What is/was your biggest regret?!


Question: My biggest regret is that when i was abused by my ex, I was afraid of him and was afraid to leave him..
I know it sounds crazy to be afraid to leave someone like that but i really was and now i look back on it , I wish i would have kicked him where it hurt and just left him for everything he did to me..
The only good thing he ever gave me are my 3 wonderful children..
Deb :)


Answers: My biggest regret is that when i was abused by my ex, I was afraid of him and was afraid to leave him..
I know it sounds crazy to be afraid to leave someone like that but i really was and now i look back on it , I wish i would have kicked him where it hurt and just left him for everything he did to me..
The only good thing he ever gave me are my 3 wonderful children..
Deb :)

I have many

like the time I didn't become myself in High School and I missed the opportunity to meet a few grate people because I was too afraid

I regret not doing better by my mom, If I had only known? I realize I actually was an alright daughter. I do regret not being better! We always bumped heads when I was a teen, Later grownig up we became so close. We were just so much alike. My mom and I were best friends as well as a mom and daughter. I have a brother and a sister who lived with mom until she died but my mom was always at my house with me and my kids. I mean literally every day! We talked on the phone every single day as well as seen each other each day. My mom even went to work where I worked! We always took vacations together, my mom, me and my kids. Not my brother and sister who never did anything other than mooch off of her.
I guess you get that we were extremely close, I think I regret that I thought she would live much longer. I knew my mom had heart problems, she had a bouble by pass, they tried to do a triple but were unable to do so because of all the damage. She survived three heart attacks and still kept going. She was only 59 years old so naturally I thought she would live awhile longer. My grandfather had severe heart problems and died at 57 years old on his 4th heart attack. Once my mom passed 57 we both thought she was in the clear.
When it's too late is when things become clear! I regret not living each and every moment to the fullest with her.
The last mothers day with my mom I didn't go and get her and take her out to eat as I have done every year that I can remember. Instead this year I had decided to let my brother and sister take mom out! I spent my mothers day with my husband and kids. Later that night we went to grandma's house and brought her some mothers day gifts. Only to find out that my brother and sister did nothing for my mom. We had to go home because I had to work in the morning but my mom wanted us to stay for awhile to visit, maybe watch a movie or something. That was just a week before my mom died! Why this year did I decide to not take my mom? Why did I not spend that little time with her?
There's just too much to regret! It's been hard but I am finally comming to see that my mom would not be angry with me or dissappointed. She never was......She, we, us had so many memories that were all good and we spent good times together. My mom would have forgiven me so I must forgive myself! I do realize now the importance of today and not putting things off until tomorrow!
I was with her when she died, not my brother and sister but me and my daughter!
I miss my mom so much!

A car accident left me with not every thing back closed head injury



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