Do you think we parents are always put down b/.c of our children?!
Question: everyone always says that parents are to blame for our childs reactions. which i see that so unbeleivable that ppl are so closed minded that they dont think about each human having their OWM BRAIN TO THINK we parents dont know what our kids are doing when they are not in sight we dont even now what theryre thinking of
SO WHY ARE WE ALWAYS TO BE BLAMED FOR OUR CHILDS REACTIONS????????????????
im a 22 year old mother with a 1 year old and i know one day she will be older and do her mistakes and all but i dont wnat to be blamed for any reactions she does on her OWN.
why is ociety like this if we as parents WANT THE BEST FOR OUR KIDS
why would we want them to ruin their life its all the contrary we want the best and if we could make them the best we would but to bad they have their own brain to think and do things
Answers: everyone always says that parents are to blame for our childs reactions. which i see that so unbeleivable that ppl are so closed minded that they dont think about each human having their OWM BRAIN TO THINK we parents dont know what our kids are doing when they are not in sight we dont even now what theryre thinking of
SO WHY ARE WE ALWAYS TO BE BLAMED FOR OUR CHILDS REACTIONS????????????????
im a 22 year old mother with a 1 year old and i know one day she will be older and do her mistakes and all but i dont wnat to be blamed for any reactions she does on her OWN.
why is ociety like this if we as parents WANT THE BEST FOR OUR KIDS
why would we want them to ruin their life its all the contrary we want the best and if we could make them the best we would but to bad they have their own brain to think and do things
I've been a parent for 26 years, and one thing that I've learned is that we can no sooner take all the blame for our kids bad behavior than we can take all the credit for our kids good behavior.
However, if you raise your kids up right from the get-go, you will tend to have better results than if you were a lazy, immature,druggy, checked-out parent.
Remember kids have their own personalities. It's up to you to teach them values, boundaries, accountability and morality. It up to them to live what they've leaned.
It depends on the age of the child. If they are little then yes, we need to help them more, but by the time they are grown ups then no. If you had a hard childhood, then I'm sorry but get some kind of help for it and more on. Stop blaming your parents for everything that goes wrong in your life.
I didn't have an easy childhood and I don't go around blaming my parents. I know that they did the best job that they could with what they had. I have 2 boys of my own and I may not always do the best job in the world, but I try my best everyday.
They have their own brain but it's your job to program it. If your kid's a little troublemaker, kicking over peoples garbage cans and treating elders like crap then yeah, it might be your fault. It's your job to teach them what's right and wrong and {I'm not saying you personally} but some parents just don't take that responsibility seriously and act like it's the schools problem or that their kid is fine and everyone's just overreacting. I think that's why kids are so wild these days, an absence of involved parenting.
I am a parent of 4 children. The best time to teach your children is up to age 4. What you teach them and train them it will stick. If you don't stick to discipline they will run over you. Kids know how to get what they want if they know your weakness. Put your foot down when you say no. And I do believe in spanking when necessary and not out of anger. As they get older its just part of becoming an adult to test their boundaries.They need to know that you will be there for them. And love them nomatter what.