Should I or shouldn't I?!
Question: I'm thinking of having a "defining the relationship" talk with a guy. I don't want to go into the whole thing here, so I'm just asking a nice, general survey question. The defining the relationship convo: is it a good idea or a pain in the butt for all involved.
Answers: I'm thinking of having a "defining the relationship" talk with a guy. I don't want to go into the whole thing here, so I'm just asking a nice, general survey question. The defining the relationship convo: is it a good idea or a pain in the butt for all involved.
Depends.......do you want to define it as in "I love you and lets not see other people" or "ewww...let's not go there I only want to be friends". If you just want to be friends then talk. You don't want to give him the wrong idea,
are you ready?...
Listen to your heart.
Pain in the but. Labels suck.
if you think you should, you need to
pain in the butt
no you shouldn't
You are going have to accept it if the person doesn't want to have the conversation or just breaks up with you. Hope it goes well for you.
It is up to you and how long you have been involved.
Go for it.This way you will know if you are waisting your time with him.
if you think it is necessary go for it
i think that you should. best of luck.
I was recently out on a "second date" with a woman who thought we should discuss where our "relationship" was going and I realized immediately that (since there was no relationship after just two dates) we had to part company because it was not a "good match" in my opinion.
Maybe guys see things differently but unless you have been involved for some time, this is probably NOT a good idea.