Ladies........would it piss you off?!
Question: i have put on a couple of holiday pounds.like i don't feel bad enough already.
then my husband comes up behind me the other day and said something i found kind of hurtfull.
he actually told me....."i thought fat people were supposed to be jolly"
am i wrong for getting upset?
Answers: i have put on a couple of holiday pounds.like i don't feel bad enough already.
then my husband comes up behind me the other day and said something i found kind of hurtfull.
he actually told me....."i thought fat people were supposed to be jolly"
am i wrong for getting upset?
No offense love, it's nothing to feel bad about, gaining an extra few pounds,at least people know you feed yourself!unlike society today,some woman look horrible, they need to learn to eat food!As for your husband saying,well,all I can say in all honesty is, he needs his butt kicked or something, that's a horrible thing to say!
no your not, hes lucky hes not my husband, i'd slap him
oh my damn is he still alive withhold sex he is not nice
He owes you an apology and a gift that makes you feel beautiful!
depends on how he said it, he was probably only kidding around
Well my hubby called me some mean fat names right after giving birth. So I was upset at the time. You have every right.
I would be so pissed off! What an as*
He would so be in the dog house!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope you slapped Him?
He deserves it!
No your not wrong for getting upset.
Slap him so hard he'll cry.
you have every right.
NO........you are sooooo valid in being upset.
That was a passive aggressive slam; you know a way to slam you, and then if you respond as if hurt, he can say "Oh, it's was only a joke"........it's WRONG.....and it is also mean spirited.
Confront him, and do it in a non-blaming way; say something like; When you said "______ ______ _______ ", I felt hurt and upset. Just let him know, hopefully he will understand and not do it anymore.
I would have smacked he crap out of him. Thats really mean. Maybe he was trying to be funny but it was still wrong.
depends on my husband's tone of speaking if he said it in an insulting way then maybe i'll be a little pissed off..but then if he means it as a joke then i won't mind it at all..don't let this kinds of little things destroy your marriage..i think you are so focused on your weight that you are already paranoid on what others will say to you..cheer up!!