to him I had never seen before that day.
Answers: It did... and better. We were blessed with amazing weather... it held up long enough for us to get married in the mountains and get some great pictures. More people showed up which was nice and my brother in law who was my hubby's best man was incredible.. if it weren't for him, I'm sure I would have fainted from dehydration... he kept real good care of us, a new side to him I had never seen before that day.
Absolutely! But then I had spent a year planning it!
Haha.....I got married on Friday December 13, 1996....what do YOU think?
haha...
it was as best as to be expected
considering it was the spur of the moment
yes, everything went smoothly
My wedding day turned out to be just another day at work! We called it off months ago. Just as well, it was cold and rainy. If it had been outdoors (like he wanted), everybody would have been miserable, and my dress would have been ruined! Even if it had been in a church (like I wanted) I would have been stuck for a coat that would go with a wedding dress to get from the church to the reception (which his daughter wanted to have in her backyard!) That would have been a disaster, too! So, it's just as well we didn't do it.
My first wedding wasn't much better. I was 9 months pregnant, and forced into it at the last possible moment. It was at the courthouse. I didn't even have a dress, my hair and nails didn't turn out right, and my heels were making my ankles swell up like canteloupes! I sat on my mom's back steps, bawling my eyes out, and refused to do it under those circumstances. In the process, I ruined my make-up, and made my eyes swell up like a frog's! My husband talked me into it, and promised me a wedding like I deserved for our 5th anniversary. Never happened, only one of many broken promises. By our eighth anniversary, I had to file for divorce anyway. He was psycho.
My second "husband" and I never got around to making it legal. We were trying to save up for it, but something always got in the way. Broken furnace, car repairs, you name it. Didn't really matter, we were as married as two people could be, just didn't have the ceremony and piece of paper to prove it. We didn't really care about that too much. We were a perfect match, and I wish I could find another one that was half as good a fit for me as my Bill was. I don't think that'll ever happen. I did have 7? years of bliss with him, though. It wasn't nearly enough, but I'm grateful for that much.
I had two beautiful weddings, the second wedding was even more beautiful then the first, the only problem is, the wedding really doesn't matter, its the marrage that counts.........