Why is this guy I met online so suspicious of me?!
Question: He checks my multiply everyday and if I have even said a hi to someone else he says I am flirting with that person.
I and him have just become friends and we like each other but he keeps saying I am flirting with so and so....
What should I do?
Answers: He checks my multiply everyday and if I have even said a hi to someone else he says I am flirting with that person.
I and him have just become friends and we like each other but he keeps saying I am flirting with so and so....
What should I do?
when a girl is too nice to a guy and gives him attention guys tend to attach themselves quickly. Before you know it he's jealous this means he has probably been thanking about you all day. Maybe he is a bit young or young minded. he probably has been burned by a girl in his past and has been damaged for life?
He sounds a little too posessive for my taste... but then again, I wouldn't think about dating anybody on the internet. I'd say stop talking to him and don't give him any personal information like your phone number or address.
dump his little-boy ash
he'll probly kill u-stay away-
ignore him. he doesn′t have a right to stop you from flirting if you feel like it!
OH MY GOSH, RUN, DON'T WALK OR WAIT, RUN AWAY FROM TROUBLE
Well he seems very jealous and maybe even possessive. Do you want a friend like that? That could be what your looking forward too. I would tell him that he has no right to say what you can do online. Because he doesn't.....does he? I don't think he's really looking to be friends with you. I would also find out what this friends real intentions are. May everything go over for you well! ERRRROOF!
how do i know?
jus,ask him.
ur so called online dating its doubts the kind of person ur are....add to it ur inviting trouble.perhaps ur not aware of the cons of online dating....it also appears this guy is taking ur "so called friendship" a step forward and getting possessive...simply tell him "yes am flirting" probably he'll get lost...or send him a really ugly obese girls pic and tell him "its yours" may be he'll change his mind and then wont question you "so and so"
chill u have loads of time..keep flirting..i mean keep searching...you never know...ur soul is jst out there..
This guy sounds like the jealous type to me. I would run like hell away from him as fast as you can. I mean he has no right to say or be bothered by you saying hello to or even flirting with another person. You are not his to own!!! Sweet heart if this guy is acting the way you have described him you need to let him go. He will drive you crazy and if a guy is that jealous and has not even really seen or met you in person and you all are not even a couple yet, he has issues. I am saying this for your own good, guys that are jealous have issues and end up being mean and possessive. I know several American men like that and they are @ss holes! You don't want to be with a fool like that, it's the last thing any woman needs. Get rid of this guy please, for your own good and safety.
He sounds like a control freak ....... be careful ....... I dont think he is the type of guy you want to be with ...... = )
Keep away from such person who thinks that u r his property and don't trust u.stop chatting with such person who is not fit to b ur friend.
One problem with meeting people online is for some people, it's too easy to think they're developing a very close bond when the other person thinks it's a casual friendship. It's important for both people to have the same understanding of the relationship, but that requires maturity on both sides, and often that's not the case. Your friendship with this person sounds like he's become very attached and possessive when he has no reason to be so. If you feel the friendship is worth it, you need to make him understand that this is a friendship, not more than that, unless and until you decide you want to pursue something more.
easy, just ignore him
dont keep friendhsip with people like them
My dear Mafia Girl!!!
Do you remember my reply to your question only on loving on line. It is very relevant here too.
He checks on you, he suspects you so on and so forth. I told you the same thing. Because it . is on line, he has no proof of your personal behaviour, and hence, according to his own mental status, he starts suspecting you, very apprehensive about you, always view's in negative direction.
In some cases, when person is really bad, he will be believed to be a nice person, and thus fell in the pits dug by him and get into his clutches and trap as a lame goat.
This is all because the uncertainty about human behaviour and wickedness and sadism, against goodness, love and affection elsewhere.
So such on line friends, always expect the unexpected and never get disappointed or never regret later.
He may be "Indian".
dooonnnno.cute avatar.
dnt pay too much attention to such thnigs...thers no reason for him to get so keen on ur schedule....just ignore!
lol,that's outta your box MG,have u found a BF? kool good luck with that... mmmm we the fans may worry 4 u but i say god-bless and no worries even Americans have a bad day now and then... embrace him..
that is scary.
I would be very cautious.
I mean a little bit of jealousy is flattering, that amount, soon and from an online friendly interaction is over the top.
I would seek out others to interact with and place this person on a ban list if I was in your position.
I have had to cancel an account places before because of online stalkers ... so please be careful.
There are nice people out there, just make sure you weed out the unstable ones.
Even if they were burned, you don't need to be the healer. They need to heal on their own and shouldn't be involved with someone in that state anyway.
If they weren't burned, then steer even further away ... abuse, physical, verbal, emotion would be an almost definite in the future, even as a 'friend'.
Apparently this person has already attached to you very strongly and is becoming possessive and controlling.
Best wishes to you.
Block him whatever it takes to be rid of him; you don't need that possessive stuff to be hanging over your head.
If you are both friends then I wouldn't expect he to say that. If he really blaming you for nothing then just keep him a side. Afterall there are so many others good/ brad mined person. Just need to tackle them. As far as I know you. don't flirt anyone.
well he DOESNT SPEAK for all Americans , like me. honestly to me it wouldnt matter if you did or didnt as long as i know that your true to me & me alone. he just might be unable to handle such a good looking &mature lady such as yourself & is scared.lol it can be hard sometimes when you have no confidence in yourself or just found some on the scale of 1-10 between 8 & 9;) talk to him about it & see if he is scared or something to that effect. plus you have never met him & he the same, its only soo much that yall will know of each other anyways, but good luck
Sharon, you gotta show me this guy. He sounds just like this guy my best friend was seeing, well she met him here, and he would do the same thing. This guy has like 5 girlfriends online, and totally messes with their heads and tries to controll them.
Even so, if the guy is being that way towards you, forget him. Who needs the aggravation.
?Mafiagirl?
He might just like you.
Like all of us on yahoo answers !
Cheers
Have a good day
PS: hows the job going and when r u coming to Canada ?