Help i feel so dumb?!
Question: im 15. my mentor & i spent today together. she is 56. she is married & has 2 daughters that are old & adopted. i have known her for 6 years. she kept winking at me, giving me kisses & buying me stuff. after christmas shopping, i helped wrap stuff. then she gave me a kiss on the check, i gave her a quick big hug. normally we only give eachother kisses not hugs. she didnt say anything about it. she tells me she loves me. she treats me like a real person. help i feel so dumb for giving her a hug for the first time. what will she think of me?
Answers: im 15. my mentor & i spent today together. she is 56. she is married & has 2 daughters that are old & adopted. i have known her for 6 years. she kept winking at me, giving me kisses & buying me stuff. after christmas shopping, i helped wrap stuff. then she gave me a kiss on the check, i gave her a quick big hug. normally we only give eachother kisses not hugs. she didnt say anything about it. she tells me she loves me. she treats me like a real person. help i feel so dumb for giving her a hug for the first time. what will she think of me?
I imagine she was moved by your impulsive expression of affection and appreciation for all she's done for you. There's nothing for you to feel dumb about. To her, I bet she considered that hug a treasured gift.
Aww. Don't! She will hug you next time