Do you find it hard to.....?!
Question: .....turn the other Cheek sometimes?
I work with someone who takes it out on me all the time. I try to be nice and I never lash back...but sometimes I am really tested. Ever happen to you?
How do you overcome the bad thoughts????? Wanting to lash back???? thanks
Answers: .....turn the other Cheek sometimes?
I work with someone who takes it out on me all the time. I try to be nice and I never lash back...but sometimes I am really tested. Ever happen to you?
How do you overcome the bad thoughts????? Wanting to lash back???? thanks
Although I don't do it a lot, I pray for those type of people before work, and pray privately during work...it's always helped me. Some people will probably think I'm nuts, but oh well. I always keep in mind they will reap what they sew, somewhere down the line.
just smile sweetly at them as if what they say doesn't bother you and it will offend them more than if you sink to their level and respond.
I hate confintation, but I rarely turn the other cheek. I talk sh*t back.
I count to 10.
No, not really. im generally a happy person :P
A lot of the time. Count to 10.
oh,all the time!today i had such an urge to slap my friend's friend,but i didn't!
i stand up for myself as maybe you should dont let people push you around
i do sometimes but i am a very patient person n it rarely happens that i lash out at someone... n to help my self i think what would have Jesus have done if he was in my situation
yes most of the time i keep a level head,
but at time spouting off passive agressive comments at the top of your lungs can be the best stress releiver.
it's rare that i yell directly at someone but it feels great, esspecially when they don't expect it, so they don't yell back they're just shocked at your you-ness.
There's a girl at college I find it hard to get on with. And I nkow what you mean, it's so hard to just ignore her. She's a scrappy little thing.
What I do is just ignore her when she says things about herself (she does that a lot) so she learns that she doesn't get attention from me that way. But yeah, try not to lash out, it causes problems.
And I have the bad thoughts all the time, I replay the scene in my head and either punch someone or shout at them...I don't think they're harmful unless you have a thing about doing and not thinking...I can't get rid of them, but they're only a problem to me. Just try and chill out, have some of your favourite mints, drink some tea and light some candles and relax :).
only 2 my mom-most of the time. i tell them what they r doing thats pissin me off-etc. n they watch what they say-speak up!!!
yell at him/her: Do you think your the only one with problems? Shut up already and don't ever take it out on me again or you will be sorry understood??? It worked for me
when I was younger I find it very difficlt to lash back or may be even hiT them on the head! but most of the time I try not to say anything especially when their a "wise guy". because if you try to reason with them most likely it won't work.
I overcome my bad thoughts by counting numbers until you've reached inner peace. or....just simply leave 'em and let them jab amonst themseleves because you've realized that you don't want any part of their little argument. it best to move on sometimes. :)
No, because it's never happened to me. If a bad thought does come along, I just ignore it.