For those of you have had this happen?!
Question: ...you meet someone on line and fall for them very hard....
Why do you think this is? Are we jusst in a rut and they say the right things? Looking and not finding and they seem to have all we want? DO we fall for the Avator? ha no, seriously...what do you think it is? Has it ever happened to you?
I have saved a life on here (Suicide, never happened) I have wanted to adopt several becasue I am an "oldie moldie", and I have felt the pain and suffering of so many...and I have had me heart flutter I have to admit. I would like your opinions on this please...thanks so much love you all...Tina
Answers: ...you meet someone on line and fall for them very hard....
Why do you think this is? Are we jusst in a rut and they say the right things? Looking and not finding and they seem to have all we want? DO we fall for the Avator? ha no, seriously...what do you think it is? Has it ever happened to you?
I have saved a life on here (Suicide, never happened) I have wanted to adopt several becasue I am an "oldie moldie", and I have felt the pain and suffering of so many...and I have had me heart flutter I have to admit. I would like your opinions on this please...thanks so much love you all...Tina
happens to us all, would like to meet a lot of people on here in person, you being one.
idk but your right...i guess because its so easy to talk to them and get along. you only see one side of that person and you like it
i think we allow people online to fill whatever we feel we are missing sometimes.
omg that sounds just like this really good friend i had on this game called puzzle pirates
she told because her life is hard and talking on here she could be somewhere else and its just easier on here
personally online relationships are stupid
you could never really hold them
hug them or kiss them atleast not really
plus you can never really trust there who they say they are
I have this theory on "new love". There is nothing more exciting than the fresh feelings a new relationship brings to you. It feels so much better than the "old love" you have at home. But in the end, even if you switch over to the new love, it'll still turn into the old love.
This is personal experience telling you that yes I've been there, and you are better off staying with the old love.
Best of luck.
i think we're writing emails and posting messages, it's quite anonymous and we are able to truly express ourselves. i think that is what may attract us to someone. i've met someone online who i have very strong feelings for.
i think we were able to connect so quickly b/c the medium we were using allowed us to be more open with each other. and naturally we progress from strictly online to real-life.
you're able to connect with such a broad range of ppl online, why not feel that you could meet your 'other-half' here. if it's meant to be it will be, no matter what the distance b/w you or the way in which you meet.
I FEEL YOUR PAIN!!! IF I HAD AN EXPLANATION I WOULDN'T BE IN THE SITUATION I'M IN! GOOD LUCK TO THE BOTH OF US! HAGD;)
I'm a psychiatric nurse, so my opinion on this is going to be a little slanted. Being online is an anonymous way to meet people. We have to depend on them to be telling the truth.
This is a way of connecting with people, but not intimately, so we have a safety net. I have a female friend who is the CEO of a big company. She just wired her life's savings to a man she met online. He told her he needed the money to fly to her from London. He promised to repay her when he got settled in America. He had proposed marriage and she was preparing for the wedding. Needless to say, he never showed up and her money is in the wind. She's devastated, almost suicidal. She's also suing the site where she met this man. It turns out he was not at all what he had told her. I'm tellinng you this as a way of saying you have to be incredibly careful when you talk to someone you have never seen in person. It's also wonderful of you to console people, but it shouldnt be a substitute for face to face friendships. It's all a matter of degree. If you can go online and counsel people and then go out to dinner with real people, it's not a problem. If your whole life exists for anonymous contacts, it could become a big problem.
It has happened to me many times and sometimes I have to wonder why. There has been times when I wonder what it is that I say to make them fall for me. I guess when I fall for someone it is because I like how they express them selfs and as for me I don't try to hide behind the screen but I do keep some things private and I let them know.