Girls: Let's say you get raped and you get pregnant.....?!
Question: Would you have the baby or get an abortion?
Give details why or why not.
Answers: Would you have the baby or get an abortion?
Give details why or why not.
not keep it!! why on earth would i want to keep a child from someone who destroyed my life..so what i have to keep someones child just because the sick bastard decided to rape me? NO!! .and i know the whole thing about "its not the baby's fault" well when i abort its not gonna even be a baby and thats what everyone needs to understand its only a fetus!! plus if i were to get rapped i would immediately prevent getting pregnant by taking a morning after pill.. yea boo me off if u want!!! and adoption?? theres too many kids that are given away for adoption u think thats a happy life for them? same thing ur leaving them without parents!..
welll i totally keep the baby lol
I know someone who was raped and had the baby--and kept him. She said it was the best decision she ever made. She did not know her attacker. I believe she's a lot stronger than I.
OK, now this is my serious answer:
One set of circumstances comes to mind....there is a girl I encountered who's been institutionalized for most of her life. She was adopted an an infant and nothing is known about her biological parents. She was raped as a young adult by multiple men, had a baby and the baby was put up for adoption because she was not capable of taking care of it.
This baby is out in the world somewhere. It's mother is not sane and it's father is one of several violent criminals. Maybe her grandparents were insane and/or criminals, too....who knows. The tendencies for violence and mental illness have been shown to have at least some genetic component...so I just wonder if that child will be tormented like the mother is and like her mother's mother may have been before that.
Bring on thumbs down, here's what I think......
I would have the baby and give it up for adoption, its not the baby's fault that its father is scum
abortion. i would be an emotional wreck and would be the worst mother ever. i'm not ready for that kind of a responsibility.
though it would be hard to comprehend keeping someones baby that sexually abused and or assaulted you, you still have to think that it wasnt the babies choice....years ago i would have said that i'd get rid of it but now i actually met someone who is now a great friend of mine and she is a "rape baby" and she is so awesome...she of course doesnt know or ever want to know the father but i have more respect for her mother for being so brave and making the choice to keep her. So i guess under the circumstance that the doctors say the baby would be fine i think i would consider keeping it. hope i could help. good luck
I would give it up for adoption.
There's many couples around the world that can't have children. I don't believe that you should be allowed to kill an innocent child that you could have given to someone who cries themselves to sleep every night over the fact that they can't have children.
Even though it would be difficult, and a very emotional decision, I think it's the best.
i would have the baby but give it up for adoption because i wouldn't want the child to remind me of that event that happened i would want that child to be with a loving family and i would like to have contact with the family so i could explain to my child why i gave you up for adoption
no i won't get an abortion ,, because ir would be a murder .. it's a "soul" .. no matter its size
i asked myself that question many times before.
i hate abortion and don't support killing an innocent child who has a right to live and experience life.
so i wouldn't get an abortion, but i definately wouldn't keep it. i'd get it adopted.
but it is a disgusting reminder of the sick man who did this to you, but then again, it is also a part of you.
I would give the baby up for adoption. Like someone else said, its not the baby's fault its her/his father is scum.
(keep in mind, i'm 13)
id probaby get an abortion, thers no way i could carry a baby to term and have it be healthy. i'm close to too small already.
OBVOUSLY theres NO WAY IN HELL i'd raise a baby
Though, may i point out that there is a morning after pill that ecentaly makes it so a girl CANNOT POSSIABLE get pregnant. It does NOT abort a child, it prevents it from being formed
i will have the baby and give it to adoption.