How do I know if he misses me or just the benefits....?!
Question: w/out having to just come out & ask him. We're friends w/benefits but he's been telling me quite a bit lately that he misses me. Would you tell someone that you miss them if all you miss is hooking up?
Answers: w/out having to just come out & ask him. We're friends w/benefits but he's been telling me quite a bit lately that he misses me. Would you tell someone that you miss them if all you miss is hooking up?
He probably misses you AND the benefits.
Huh, did he get insurance benfits through you or something? I don't understand.
*gasp* are falling for him?
He misses the Benefits, that's all.
the direct approach is the only way to know for sure.
Yeah, me and my bf broke up and he has been telling me the same thing, I think he just misses the benefits too. We hooked up for benefits the other day but i wont do it again. I broke up with him....I want it to stay that way. : )
Well... that's the thing about sex. Not only doe sit make liars out of people, but alot of people have the trouble telling the difference between love and lust. And you have to remember, missing someone and wanting to get back together are two different things. He might miss you, but it doesn't mean he wants to get back together. He might but it's no guarantee.
I say go with whatever you think. Atleast you'll know how he feels once you do whatever you decide to do.
Buy a daisy! He loves me. He loves me not. He loves me . He loves me not. Just kidding!! Dude it really could be the benies!!
Yes..maybe..but you cannot be sure then.
its also possible that he is really missing what you are to him and not only what he is to you..
I mean if such a question is coming to your mind then i feel even all you cared about is getting hooked..
think a bit..its possible that he really loves you..ask him for a commitment rather than just making love..;)