Does it make you uncomfortable?!
Question: when someone spends a lot of money on you?
It does me! I guess I have too much pride or something, I dunno.
Answers: when someone spends a lot of money on you?
It does me! I guess I have too much pride or something, I dunno.
Depends on who it is and if I am actually able to afford the item myself. If it's a close friend and they buy me something for a special occasion that I was planning on buying myself, not really but if someone bought me a $100,000 "just because" present, that would make me super uncomfortable.
...yes...yes...yes...
me too
Yes i never accept it
i dont care wen they do.....im only 12 tho sooo im spoiled
yeahh
I guess sometimes, I know I can afford it that's
probably why it bothers me.
absolutely! but then im also quite uncomfortable when i offer to pay and someone is completely non-insistant on paying anything towards it!!
No, because I spend more on them.....enjoy........!!!
nothings free
Yes I wonder what they expect from me ~~
I love to spend money on others, but only close family, I would not spend a lot on work friend, next door neighbour , etc
are they trying to buy your friendship?
Don't know, never had someone spend a lot of money on me...
yes cause i dont have the money spend on other people.
yes! i think its because i dont like feeling like i owe somebody something - it always seems to get thrown in your face later on - "well I did this for you"
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS !!!
it makes me feel VERY small and VERY uncomfortable.. i mean COME ON - I am not an OBJECT to be thrown money at!
well,not really,unless you consider 10 bucks alot of money.
Yes
There's never enough money for this SEASON, and I appreciate the fact that I have Friends who love me alot, but the whole gift giving situation really stresses me alot...
i seem to always be
the 'someone' doing the spending
it's a thrill to be spoiled sometimes
If someone cares enough for you to do this then accept it with gratitude. If it for a reason other than you like then put a stop to it. It is many peoples nature to give while others just take.
He/she sounds like a giver.
I guess it would depend on what it was for. Was the person just trying to be nice? Or do you think they feel bad for you?
I've seen people spend money on people they want to know that they care about them but don't know how else to show it. If it makes you uncomfortable you should say something. Or maybe come to a compromise??
If it's my friends spending, I always try and pay my way and have a tendency to be the one who spends more. I don't mind, it's my generous nature.
If it's my boyfriend, he can spend all he wants because he knows I am worth it;)
well, for a lady... If a man spent to much money on her, I think it is just normal coz actually, spending is part of courting.
but if your a man... and a lady spent to much money on you, its either you are lucky to have a very supporting lady. Or, you are to lame to have earned for yourself and let a lady work and support for either. Either ways, it is still uncomfortable.
Not at all; being gracious with someone's generosity is mature.
i haven't had that pleasure, so i really can't answer that. i have had my wife tell me it made her uncomfortable for me to buy her so much, because other family members are needy in some areas of everyday life, such as food,etc.
Only if they spent more money on me than I did on them, otherwise no.
yeea but sometimes you still got to accept it it could be the last time someone will spend a lot on you
Yes!!! A card is something that I will always cherish, just stick with that. Did you get something good?
if he's not related 2 me then yeah it bothers me....
Yes, very uncomfortable.