Poll: What do you do if your former love calls you at 3:00am and hangs up the ph!
Question: How do you handle it? I just disconnected the phone so she can't disturb me again and came here for some fun.
Answers: How do you handle it? I just disconnected the phone so she can't disturb me again and came here for some fun.
getting over you is harder than i thought it would be.
yeah sure there was another guy laying there beside me and he was buff and fine and we had just gotten through making mad passionate love for hours, but he just wasnt you. so i had to hear your voice.
sure he is a little better hung than you.
he is pretty charming and you 'are' a buffoon.
i still miss you for some reason.
you best just block my number, i wont be able to resist calling again
call her back and tell her to knock it off.
yeh, block his number, like i allready have.
I would call her back and talk like darth vader!!
Block her or figure out why she's calling.
if she is really your former love, then she deserves to be talked to.
just call her up and scare the crap out of her.
i would have done the exact same thing
Call her back at 4am. lol
Switch to voice-mail, lower ringer volume, ignore her until she gets the hint and finally goes away.
go back to sleep......
disconnect the phone
call her the next night at 1am and then cut her off, see how she likes it
Disconnecting the phone was a sweet move!! Kudos to you!
I myself would do the same thing - ignore them!! I don't reply to their emails, don't read their myspace messages, I block them, don't answer their calls and never reply with "leave me alone" because they rather you yell at them than ignore them.
See, most people would call them back and yell at them and insist they email them or something, but the opposite is better!
People for years have told me to ignore them and believe it or not it really works!! I do it all the time to my exes and you'd be surprised on the affect it has on them. haha. Keep up the good work!!! :)
call them back and say WTF!?!?
Well if she hangs up then she has a bad intention then and that is to bother you...but next time talk to her in a subtle way and explain agian that your relationship is done and that you have moved on..otherwise you wouldn't know maybe she asks somebody else to do that..talk to her..ignoring her will make it worse..just give the final talk.and that's it..!!!ok???
If it's a home phone, I either disconnect it or just keep the line open on a dialtone so nobody would disturb me for a while.
If it's a cell phone, I'll turn it off and/or put it in a charger in the other room.
That sucks..lol. But i guess it depends on the situation. If there are still feelings left, even if it's just love for a dear friend and you're still concerned about her somehow, you could call her back and ask her what made her call at an unholy hour. But if you'd rather forget that she once was in your life, ignore the call totally and all other future calls, never look back.
I usually ignore the call and turn off the phone. I never pick up calls after 2 AM... unless... yeah... but um, I think you are handling the situation well. If you know who this person is, try talking to her about it in the morning.... or just ignore her. People don't like to be ignored.
It happened to me last week...I totally ignored him... =)
I'd go pinch loaf's ALL over their yard.
Or just drop a deuce on their doorstep or pop a squat all over their car.
That or ring their doorbell and hide until they answer.
Then when they come out throw my feces at him/her, or better yet grab my cat's uncleaned litter box and dump it all over him/her when they come out and yell "THAT'LL TEACH YOU TO WAKE ME UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT YOU F*CK TARD!"
then get in my car and drive off, leaving them thinking
"omfg wtf UGH!!?!"
That's what I'd do too....maybe she's looking for a little somethin-somethin from ya???
My ex love's doing this, pain in the butt that he is. I usually just lower the volume of the ringer so that all it does on his end is ring and ring and ring and it end's up annoying him more than it annoys me because I won't answer. Yeah, he's not the sharpest tool in the shed lol.
Send her an e-mail with an embarrassing pic of her asking what's wrong. She's probably depressed. If she's depressed enough to want to talk to you--it could be serious.
If she sends an e-mail back, you might discover you've interrupted a suicide attempt--or just lightened up a bad night.
On the other hand, she might have been trying to call someone current and dialed you by mistake.
really i didn't know that you even had a lover in the first .? then to be calling her a former ,that's sound so strange to me what about any one Else ?????
Block his Number after of course telling him not to bother me anymore.Putting it like a nice Girl.on here that is.