Would you ever discuss with your partner ...?!
Question: the total number of people you have been with before him/her?
Answers: the total number of people you have been with before him/her?
Your are asking for trouble. I would'nt suggest for all couples.
Yes! I would! =)
Yep, my hubby knows. If they can't take the answer and understand that it was before they met you then they need to grow up.
yes because we were each others firsts
I have with previous boyfriends. I mean, I don't just jump right out and say it, but it's not a secret or anything. I think that if they ask, they have the right to know.
Yes, we have.
No way not in our day and age.
Sure would.
No. The older you get, the less enjoyable that conversation can be....
Yep, we've already had that talk awhile ago =]
no
yes, and i've told him honestly
No. What's the point in that? No sense in it, in my opinion.
no because they might not like how many people you been with and leave you will i hope everything work's out bye
No..... "A Few" is all the information I'll give him.
Give a truthful range not an exact list and for goodness sake do not give names!
I have already told my fiance and I know about him also he has 3 ex wives and 5 children so????? it is no secret
Sure, I'm completely comfortable lying to her.
sure, thats part of communicating and being open & honest.
He knows but it doesnt matter so why talk about it.
he already knows!
yes, you should be open in a relationship.
I'd discuss that with anyone. If I was going to be ashamed about it- I wouldn't have done it. BTW- 5.
yep. He's actually told me some funny stories about things that have happened. We didn't get together until our very late 20's. He's got a past and I sort of have a past. Laugh about it now. I don't care as long as he's with me for the long haul.
We already did.
I have....and its not a very good idea.
Men don't want to really know...even if they say they do.
Pffft, no that is an arguement in the making.
No.
Sorry~~ I am totally honest about everything.
But this is something that is not as important as we mature.
It is "What we do" with our pasts that is important.
Not "How many we do".
The number is immaterial.
The learning experience is VERY important.
Tell me you learned some valuable "Life Lessons"
Don't tell me with "how many".
When you answer those questions honestly~~then I decide if I want you as a partner.
No because it is none of their business. You are just asking for trouble. Nine times out of ten they will compare you with their previous men/women. It is better to take some things to the grave with you.
Already have.
What ever happened before us is the past, but if she really wants to know my past, I don't mind telling.
I don't recommend getting in to details of any relationship but if she wants to know a number then be as honest as possible.
These conversations usually lead to arguments so if you are as straight forward as possible you will show you have nothing to hide.
Personally it does cross my mind, but that's where it ends.